I’m straight but I’ve been feeling this weird urge that I want to be sexually attracted to men instead of women. I’ve watched a lot of gay porn, even tried some oral and anal play myself. Here’s the thing: when I do the “sucking” part, my mouth just feels full—like there’s nothing more to do. And the anal part hurts a bit; it’s not exactly a turn‑on for me.I’ve had experiences where a guy with a really large cock has penetrated me – it was intense, but after that I still don’t feel any real attraction or excitement towards men. I’m craving that “horny looking at a guy and wanting to suck their cocks” vibe rather than feeling apathetic.Does anyone know if there’s a way to condition my mind so that I can actually develop sexual attraction toward men? Any tips, resources, personal stories?
>>43340502>I’m straight but>posts things that are not straight
>>43340502>psyoping yourself into real attraction from meta-attraction.Yep, you belong here.
why tho
>>43340516because I've always wanted to enjoy sucking cock, I don't really have a reason beyond that.
>>43340550uhhh okay basedAnyways as someone else started to mention, the best way to gaslight yourself into this is through meta attraction. Internalize more sexist and heteronormative ideas until through a million mental gymnastics, you become sexually aroused at even the idea of being sexually aroused at men, and then getting used to triggering this thought upon seeing a man.Downside is you will become a tranny.
>>43340578can I do this and keep my attraction to women intact? I want to aim to be bisexual not just full on gay.
you shouldnt do this. you never want to force yourself to have a fetish/paraphilia. its just gonna fuck up your life. just accept the sexuality you already have and dont try to be someone youre not.
>>43340658Yes meta attraction doesn't remove your true attraction, its basically just adding mental baggage to your sexuality
Being gay won't make you any less of a boring clod. Don't worry about it.
>>43342542I feel like the fact I'm already sucking cock and have been fucked makes me somewhat gay or having a fetish, I just want to have actual desire to do it like I do when fucking women, I want to be as horny sucking a dick as I am when I eat a pussy. I want to be able to cum getting fucked in the ass and enjoy a mans hands on me when he does it.
>>43340502>I'm straight but>posts the gayest shit imaginablePeople like you who are still in denial piss me off, get a grip nigga.Honestly flaming proud homosexuals and bi people are less lame than your ilkJust say you are bisexual and move on. Jesus christ
>>43340502>>43340658lol. but why? what do you think youll gain from "becoming" bisexual? its important that you think and understand where this desire is coming from or what purpose it serves you before you try to do gymnastics on your psyche
>>43344198I think for me when I'm horny, I think sucking a dick sounds like it'd be hot, or even being fucked, but after I finish I have no desire to do it anymore and when I've actually arranged to do it in person I have no desire to do it. I'm not disgusted, but I'm not turned on, I've never looked at a man and found him attractive even while horny I can't get off to gay porn.I want to want it when I'm actually doing it, I want to be turned on so much I can't help myself from sucking their cock.
>>43344250but WHY do you want that? look inward and try to figure out the underlying cause for this. if you aren't visually or mentally aroused by men and you're neutral about the physical sensations of engaging in sex acts with men, why do you want to want them? does having sex with only women partners leave you feeling unfulfilled somehow? are you bored and desiring new and exciting things to fill out your sex life? do you want to "have everything on the menu," so to speak? what is causing you to feel this way?
>>43344378I enjoy sex with women a lot and don't feel unsatisfied while with them, I love pretty much everything about them and am very happy with them.Most of the time that I've wanted to get fucked or suck a cock has happened while masturbating and it crosses my mind that it'd be hot or sexy to do that. On several occasions now I've either been horny enough to set up a meet with a guy or just had a few to drink and thought why not and went ahead with it. However every time I've been there in the moment even if I was horny before I just lose all interest and am a bit bored. It becomes a physical activity, not something that I mind doing but not something I want to do.I want to have the desire to do it because I know when the opportunity arises again I'm going to suck a dick again I'm going to do it, maybe it's tomorrow maybe it's 6 months from now but I'll be sucking a dick again, and I just want it to be fun when I do it.
>>43344425anon, i think you should stop engaging in these encounters if theyre just impulsive and you dont enjoy them.do you watch much porn while masturbating? maybe cut down on that, or try to identify if theres a certain fantasy or genre of porn that triggers these thoughts.
>>43340502I’m bi but I kinda get where OP is coming from. Men aren’t really that attractive, I just want them to hold me, love me, and cum inside me
>>43344790I mean it can happen if I'm watching porn or not, part of the problem for me is once it crosses my mind once it's something that will keep crossing my mind until I do it. It crossed my mind just this week which is why it's on my mind now, I'll probably be sucking a cock within the next month or so, I think the longest I went without following through was around 6 months before.Ultimately I know where these feelings lead, I know that I'll probably be on my knees again soon, but I know that I wont enjoy it as much as I feel like I could or would and I want to enjoy it.
