Using 4chan and trying to date men as a tranny really ended my honfidence really quick. Shits bleakIf i think about it, im proud of the difference between now and last year. Boobs bigger butt bigger, waist thinner, face prettier. But i cant help but remember all the time that ill never be like a cis girl and it hurts. And there are just constant reminders everywhere.Trying to date men is also just a humiliation ritual. The two options are get fetishized or get straight dudes who will ditch u the moment u show a single masculine trait and it icks them out.Ingmi
Try being a transbian, at least men exist in the real world.....
>>43356553transbians have it so easy I stgLike I couldn't go into an irl trans space without being hit on by a transbian
>>43356553(OP) Im bi, but im mostly dating men rn. I was dating t4t women earlier and it honestly was so easy
>>43356565imagine having the privilege of living near irl trans spaces with transbians in them......
>>43356575i get men messaging me 24/7. i have never been matched with a woman (trans or cis)
>>43356585Yeah i get men messaging me 24/7 too. The hard part is keeping their attention and actually dating
>>43356535> straight dudes who will ditch u the moment u show a single masculine trait and it icks them out.Aka cruising for a bruising.Important to understand straight guys are not homosexuals who are okay with men. You should be grateful they even date you whilst you still have a dick. we want women
>>43356603would be even harder if it was transbians....
>>43356611Well im very clear upfront that im trans so its on them
idk dating men didnt make me less honfident but im more bitter and misandrist.you realize how fucked up a lot of men are naturally and like i guess if i remember back to school and think of pretrans being in the social groups of men i was exposed to, thats just par for the course
>>43356636All the bs guys are forced to swallow about transwomen are women has consequences
>>43356865Why are you even here, fuck off
>>43356535> will ditch u the moment u show a single masculine trait and it icks them out.What masc traits get them running for the door the most... Is it face, body or behaviour?
>>43356897My face is fine and very feminine hairless, my behavior is moided but I think. lot of men like that. My problem is my body. My tits just arent there yet and I probably want BA. Also just wide shoulders/ribcage
I'm too lonely to care about the birth sex of my partner anymoreJust be someone who can genuinely love the other person
>>43356535maybe u cud b happy if u dropped ur massive ego?
>>43357694Whats making you say that
>>43357788why isn't a bi gut good enough for you? why can't you accept that you're trans? why is nothing good enough for you?
>>43356535
>>43357800I am bi, i like girls too, im just interested in guys atm. I dont get why thats a problem?Also yeah i am trans, i know its not healthy to compare to cis people so im trying to stop that?
>>43356535don't mimick (too much), don't hide, be the tranny you are that's the best way to find someone who loves ya
>>43357833good
>>43357607> face is fine and very feminine hairless, my behavior is moided but I think. lot of men like that.You're right about that.
>>43356535Getting fetishized isn’t real. >I like x and will stick with you because you x and you have a good personality >ahhhh noooo you only like me for this trait and nothing else about me matters ahhhhhhRetarded.
There is not really a meaningful reason people 'should' lack confidence. Funny that midwits see deconstruction and change and want to double down and be reactionaries to the thing that makes them losers in the first place.
>>43360232Ok straw man you are just making up a random person If someone told me they actually liked me for a reason like that id be happy but most of the time, people will hit on me and immediately start talking about my genitalia, like do you have no decorum can you treat me like a human
>>43356880> All the bs guys are forced to swallow about transwomen are women has consequences>Here to speak sense lol. Trannies must acknowledge they are men for a fucking start. Some can be effeminate but not all.
>>43356535i will date u nona
>>43362554but will you abandon her when the realisation hits that she has broad shoulders - thats what the babe is asking.
>>43356535Men who want you don't want you to be like a cis woman but a beautiful feminized man with a cock. Keep that in mind and you will find true love
>>43356611Straight men love dating masculine and tomboy girls. I have butch lesbian friend who gets straight men constantly falling in love with her.. liking femininity is not the same as being straight (liking women)
>>43356535>The two options are get fetishized or get straight dudes who will ditch udiscover ethical chasers
>>43363709Who are these mythical ethical chasers you speak of
>>43356576Privilege? Lmao, most trannies are disgusting undatable hons. As a passoid I’d puke to have sex with a transbian “uwu” hon
>>43363838Yeah fr, like transbians throw themselves at me, but most of them are pretty repulsive unfortunately
>>43356535why did you think men would want another anon. what is wrong with you trannies.
>>43356880it’s a pooner you’re arguing with. remind her she will never have a penis and move on.
>>43356865Damn straight youre forced to swallow :3
Is dating men really so difficult desune? They're easier than women, a lot easier, especially if you're looking for women who treat you with respect (whereas *very few* men will treat a single woman with respect. Plenty of men are gold star straight but into trans too. Foids are always scopophiliac bisexual chasers.
>>43364302>Plenty of men are gold star straight but into trans too.Thats oxymoron. They are not straight if they want a person with a penis
>>43364363They are, but you aren't
>>43364783Nah, thats a cope. Sorry. Penis x penis is homosexualGet a pussy if you want attract straights
>>43364302Yeah its easy to find a man who will pump you and dump you, i just want to find a boyfriend or at least a fwb who has respect for me and I can get along withThat part is impossible
>>43356553wut
