I hate that twink basically means male under 25 or lying trans woman and it's fucking insane that the gay community doesn't abandon this term.As an ex-twink turned tranny turned detransitioned asexual gay man, I am personally grossed out when I hear adults my age use the term. It almost seems synonymous with "underdeveloped young adult," and people freely say it openly even in irl fag spaces. I thought it was just terminally online shunted weirdos but then I realized it's a genuine thing a disturbing amount of people just repeat without thinking about how shitty and weird it is.The internet figured out how to market body dysmorphia to men I think because goddamn does this shit set you up for brutal mental anguish as you go through your 20s if you're gay. "Twinkdeath" and associated baggage should not be a thing people endorse, repeat, spread, or anything. Imagine if you talked about women like this: you would sound like a freak. Why are a shocking amount of gay people talking about young men and male aging in such a shitty and toxic way?
>>43364976people have know that twink as a word incarnates a societal attraction towards younger looking men for a while now, but imagine telling straight people they cant have barely legal porn anymore, they would literally flip the fuck out because sexuality fundamentally demands some degree of selfishnesshuman beings are fucking weird and tops go for younger people. i think its just exaggerated in the gay scene cause gay men despite having generally more stable marriages are also less incentivised to settle down as such the gay dating world is a bit more ruthlessly lookist. the obsession over adolescent queer love also doesnt help in making every gay person who came out after 18 feel like they have not lived at all, especially in our current world where people are less and less connected and generally fucking later in life
>>43365148I don't even mind lookism to an extent. I like fit men. But like, people act like balding is the end of the planet? That minute facial differences that come with growing old matter? That body hair (on any gender or person) is gross? Like Jesus it's immature, and gross as hell. Nobody who is sexually attracted exclusively to shit like this is compatible as a lifelong partner.They don't think it be like it is, but it do. Most people are fucking weird, man. I'm glad it's possible to find some semblance of normality among gay people, but when I hear a dumbass openly say "omg twinks basedjak face!!!" at a irl gay scene? Holy hell I viscerally cringe. You might as well be shout from the rooftops you're a chronic porn addict and a depraved weirdo.You are right in how you compare it to the very gross "barely legal" straight garbage.
>>43365236>my lookism is good yours is bad
>>43365267I go to the gym and can continue it to even in senile old age. My girlfriend does the same. Its a reasonable thing to expect of a partner, like brushing your teeth. Dumping the twink for balding ain't it, chief.
>>43364976>>43365236Eventually they'll all be forced to either abandon this mindset, kill themselves, or live out the rest of their life in misery. Most people have quite a bit of life left by the time they turn 30, but zoomers think this is all cope. Sometimes they imply they will an hero before getting to this age, sometimes they don't seem to really have a plan, they just don't think about it. Easy to think that way when your unc self is just a hypothetical in the future, not your current lived reality. Adapt or perish, basically. I'm not gonna spend the next several decades agonizing over the unavoidable changes that are happening to my body. Fuck that, I still wanna like, go out and do things, you know?
>>43365352TrvthI think this is actually a part of why older people hate younger people, lmfao. The dumb fucks think summer lasts forever. I sound old too, now, lmfao...
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>>43364976as i get older the more i realise the only path forward to to accept your essential nothingness, you cant paste over it with an identity, you cant have anything. people will eventually not want you anymore for selfish and superficial reasons. and theres not really anything you can do, you can transition to try and maintain femininity but that doesnt really work either, it feels hollow.
Yeah, the word "twinkdeath" is an euphemism for losing attraction to somebody as soon as he doesn't look like a child anymore, and it's fucking creepy. A lot of gay men and almost all bisexuals have this attitude, because in reality they aren't into adult men, they are into little girls, as evident by what they find attractive. Wanting an adult man look like a little girl is nothing that can work in the long-term, and thus those people are also incapable of love, and long-term relationships; they just lose attraction at some point, and move on to the next one. I don't know how this ever become acceptable or something people don't find disgusting.
>>43366719I wonder why most men are attracted to something that looks like a young girl just after puberty, can we get Scoobs to solve that riddle?
>>43366719Holy fucking trvthnvkeIn my opinion, femboy stuff sometimes borders on the same ick factor. It's comparable to straight people and e-girls.
>>43366776i think this is one of those things that everyone subconsciously suspects but nobody says out loud. im past the point of caring about it so passionately, ive just accepted that the world is a rotten place. theres nothing anybody can do
>>43366941I believe all issues in society can be fixed through people talking and culture changing. The world is always dropping shitty common practices.
>>43366988Cool, can we drop this retarded anti-pedo hysteria?
>>43366988this is something that cant fundementally be changed. if even half of all men are literally genetically hardcoded to be attracted to that, there is nothing that can be done. and bottoms (women included) play into it. its an ugly reality about sexuality and its understandable why nobody talks about it, because it destroys faith in humanity.
>>43364976Were you always asexual? Or did the HRT kill your sex drive?
Trans men sometimes call themselves twinks and it makes me go noooooooo internally
>>43367048I was raped 8 times and had consensual sex twice and I find it too traumatic overall. There's not really anything I'd say I've found mind-blowing when I experienced it consensually. That might make me asexual by nature or maybe the trauma made me traumatized. Who knows and who cares honestly.
