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Has anyone actually made a friend off of /frengen/?
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>>43368005
i'm freaking trying
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>>43368005
I've gotten one buddy off soc out of 100+ adds
Frengen is pretty boring and homogenous in comparison but it's worth a try
When i hide that I'm FtM I get way less adds but it filters annoying people.
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some guy found my post in a 4chan archive and i like him he's really smart and sweet
but yeah most of the posters are boring autistic trannies, if you are uninteresting faggot you definitely can made some friends but if you are not it's on your luck mostly
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I want like real friends who are trans and not boring :(
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>>43368005
I dated a chaser off there
it went horrible
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>>43368005
i keep opening frengen read everyone but im to scared to message anyone and i close the thread, i think ive done it like 200 times by now
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Frengen is gone. It's over.
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>>43369901
Message me randomly then and let’s see how it ends up

I promise I’m not boring (I hope so)

@palamede
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>>43368005
continously using it and i get nothing out of it i just want to speak to other mtfs that i can speak to but this board is just full of annoying faggots and chasers so i get nowhere
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>>43369932
no im sorry i cant youre not boring but i am
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>>43369945
The vast majority of posters in frengen (And lgbt/trans threads on soc) are mtf fym.
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>>43368005
i've met some rly cool ppl there
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>>43369985
yeah but theyre annoying faggots
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>>43370023
That's why I don't talk to mtfs
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>>43369945
Well what kind of things do you like/do?
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>>43370044
listen to music and make it sometimes and play games once inawhile and drink dr pepper and eat carl's jr and talk to people and wish i had a girlfriend
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IM FUCKING TRYING REPEAT REPEAT
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>>43369952
You should let me judge it at least, no one is that boring lol if you don’t like it, we can ghost each other and pretend nothing happened
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>>43368005
there was a guy i got friendly with but i had a bpdemon episode and deleted my account :( i really miss him. he had a breakfast club pfp and liked bjork
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>>43370055
You sound cool I like Dr pepper and Carl's Jr and I like to draw instead of make music and want a boyfriend instead of girlfriend but we could be friends :D
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>>43370221
i guess
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>>43368005
I added two hotties from passgen like a year ago, still friends with them
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>>43368005
I'd like to! but I'm only just a cis guy so I'd feel a bit out of place advertising there
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>>43368005
I got close once. We actually lived in the same state.
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>>43370317
Tell your @!!
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>>43368005
I'm everyone's friend
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>>43368005
I went on a date with a passoid from there
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>>43370251
Slay cool my discord is @gutterhon_00342 add me!!!
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Yeah I talk to some people from frengen still. Lots of people just disappear though. I'm guilty of it too, sometimes I just don't feel like DMing people again.
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>>43370340
Bweehh!!
historically some people have had issues adding it because of how short it is...
@ibi
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>>43370655
It says you don’t accept friend requests :(
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>>43370676
Wait wait!! Try now... I think I fixed it
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>>43368005
I befriended a brickhon but he ended up raping me :c
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>>43370076
see i was..sorry for wasting your time
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Here is a Xavier: Renegade Angel quote relevant to your post
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I met the coolest girl on here but from her own thread and not from friendgen
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>>43371220
Which thread?
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dated a girl off there
went horribly
I kind of have a friend but she's bussy chasing hard and busy too
I'm cis dude BTW so not a lot of dudes wanna talk to you cause they're just chasing
at some point you just have to go outside lol
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>>43368005
I got a boyfriend and I've made 3 friends over 4 years
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>>43371244
Standing with you in solidarity, my brother
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>>43371243
I would rather not say on case she is looking
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>>43368005
I get unadded
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Every time I post in threads like that, it reminds me that I have no personality and have nothing to offer anyone
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>>43368005
>frengen
you mean the place where people add you to their 8th discord account?
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>>43371860
I USE MY MAIN ACCOUNT, BECAUSE I'M BALLSY, I'M A STUD. I DON'T NEED TO WORRY ABOUT HAVING A SKIN TO SHED IF I MAKE A MISTAKE, UNLIKE YOU
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>>43368005
I actually did, very, very recently!
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>>43368005
No it's just chasers and foreign third world trolls, I'm not even joking
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>>43372301
Incorrect
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>>43368005
I met a FWB from their
>t.chaser
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I met one of the most special person from the threads who has affected me so much I still think about her to this day. I miss her.
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>>43368005
I've made exactly one out of like 15 people. He's great, though, and absolutely was worth kicking around frengen for a while
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>>43368005
Yeah I've met a couple people I've been friends with for over a year now. I've been using it for a couple years now and most of the people are incapable of talking about themselves or think they're the most interesting person in the world. You have to know how to talk to people though
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>>43368005
bad idea.
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>>43368005
i met one off there that i ended up having these longg email like exchanges with. i looked forward to their responses everyday, but i went to delete my account to self isolate, and when i found their account again it was deleted. =(. wish i didnt do that and still had contact with them. they were like one of two online friends i ever cared for.
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I am searching for my wife, probably not finding her on 4troon tho lol
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>>43373577
standards?
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>>43373594
I get close to someone and I just start seeing things I don't like or we aren't compatible in certain ways.
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>>43373577
Same and real.
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>>43373594
>>43373668
We all keep saying this and forget that there might be normal people around here. Sometimes I’m willing to find my 4chan wife

Then I talk to some people, they ghost me and I remember why I thought it was a bad idea
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too scared to talk to random people just from a thread, so no.. Plus, they all seem like npcs or weirdos
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>>43373681
its rlly over im so isolated fuck
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>>43373736
If you ever wanna talk, I’m pretty lonely too and my night is quite boring rn, you are not alone
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>>43373736
>>43373736
Same
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>>43373885 its pretty scary to meet someone from here but same desu i would probbly give it a shot
im 21 mtf :3 and u?
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>>43368005
i met one of my really good friends there
i also met my psychopathic abusive ex there
its a bit of a mixed bag
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>>43374168
>i also met my psychopathic abusive ex there
do explain, im trying to gauge how i rate to most exes from here
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>>43374195
pretty sure she lurks here still so i dont wanna be too specific but to speak generally there was very intentional love bombing then trauma bonding followed by months of emotional abuse
it was all calculated carefully in order to get me to abandon all boundaries or respect for myself
she would use my known insecurities as insults in front of my friends and coworkers, make plans with me just to blow me off in leu of the guy she was cheating on me with, and pressured me into addictions and other things that i carry a burdenous amount of shame for now, just to name a few general common themes
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>>43374250
Fuck man, I feel for you
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>>43374250
some of these instances were legitimately traumatic and i still relive them if i think abt it too much
like she fucked me up for real and i am no longer capable of normal connection
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guide on how to make friends and meet memorable people on frengen or soc:
- avoid MtF and F (FtM too but based on how they word their ad. if it seems more F than M dont bother) unless they seem reallyyy interesting
- don't add drones that have the same interests as everyone else (just anime and games). your interests shape who you are and having npc taste makes you a low value person
- if they mention that they are looking for a relationship (even if they say they are also looking for friends) DO NOT ADD
- do not add people with "not looking for: blacks jews gays trannies normalfags" they are the real ""normalfags""
- do not add anyone that looks like they are busy. (mentions of jobs or relationships). if you come home from your 9-5 you're not gonna talk to some random guy from 4chan. they almost always waste your time
- if you see their ad often DONT ADD THEM
- if you want to add them check their post history on some archive by searching their discord username. you dont want to talk to someone who posts their asshole on soc.
This basically filters 90% of people and still wont guarantee that you will have a good conversation
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>>43374317
The best way to find people to talk to is to post your own tag. Even with high standards, you never know if someone is going to be nice to talk to until you speak to them for a few days. And, most people do work 9-5 jobs, if you're seeking to speak to neets your other standards will fall apart, or you probably don't meet them yourself. People who are "busy" make time to speak to the people they actually enjoy speaking to. I will not speak to most of my online friends frequently, save for one, who I will have phonecalls with on my lunch and smoke breaks. All you gotta do is be good friends. I am just not that interested in my other friends lives that much.
The best advice I can give to making pals is to be less formal, find a reason to speak to someone 1 on 1. Who gives a fuck about what vidya you like unless you are both actively attempting to play something together. Who gives a fuck about what music you guys like unless you are both actively searching and want to jerk eachother off about it, if that's your thing. If your conversations are equatable to discussions that happen on interest specific boards, it's not going to go anywhere.

>if they mention that they are looking for a relationship (even if they say they are also looking for friends) DO NOT ADD
This is the most accurate part. They'll never let it go. They'll always push you or hit on you or be weird. People openly seeking LDR/sexting are not worth speaking to.
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>>43374494
>>43374317
Are you saying this from the perspective of someone only seeking friends? If so that makes sense I guess but I still feel called out. I only want a relationship so somehow this makes me some kind of undesirable? If this is what you're saying I think you might be the toxic npc in the equation. If it isn't nevermind. Like I dont need more friends but the ones I do meet I dont hit on but here you've both made blanket statements demonizing people who want a partner. i dont get it...

also the thing about "not looking for blacks etc" being npcs are you mentally ill? everyone on this board almost is a deranged libtard who will go ballistic if you dont agree on every single one of their views. i wasted a year on some autistic fuck that was like that, completely unable to take a chill moderate approach to anything ever. also why are people not allowed to not be attracted to blacks or whatever token minority the woke are championing this week? why must you police everyone?
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The one thing I never understood about the posters I saw in frengen was that most were already partnered and it made me wonder how that happens
I'm probably biased but if I was partnered, I'm not trying to make more friends
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>>43368005
I met my boyfriend from there, but I'd like to make some friends from there too
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I met my wife on frengen!! lolz
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>>43368005
dated someone off of here and it didn't go too badly. we only lasted like 6 months but we remain friends after. made a couple of other good friends off of frengen too, but it's nobody in my actual area tragically.
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>>43374885
Those are the same ones that whine about having no one in their life or being all alone while having more than one person professing their love to them for over 7 months and spending the majority of their time with those people. Disgusting.
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We talk they dont talk for a week afterwards i delete them. The cycle continues
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>>43368005
I've made like 6 or so long-term friends off frengen, and I've dated like 5 people from frengen. Only slept with a few of those five, but that's not important.
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>>43368005
one time posted my face a tranny added me and then flew to me within a month
turns out she had knifesex with some older tranny mentor figure before visiting me even though we considered ourselves to be dating/exclusive
WCYD
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>>43379484
:(
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I met my best friend on this board but not on frengen, as for the people I met through frengen, nothing has really materialised beyond some random conversations, just never really clicked with people
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>>43379513
theme
https://youtu.be/GaZLVPmViTg
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>>43374317
>if you come home from your 9-5 you're not gonna talk to some random guy from 4chan.
but that's exactly why i post on frengen, i come home every day to an empty apartment



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