so just some basic context my coworker (cisf) and i (boymoder) flirt a lot with each other during work, shes done some kinda weird things (putting a dog leash on me, snapping her fingers to get my attention, showing me chewed up food in her mouth,,) and shes also said that i am like the second hottest person there (after her ofc) but like how do i know if she actually likes me and this isnt just something we do to make the time go by quicker. i really like her but im scared to make a move (because tranny lol) i dont want to come off as a rapehon. we dont really have a lot of shared interests desu like we both smoke weed but i cant smoke around other people cause i get all nonverbal but she said she wants to take me to a drag show even tho i hate drag i will probably take her up on it if she invites me but idk.
>>43370745kiss her faggot
>>43370745aaagghh this is kind of brutal bc it sounds like she dos genuinely want u, but its all complicated bc she thinks ur a boy.the first hurdle is that, basically. so you have to come out to her but try to do it in a way that doesnt friendzone u. does she like girls??
>>43370771oh i forgot to mention that i am out to her but i still boymode,, i smoked with her once and admitted i was on estrogen and she has gendered me female recently
>>43370745Sounds like she wants a little puppy to use and abuse. Then she'll leave you devasted. She's buttering you up to get what she wants cisfoids are good at that. I'd stay far the fuck away.
yeah... definitely go to the show, as getting outside of work environment will let u get a better idea.and then after that u can propose the next meetup and make it be at a place that facilitates romance.youare nowhere near rapehon territory, obv. also again! does she like girlsssss
>>43370812she is lesbian yes
>>43370799dont listen to the bitterhons op
>>43370799u sound jealous.,
>>43370745>putting a dog leash on mewhere tf do you work?
>>43371637well its a plant store but people like to bring their dogs in so we keep one up front so they are leashed,,
>>43370745she's a repressed trans man and it's not going to work out long term between you two because of itanyway go up to her and be like "why are you not making a move when you're going to be the boy in the relationship anyway" and pressure her to man up and it'll either work and you'll get trapped in a relationship where you're both gay and covertly misgendering each other or it'll fail, probably for the best anyway
Part of lesbian courtship is the "are we dating or are we just weird friends" dance. Invite her to some stuff outside work and see how it goes.
