My bf and I have been together for a few years, and at first it was great, but now I feel like a piece of meat on the side for him and i don't know what to do anymore. Firstly, he always likes to show off his interests and will go on for hours on end but whenever I want to show or talk about my interests it takes only 3 minutes before he goes on his phone and ignores me or gets agitated and asks to change the subject or to do something else, it got to a point where I was picking out a movie to watch for my birthday and he started yelling at me and I haf to let him pick the movie instead. Secondly, we've been together for years but have never had sex. It's been an on and off thing but now every time I offer to send nudes or anything he'll take any excuse he can to say "no" such as "I'm watching a video rn not tonight" or "I'm busy playing video games" meanwhile he follows a bunch of porn accounts anf still has a grindr account with his real name and face on there and still doesn't deactivate it despite me expressing how it makes me uncomfortable. Thirdly, he always wants to talk about the hardships he has to deal with when he still lives with his parents and never has to get a job meanwhile he gets angry with me every time I complain about work or the financial situations I have to deal with. I really don't know what to do anymore, in the early years I was ready to dedicate my whole world to him and now I feel like there's no reason to live anymore.
>>43374563t4tis better
>>43374563Dump him. Why an ahole
>>43374606That sure helps a lot
>>43374633nothing will "fix" your relationship with an asshole, break up with him and choose better option next time
>>43374563sounds like he is a narcissist or at the very least self-absorbed. The grindr thing is very questionable, why wouldn’t he delete his account in a relationship??? I think you should have a serious talk about his sexuality and the relationship as a whole and depending on how that goes, maybe break up. Love is hard to find for us, but being single is better than being with someone who only hurts you amd frankly, he sounds like a loser too
>>43374563Taking the time to reply to this at 3am my time but it's okay to move on, I lost nine years of my life on someone who wasn't the one. It's okay to move on, there is someone out there wholl love you for you, it's scary in the moment to think about but in the long run you'll be so much happier. Don't go with the flow at youre own expense. I hope you do what I found to hard to do until my hand was forced, go find your happiness in the world, it's hard but it's worth it.
