>friend invites me to lesbian hangout drinks thing>feeling honfident>makeup, nice outfit, feeling good>talking to new people, friend refers to me as she several times (enabling tranny delusion out of politeness)>they they they they>(woah is that a tranny) just double checking your pronouns>go home and cut myself
>>43375941is your friend cis
>>43376009yes
>>43376015oh ok lol she was trying to demoralize you
Trannies and female humiliation rituals, bame a more iconic duo
>>43376074probably for the best at least now i know i should go back to hrtrepping
>>43376098Imo you should keep doing rle until you pass or become emotionally unbreakable. Lesbain night is probably the worst possible thing to start girlmoding in that's like a shark tank
>>43376110i was feeling honfident cos ive been socially transitioned at work for a while but i think it's hugboxxing
>>43376122I feel you anon. I had my honfidence shattered pretty brutally like this too. It's embarrassing in the moment but you can use it as inspiration to take your transition further. I guess my best advice would be to not take getting gendered male or female too seriously because you never know what that person is actually thinking. Doing your thing and not being constantly anxious will help your passability more than sweating every encounter with another person.
cis lesbians dont know how to act around trans women they didnt do it intentionally, they assume that every trans person is some shade of non binary because gender non conformity and they/them pronouns are so much more common with lesbians, i say this because ive unintentionally done the same thing before. ultimately dont take it too hard they were being nice to the best of their knowledge. but fuck sometimes i wish i went to lesbian hangouts like that solely so i could clue people in on how to treat trans women correctly because genuinely they are clueless and it ends up hurting so many trans girls, it deeply pains me really.
>>43376271I have a lesfriend who they/thems everybody, even cis people
>>43376325yeah this too some lesbians just they/them on principle they do it to everyone, i respect it honestly
>>43376271yeah they were really friendly which is kinda the worst part. there was another time i got misgendered by a cis girl and she then apologised and kept telling me how she respects me or whatever which was even more humiliating than being called a man
>>43376271>women who are into women assume you're a third gender thing and not a womanawesome
>>43376397it's not that they wouldn't view you as a woman if you just told them that you're not nb, i mean most of them see nb as woman+ anyway.
>>43376951they view theyfabs as woman+ and theymabs as dangerous sexual predators trying to infiltrate woke spaces.
>>43376110so here's a story. when I first came out as trans I went with a friend to another friend's house, I don't recall if I told her or my friend did but she just starts taking off her top. I turned around out of politeness, it was really jarring.
>>43377872you're thinkig of terfs, terfs think that, lesbians arent a terf monolith.
>>43376271i.e. they think we're men who wear dresses great and they're more interested in making sure everyone knows they noticed and they're woke enough to say "they" instead of "he" than in respecting us>>43377989i recently went to a friend's house she answered the door in just her underwear it was strange (we are not lesbians!)
>>43376122It is. Depending on where you work, not hugboxing you could result in your coworkers getting sent to hr
>>43376397Well yeah if it's obvious that you're not a woman
>>43376951NB is just woman+ anyone who says otherwise is coping
>>43375941It's not their fault. Nonbinary's have ruined it for us.
>>43378275idk if this is normal behavior between cis women or what.
>>43378851Yes ciswomen undress and change clothes around each other all the time
>>43378851>>43378864okay but i am not cis so why did she do it?
>>43376271been there as the tranny surrounded by lesbians. this is generally truethey also hit on me a lot regardless, so...
>>43378892Idk you'd have to ask her
Always manmode, never honmode.
>>43379619i did at the time she said we were both girls so it didn't matter
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