So I've been in an relationship with my gf for almost 2 years now. I pass to all people that I meet and haven't been misgendered in 4 years. New people that meet me and get to know I'm trans tell me that they wouldn't have guess. My gf passes visualy as well. The only thing that makes her clocky is her untrained voice and sometimes weird fashion sense. We also live in a very rightwinged place. So two girls holding hands is reasing a lot of eyebrows here. The problem is that I sometimes think that being with her makes me more clocky.For example: We were grocery shopping and at the checkout there was a person in line before us. She looked at us an then normaly looked forward. My gf then said something to me and she would turn around again, as if she were double checking but they looked at me for some reason and not at her. This has happened multiple times. They would turn around to double take and somehow looked st me despite her being the one that said something. Maybe its in my head but idk. It makes me self conscious. I do love my gf but I think being with a man would make me fit in more.Anyone here in a t4t relationship feel the same?
>>43377006yes it makes it worse for both of youthere are plenty of trans women i wouldve never clocked if they were just out with cis guys, but with another trans woman can make passoids clockable
>>43377006>we live in a very rightwinged place.Move. I wouldn't reccomend those places to cissies let alone trannies.
>>43377006Yes being around other trannies makes you more clockable regardless of how well you pass because the clockiness transfers to the group. Conversely when you are with a cis man you end up passing better even if you are clocky because others assume that he is just with an ugly/unique looking girl
Personally that has never been a factor for clocking trans women to me
>>43377027I thought so and it makes me miserable. I don't know what to do. I wont hold hands with my gf in public anymore to not raise more suspicion but still. I can't break her heart. The thought to live stealth and have a bf (I'm bi) is really desirable..>>43377053I want to but its hard since I have a good paying job here etc>>43377073So i should just have been with a man huh..
>>43377124Seriously do you have other problems with your relationship?
>>43377124i mean i think you should just move to an accepting area, its hard to avoid and not worth breaking up over
>>43377006I remember one time I was really drunk and my friend ran Into a transbian couple and she was talking to the masc/seme one and I found out we had the same nameso I asked why she chose itand she just locked at me confused anyways turns out she was cis
>>43377006tell her to voice train for your sake
>>43377006holy shit how the fuck did get someone who loves you but still worried if cissoids who browse instagram reels for 18 hours a day can tell that you're trans. give her to me I wouldn't give a fuck if makes me clocky
>>43377124oh nvm of course youre a biscum, shocking
>>43377006ngl nona, that's kinda narrow minded that you're considering dumping someone because they _might_ cause you to get clocked, especially since there's like no evidence of it
>>43377245everyones bi, some ppl just chose to be gay or straight
>>43377266>corrective rape rhetoricexpect nothing less from you
>>43377285insane reach
No such thing as a passing tranny, even more so when it comes to your mannish voice. You’re delulu
this is a ropefuel larp. well i hope it is. if it's real, please give all your money to ur gf and then walk into the ocean op
>>43377294>being capable of critical thinking is a reachbitch if you wanna fuck moids go ahead, just don't pretend everyone suffers from the same mental illness as you
>>43377006If I discovered that my girlfriend is talking about my like this a bought a rifle I blow up my Brains out in front of her
>>43377369thas why im thinking this is prob ropefuel larp. it's too perfectly demoralizing 2 b a real story
>>43377332>being capable of critical thinkingvery agp
>>43377006yes, even if ur a twinkhon if you are seen with a taller guy and you give off the idea that you are together youll get clocked way less. date whoever u like though, if ur plan is to dump someone ur happy with just because youre a hon yourself then ur deeply retarded
>>43377266rare cow bad take desu
