basically as the title says, im in love with my best friend. we knew each other for a couple of years but really started hanging out about a year ago and idk what to do. were both trans (im mtf and he is ftm) and he is such a nice person both to me and generally, he has great music taste, great conversations everything good a person can have he has. we're both pre transition because were both in poverty and in eastern europe, but i told him i am going to get us both hrt in any way i can and he was over the moon because of it. he multiple times said i would make a great partner and even slapped my ass in public once. we hang out often on this overpass above abandoned train tracks where we can chat freely and smoke but we often hit up thrift stores together and find cool clothes. only thing that would ruin our hypothetical romantic relationship is the fact im a sex repulsed asexual and he is hypersexual (which will get worse on t i reckon) and i know if we ever got together if i could ever satisfy him sexually. but i wanna cuddle him, i wanna bake homemade food with him, i wanna watch movies and anime with him and ughhhh i just wanna spend more time with him. i love him i truly wish i could be with him but idk if he loves me and could be with me because of his high sex drive. were both 18 so we wont be lateshits when we start trooning out in a month or 2 so i guess theres still a chance hormones can make him love me but thats just hope atp. call me as many slurs as you want, but is this pinnacle of st4t yearning?
>>43378385i never understood how sex related stuff could ruin a relationship. i myself am pretty sex repulsed so that might be stunting my understanding of this but leaving someone u claim to love just because ''they dont satisfy u sexually'' seems very weird to me.anyway, it sounds like u two would make a great couple. u should confess to him nona. won't say im happy for u because im seething with jealousy but i hope stuff goes well for u both and i hope ur relationship with ur friend can blossom into a happy healthy romantic one
>>43378385That's very cute, I hope you two can make it work. If it's just that one thing, I'm sure you can make it work. I understand your fear as someone who has hangups about sex, but everything else sounds so sweet that it's worth going for. I'm honestly jealous
>>43378782not opsex is a very fundamental part of life. we are animals, after all. we as humans have created all kinds of societal rules and social constructs around sex, but [most] people still have a natural drive to seek sexual fulfillment, so within romantic relationships it's as much a need as love/emotional fulfillment. not having their sex drive satisfied within a monogamous relationship is one of the main reasons couples break up.
>>43379547i see. to me love seems like something that could transcend animalistic desires such as sex even in the case of non asexual/sex repulsed people but i guess thats not true. thats kinda sad
>>43378782op here, basically what another comment said, we are animals and most of us crave sexual interaction (im built different) and i want to satisfy him fully. i know i never could but god i wish i was with him
>>43379957cruel world
