My online boyfriend is trying to detransition me, but I'm too socially isolated to stop talking to him because I have no one else I talk toI lied that I'd stop HRT, as he said he would stop talking to me if I didn't; I'm obviously not going to do that
>>43380230You don't deserve hrt if you're this unwilling to stand up for yourself.
>>43380230he is attempting to manipulate you into doing things you don't want to do, because he is the only person in your life, he is using this to his advantage... be wary and attempt to make another friend so you can fall back on them instead... before things get worse and you have to cut yourself daily to avoid having your blackmail released
>>43380349I have rationalised that the pain of being alone outweighs the pain of lying. I've tried to stand up for myself before, and I've spoken to him many times about how much he hurts me when he says certain things, but he doesn't listen>>43380353Thankfully, he has nothing to blackmail me with
leave the man behind. if he one day leaves you for other reasons, and based on what you are saying about his character I think that's not unlikely, you will regret ever allowing yourself to be put in this position. stay strong nona, even if it feels impossible now I promise there are guys out there who are not going to do this sort of nasty mind game with you
hey anon. i was in this situation. i ended up throwing it away. the dysphoria came back so badly i ended up getting back on estrogen anyways. learn from my mistake, ditch the mean guy.
>>43380230Why are you edating gincel?
>>43380230you need to stand up for yourself. no one can do it for you, you have to do it yourself. even if you can't see the outcome clearly, you have to take a leap of faith if you want to overcome this situation.
OP you’re retarded, just break up. don't detransition just for someone who doesn’t even like you
>>43380717I'd never do that!! I am just lying to him>>43380551All of you are so kind to me
>>43380230I'd treat you better nona
>>43380230he's evil block him
