>cis female friends told me to dump my boyfriend of 4 years because he hasn't proposed to me yet and that he's wasting my timei-is that bad to not be married or engaged after 4 years? our relationship is pretty comfy. we never fight or anything and we just enjoy each other's company but we've never talked about marriage...
Bichud is holding onto his boobtwink and doesn't want to go through the dating process again>4 years?You sound like you're 19 or something and your high school sweetheart is supposed do propose at age 20, lmfao
>>43383059Rushing into marriage is dumb. Foids are dumb and divorce men like they're changing tampons. Just ignore them.
>>43383059maybe talk to your boyfriend about it instead of random faggots on the internet
>>43383059Modern cis women have a warped idea of marriage so I would not take any advice from them.
nah wait till 7 years, that's more the length were it starts to get a bit ridiculous, not getting married under 5 is relatively common in the modern era
>all this casual misogynythis is why we hate trannies.
>>43383059feel like this heavily depends on where you're from, like it would make sense in a developing country like pakistan or the usa
Congrats, OP. Now you're seen as female by cisfoids. Which means you're now fair game for the intra-sexual competition among females.No, you absolutely shouldn't dump your boyfriend. Don't let others (especially other women) sabotage your relationships.
>>43383202>ruin modern relationships>take no accountabilityTruly the cis foid way.
>>43383059DO NOT LISTEN TO YOUR STUPID FRIENDS AND THROW AWAY A PERFECTLY GOOD RELATIONSHIP OVER SOME DUMB SHITLITERALLY NOTHING CHANGES AFTER MARRIAGE EXCEPT NOW THE GOVT IS INVOLVED. IT'S STILL THE SAME RELATIONSHIP. THEY'RE SINGLE AND/OR SOUR ABOUT YOUR GOOD RELATIONSHIP AND ARE TRYING TO SABOTAGE ITIF YOU LEAVE, YOUR BF WILL FIND ANOTHER GIRL THAT APPRECIATES HIM AND YOU'LL CRY ABOUT IT FOREVER. ONLY LEAVE A RELATIONSHIP FOR VALID REASONS LIKE IRRECONCILABLE DIFFERENCESYES, I'M YELLING ALL OF THIS OUT ON PURPOSE
>>43383059Why don't you have a conversation with him about marriage then? Personally I'd be feeling the itch by that point, but maybe he has his own thoughts about it. It's best to just ask him directly.
>>43383319say it louder for those in the back
>>43383059>i NEED to get married at 21 with someone I have no chemistry with because i just DO okay, being independent would force me to have identity and agency and I would rather tear all my skin off than thatwhy are americans like this istg. most soulless and parasitical culture regarding human relationships as a whole.>>43383202>cis man blows up building in general proximity tranny is also in>'how could trannies do this'why are you obsessed. you actually think this >>43383105 obese motherfucker is a tranny. shut the fuck up.
>>43383258Women did nothing to modern relationships other than choosing to be full-fledged individuals who act on their agency, if that ruins a relationship i don't think they are the party that should be faulted
>>43383059if marriage is your end goal, like it is for many women, since it is sort of the confirmation that they love you so much they're willing to stake EVERYTHING on that they are Not gonna leave, then it's weird he hasn't married you yet, unless y'all are below 25. Even then Never talking about marriage is ridiculous, which makes me think neither of you want to be married, to anyone not just each other, and are either just spending time or don't believe in the marriage bs (which is commendable)basically. if you wanted to get married you would have been thinking about it much much before the 4year mark, which probably means you don't even want marriage and are just happy spending boyfriend girlfriend time.
>>43383413It's entirely possible that nona hadn't even considered it before her friends brought it up.
toxic thread
>>43383059Most cis women can't even get a relationship that lasts one year these days.
>>43383434yeah now that you mention it, a lot of trans women forget entirely about marriage because in childhood they've been conditioned, as boys are, to see it as the "ball and chain" so they don't tend to envision themselves in wedding dresses and cry about their families seeing them up in the altar, unless they're exceptionally hsts or the "knew before age 5" type
>>43383492There's also the fact that a lot of us didn't think we'd live to be adults.
>>43383413>if marriage is your end goal, like it is for many women>>43383492third world af istg
>>43383059I feel like arbitrarily setting time limits on these sorts of things just ends up ruining relationships that could have lasted. If you and your bf are happy then stay the way you are. If marriage is in your future then it'll happen naturally, you don't need to add stress or pressure to the relationship.
>>43383520malebrained ball and chain mentality at work
>>43383505trvke
>>43383059My bf married me after one year. Your bf is not serious with you if you are still dating after 4 years together
>>43383384This. Men are mad that women don't have to marry them anymore just to survive>>43383413My man was 22 when he proposed me. We are both over 30 now and share surname. You bf is never gonna marry you if it takes longer than two years. He will waste your youth and you are left old and alone in the end
>>43383059>cis female friends told me...not valuable information
