At age 40, married, kids, mortgage and everyone knows me as straight. Wife knows I like being confused by men who are very feminine looking, acting and submissive. We been watching rupaul together. Its an opportunity to show her which ones work best for me. But Its JUST a kink. The most I want out of this and I haven't pitched it to the wife though I think shell be open minded is I want a "side quest". I'm very vanilla. Not looking for love or necessarily even sex. At most just flirt, mess around, and treat it all as a game without causing hard feelings or misunderstandungs. Maybe try it once and figure out what it is. Wife is full blown lesbian she tells me and I've let her do stuff with other women. I still just wanna proceed with caution. I'm into cis genders that are just good at fooling my senses. I am wary if all these titles like " ladyboy, femboy, etc." Anything with the word "boy" just makes me cringe. Sounds like a sketchy pipeline I'm strictly into adults like age range in the 30s. I'm unfamiliar with most LGBTQ stuff so 90% of what I say will be ignorant or offensive without me intending to be. How do I integrate this?
i’m so sorry
>>43386082nigga you're wifes a lesbo ur essentially in a lavender marriage i dont think she'll give a fuck if you fuck a ladyboy on the side.
>>43386200I'm going to have to google "lavender marriage". Yea I grew up that ignorant of all this. I'm vanilla I don't go for fucking up the ass. I'm more of a frotting and dry humping fetishist.
>>43386082>im in a fake marriage getting cucked on the reg, can i download Grindr without things getting complicated?Bro it’s too late for you, may as well just kill yourself so your wife can find a real man (female)
Hi if your wife is a lesbian than your wife has been fisted and had girls open their hands in her cunt and she has taken straps up her ass while eating pussy. I know this because I am a lesbian. You're sitting here worried ablut word games when if your woman is telling you shes a lesbian theres no way to be "the man" anymore because she got dug out by a dyke. So anyway make your relationship one where you both have same sex relationships and stop worrying about the shame aspect. Especially because your wife already eats pussy. Send her my way faggot.
>>43386444Lol yea but we still have sex. Maybe if you were one of our in person peers I'd send her your way but your not. Are you saying lesbians get each other off better than men get women off?
>>43386539So shes bi?
>>43386539This cannot be a real question. Dude most lesbians are former straight girls who broke up with some dude and then had their first orgasm with a girl. If straight girls were not secretly hedging their bets on needing a man for kids or a fallback plan for being losers, they would have to be with women just from better sex alone. Have you ever literally ruined a girls pussy for anyone but you and then had her follow you around like charles manson because she is now your property? Of course not your wife likes pussy. Go jerk off to gay fantasies faggot.
>>43386576Yea. I call it bi. But she says she's a lesbian. But only straight for me. Lol. I don't really care about all these identities I prefer to go with the flow. Even though I haven't yet really tried "going with the flow" yet obviously otherwise I wouldnt be here asking "what do I do with this".>>43386613>Go jerk off to gay fantasies faggotWith pleasure. Till I can get the real thing. ;)
>>43386082Holy fuck yer stupidIgnore the thoughts
>>43386652If she says shes a lesbian but you disagree? Maybe shes just faking orgasms to be polite and may even resent you on some level
>>43386082Boomers are such awful weird tasteless perverts
>>43386653Ah. Keeping Pandora's box closed. A valid perspective indeed.>>43386671No I don't disagree shes into women. If she's faking orgasms to be polite I will never know. And if she resents me for it then that would be a rude awakening but I could get over it. She hasn't said that yet though.. Soooo... This is speculative
>>43386082Oh dear... OP, if I read this correctly, this is gonna be a whole thing. If your wife is a lesbo (???), then hopefully at least this could make things easier. You're being very glib with all of this and it's hard to tell for sure what you are saying, but if you want to live as a girl or something other than a man, then there's a good 90% chance you are trans. Same if you allow yourself moments to be free to be a gender other than the one assigned to you at birth.I.can tell you that no matter what, being yourself is better than living a lie, no.matter what that entails save concerns for physical safety,, and in that case, you at least should try your best to be yourself in whatever capacity you are able to me be yourself like even if its just dressing up at home.Also, please stop watching RuPaul. That show is trash and RuPaul is a pickme. It can give you the wrong idea, if even subconsciously, about the queer community and obviously something tells me it will be very important for you to straighten this out.
>>43386671Not OP, but sexuality is very complex anon. She's obviously saying she's mostly only into women, but happens to also be into OP. This happens a lot.The labels we use for human sexuality are all very crude and rough. Though, in this context, this could be something else going on... like the way OP carries themselves or subconsciously styles themselves or something attracts her...
Lesbian ends up marrying the one girl its socially acceptable for her to be with. Suprisingly many such cases.
