how often do you get misgendered going off appearance alone? for me it's like once every 4 months even without speaking and it's brutal because i've even had ffs and some revisions. like i can go for months without being misgendered despite manmoding and then someone drops sir or something similar sounding. i sometimes cope with it by thinking it was either not said at me or that i misheard or it's someone in my small town of 3000 people that has heard me talk before, and considering that i'm a schizo and am always expecting to hear sir everywhere, i may actually be mishearing people sometimes. it's so weird because how would i go for months without being misgendered if i clearly looked like a man?
uhh back in february? my dentist misgendered me
>>43390352mine does this every time idk wht it is about dentists
>>43390354tranny teeth
>>43390354for me i think it was bc she was super close up to my face. like, for casual interactions or from afar its not a problem for me, but when my face is being examined its obvious
>>43390312every time, never malefailed.. sorry for you nona but be grateful>>43390354before you come in they probably see your medical record?
Someone explain the joke pls
>>43390392>they probably see your medical record?this too, they had to refer to me by my legal name
>>43390392he has his record i hope he doesn't have any others but i've been going to this guy since the 90s so he remembers
>>43390312>how often do you get misgendered going off appearance alone?Never.I still don't pass.None shall.
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>>43390312Never>>43390463I do, not everyone is an ugly hon
>>43390312The only times I get misgendered these days is when a kid asks if I'm a boy or a girl and then will say how I look or sound like a boy when I give them an answer. But everyone else defaults to she for me.
>>433903124 years ago somebody referred to me as a they/it so I guess that’s it
>>43390312considering even my family doctor is asking about my period in a backwards shithole europeean country I probably pass a little
>>43391579>>43391574>>43391560>>43391554damn, everyone else is a passoid, meanwhile i got misgendered twice in the past year
>>43390312It's funny seeing these posts because I get misgendered 99% of the time nearly 5 years in. I pass over the phone consistently I'm pretty sure but it's maybe two or three times a year I get gendered female to my face, and I only was gendered female for the first time over 3 years in. It's not as if I'm a permamanmoder either, I'd say I girlmode/"boymode" (aka don't wear makeup and wear jeans) 50/50 most of the time. I totally understand the pain of getting misgendered but it's just a little funny hearing a manmoder complain about getting misgendered only a few times a year.
>>43390312Note at all but I think is more to do in My language that you don't need to gender someone to talk to them
>>43390312the pharmacist called me a "he" when I went out in full girlmode. shit hurt even though she corrected herself, ngl. just another reminder that I'm a failed male, not a woman fmstl.
>>43391711>I get misgendered 99% of the time nearly 5 years ini'm sorry nona :(>>43391787>the pharmacist called me a "he" when I went out in full girlmodeyeah this is why i'm never going to girlmode, i always dress with enough plausible deniability that a cis guy could dress like this too, though i have tranny bangs so maybe i'm just a honmoder and am coping by saying that it's a haircut a guy could have as well
i never malefailed...................
>>43391554Why would you need to be an ugly hon to get misgendered?
>>43390312There are only 2 types of instances in which I've been misgendered.The first instance was pretransition when I already looked like a girl and people mistook me for one.The second instance is during online games when people only have my chat messages to go off of and call me a guy.After transitioning, no one has ever misgendered me. My voice never dropped. I have always, during my entire life, looked unmistakably female. I started taking hormones at age 12. I'm 20 now.Yes I'm on my high horse right now, and yes I'm bragging. But hey, the question was asked so I'll answer.
>>43393227damn it's so over, it has never even begun for us hons who started hrt at like 16 and 17
>>43390364if this becomes the new brainworms meme for a hot second I'll have a good chuckleI still remember tonguepassing
>>43393227I used to post like this but then I realized I was being kind of a bitch. Like you won. Go out and enjoy your success.Now I reserve this treatment for people being annoying about their own good luck/circumstances. Especially when I can one-up them.That and chuds. It's fun to play with chuds sometimes.
>>43390312it just happened me for the first time in months and god i want to kill that guy. he was a fat cisgay
