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>18m
>Know 30mtf for 6 months now
>She's always reblogging romantic stuff on twitter and sometimes talks to me about feeling lonely
>She's a really pretty woman for being 30
>She looks younger and also completely female, I dont know how many surgeries she's gotten, but shes on the lower end of income so i doubt many
>Shes really really pretty, looks younger like 25ish
>Entertaining, knowledgable, nice, kind, loves plants and animals

Should i ask her out? We're pretty good friends, but she does feel weird sometimes for having a younger fren. I have a huge attraction to her. Not in a chaser way I think, I've only dated cis women before. Wouuuld she lemme take her on a date or do you think she sees me as too young/would make her feel old? Please lemme know. I really like her. But she's 12 years older than me.
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>>43396811
Age gap is only acceptable when is a young guy and an older MILFy woman
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>>43396826
But she might be made insecure dating me, she might feel old, idk, you sure?
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>>43396811
bad idea, ik a few guy friends who did something similar but with cis women and it never works out. probably even messier if theres a tranny involved
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>>43396811
as i always say, age gap isnt shit if aren't 2 retards trying to date
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>>43396884
most people are retards tho, so wouldnt it be bad for most people?
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>>43396892
yeah it would, like having beer easily available
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>>43396811
Maybe but since you were like a toddler when iPads and iPhones became commonplace, she might find you cringe.
(also your parents might be of a similar age to her too, which she may or may not like)
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>>43396892
yeah it would, idagf about them tho
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MOAR RESPONSES NOW
im in dsimilar predicament but transbian op pls do it and tell me how goes
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>>43396811
I have a younger guy friend that calls me his mom and it makes me feel like the most beautiful woman alive. Trust me, if you ask her out she'll feel more than flattered that a younger guy is asking her out. You should do it. Be her little baby. Treat her like the beautiful woman she is. As an older trans woman I love when younger guys flirt with me.
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>>43396811
My partner and I have been together for almost 4 years. He was 31 and I was 19
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That is an absolutely horrendous age gap anon, you should never under any circumstances date with a 12 year age gap. The gap needs to be bigger.
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>>43397233
We met in real life though idk if this twitter shit is a red flag
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>>43396811
No, I've had a 12 year gap and it was fine
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It's bad to date 18 year olds in general. They aren't fully formed humans. Any time you date an 18 year old you are signing up to date like 5 different people.
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>>43396811
12 year gap is fine 12 year gap at 18 is weird im mid twenties and would not date an 18 year old because of extreme lack of maturity. you probably won't listen to this because aforementioned lack of maturity but if she's got any reasoning ability whatsoever she'll turn you down. otherwise she's a regard and you'll probably be fine dating her until something terrible happens in the relationship in a few months and you two breakup lol.
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>>43400469
truke i want to date someone i will grow with not someone who is growing up
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>>43396811
bro is getting groomed
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why not twist the knife another inch? most hurtful larp i've seen in some time. 8.5/10
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>>43396811
It's been working out great for me and my bf. We're 15 years apart. I met him when he was 19. We're coming up on 4 years together; living together for most of that. We've spent just about every single day together and we love it. I hang out with my best friend all day, every day.
Whether it works out of not really depends on both of you and how emotionally mature you are. You gotta go into it willing to compromise on everything and work out disagreements. Sometimes it's better to let it go than to keep arguing. I know that seems like generic relationship advice but for a huge age gap, your views will be vastly different on many things and the basics are super important.
It may work out, it may not. The only way to find out is to take a leap of faith and hope for the best. You may end up with your soul mate or worst relationship ever but would you rather never find out and always wonder what could have been?
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>>43400469
if someone who's considerably older wants to date 18 year olds imo it kinda begs the question would they be willing to date someone even younger if it wasn't illegal? Sus shit.
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you are impacting your development by dating someone with way more life experience
also you are very young on top of that
go for it if you want, just be careful
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>>43396811
Are you going to be the bottom



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