>>43397071
Failures tend to stick together

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>>43397071
THANK YOU!!! I've noticed it too.
My theory is that most "successful" high end trannies are sex workers who use polyamory and open relationships to network with other workers. This in turns trickles down to your average trans woman who thinks polyamory is the way to success and love without the emotional maturity for one relationship let alone many.
It's rampant in dating apps especially because they never stop dating unlike monogamous people!
Poly people are also just really manipulative in general and will typically coerce their partners into poly relationships.
It's sad that we can't criticize this shit in other spaces without being called a rightoid or bigot.

>>43397071
do you think there are ever polycules that celebrate their 50 year anniversary as a polycule? there's probably some

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>>43397144
I highly doubt it. That's my biggest argument against all that poly crap. You can't find one single polycule longer than 10 years let alone 5. Meanwhile you can find old transbian couples and such. But poly couples? Nope. It's why they always crumble and burn.

I think to live out lost fun but also crave relationships.

>>43397071
survivorship bias
trans girls that get into monogamous relationships leave the apps
trans girls who are poly or open stay on the apps independent of their partnered status

>>43397223
>I think to live out lost fun
yeah one of the problem is that it's hard to have close friend groups as an adult, especially as a tranny
a polycule in a lot of ways is like a close friendgroup, but in a way somehow more appropriate for adults

Let them have fun. Im a straight mtf and would love to have a polycube with my beautiful friends. But I have a life to carry with my bf and don't want to waste my beautiful relationship, maybe in another universe. You won't be able to do this stuff after 30 35 so just be happy babe

>>43397251
>survivorship bias

can we start meme-ing this even for the thinly veiled /pol/bait so people can fucking learn what this is already people are so dumb

>>43397071
I wish I was attractive enough to be a hedonist

>>43397375
nona what I described is an actual example of survivorship bias like that's actually what happens, how and why, it's purely descriptive and used correctly in context
there's also a non-zero conversion rate from mono to poly as people give up on monogamy on dating apps

>>43397071
That unironically looks like fun.
I wish I was young and hot and queer in a city somewhere.

>>43397125
you seem like you exist elsewhere than 4chan, what’s the current stance on polyamory amongst internet troons? changed any in the last few years?

>Why are sick fucked in the head terminally online freaks visible in online social spaces?

>>43397399
the people in the picture aren't particularly attractive either, so don't let that stop you

>tfw such a hideous hon failure that i can't even get into a polycule
convince me to keep living (you can't)

>>43398301
That has never stopped anyone from getting in a polycule

>>43397071
White American troons are AGP and not worth piss.

>>43397071
The ones in my area are just escorts or ugly

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giwtwm

>>43397071
Other than survivorship bias polyamory is attractive to people who want to have a relationship but have commitment issues or lack the willpower and work ethic for a real one

>>43397071
AGP.

>>43397071
a lot of trannies are basically just incels, more sex == more better

polyamory is basically just having a friends with benefits network, which is why a lot of newer trans people get roped into this shit thinking theyll get a partner instead of a bunch of sex pests in their dms

>>43397071
because they're gay men and gay men like screwing lots of people? idk why this board is so hugboxxy nowadays

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>>43398025
I was pretty deep into the rave scene here in Los Angeles and it was RAMPANT. Even outside that scene, the more autistic crowd is seeing it too. The horror stories I've heard from polyamory are immense too. Most of the trans women you match with here in Los Angeles will be polyamory because they stay on the app even when they find someone. Also the opinion of it in places like Instagram is largely very "it's not hurting anyone!" Not realizing it genuinely is hurting and abusing people. You'll see a lot of trans women on there pushing for it and content there is otherwise very positive or jokey towards it. Anytime it's negative shit like "polyphobic" slips out.
If you mean my writing style sounds like something outside 4chan then its probably because you saw me seething over it in an Instagram comment section. My username is LatinaCreamQueen.

>>43397115
Fpbp

>>43397071
incel to sex pest pipeline. the change from having no sex to having a lot of sex rewires their brains to degeneracy

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>>43397399
>>43398003
man i must be mega autistic bc even looking at OP's pic almost sends me into a panic attack

>Why aren't the gay troons like the cishetnormative people
oh gee idk

>>43399504
same i think it's the idea of mass rejection

>>43397071
only works if everyone sees it as casual/FWB. even then FWB can develop serious feelings over time. then there is inevitably the odd man out. i could never do one, almost did about 10 years ago but it would have almost been a cuckold situation due to the third person's medical issues

>>43399270
>latinacreamqueen

>>43397071
They're gay men, what did you expect?

>>43399504
it does for me too- but mostly because true intimacy is monogamous.

you can't fully invest and empathize in some throuple or multi-person fuck unit

so it's really just spiritually exploitative and hollow

a bunch of people taking shelter from heteronormative culture under the false umbrella of promiscuity

>>43397071
I don't care if they are happy, it's wrong. Happiness doesn't justify everything.

>>43397125
>Poly people are also just really manipulative in general and will typically coerce their partners into poly relationships.
this just makes u sound bitter about a past bad experience desu. did you try to make a partner go mono for you and fail?

>>43400780
nta but she probably got duped into polyshit and caught aids from the aged transbian of the group, sad

>>43397071
This

>>43400780
NTA but I got pulled into a poly I really didn't want to be in because there was one girl that I liked in the poly, we only really were a throuple we closed off after I got in and it was still terrible, they wouldn't stop flirting with other people and I always felt like I was getting the short end of the stick when it comes to love and attention and all, it sucked while I was there and to this day they try to contact people from my past to get them to hate me. This shit sucks

>>43401137
crazy how this is literally the norm if not a better than average experience, yet polyshills will blame you

>>43399828
Most of them are autistic prison-gay straight men

>>43397071
The polycules I see are always seemingly trying not to leave the third person or people beyond that out, realistically it's just a bunch of chuds fucking eachother

I remember back during peak woke 2010s people used to victim blame the nonpoly partner and valorize polyshits cheating addiction as somehow being about love

>>43401631
>autistic prison-gay straight men
So, in actuality, a bisexual male who's damned to live as a transbian.

Off topic, but why are there so many more mtf polycules than ftm polycules?

>>43402578
Because mtfs are just men. Gays have lots of promiscuous sex. Lesbians don't.

>>43403550
these tranny polycules arent actually having sex, just cuddles and weird shit

>>43402578
ftm’s are women, women are promiscuous by nature but they like to hide it, not this out in the open hedonism

>>43397071
I would fuck every single person in that picture, ideally more than one of them at the same time
fuck fuck fuck

>>43397071
Because they made all the monogamous and stable people give up on using apps.

>>43399270
>tfw no raver latina gf to monogamously pound her bussy and frot with daily

>>43400780
Nta but it's happened minimum three times in my social circle where one partner wants to "try poly" and it ends the relationship eventually

>>43397071

I'm poly because if I care about a lot of people then I wanna be with them as long as they wanna be with eachother/me.

I'm not jealous, and I try to be mature about picking partners, and in turn I expect partners to be mature about how they pick partners.

>>43402246
Many such cases

>>43397071
i'm a cuckold, and my girlfriend is a polyamorous whorebag trans girl, and i love it.

>>43404954
this! it literally never works

>>43405904
TRVKE

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>>43399846
Fucking this. Truth nuke.

>>43400780
Yeah. We agreed to do monogamy at the start of the relationship and we were great for a while until she asked if she could kiss other girls while at a rave. I said okay so long as I can watch. Then she kissed her ex and another girl after, me assuming it'd just be one. We continued on well enough and my entire family loved her. Her mom loved me. I'd pick her up from work and drop her off. Cook for her. Brought her soup when she was sick. Took her to the doctor's. Etc. Then she brought up wanting to do Polyamory so I went along with it. I hooked up with a close friend of mine, then she did the same. And it just felt... Wrong. I love my friend a lot but compared to my now ex that spark just wasn't there compared to when my ex and I did it. Meanwhile her? It just felt like she kept leaning into that. I remember the last time we went out with "friends" (her friends) she kissed a bunch of girls including that close friend of hers. Left me in the middle of the club. And sorta just got food somewhere. I ended up kissing one girl because my ex was kissing another girl and it was just terrible. She was a bad kisser and it was just awkward and weird. And just. Ugh. Then her friends just went on to shit on that girl that I kissed. Anyways, when I told her that I was feeling uncomfortable about polyamory she promised we'd talk about it on Valentine's. She didn't come till 4am though and later revealed to me she was kissing that same friend all night. We agreed to try monogamy again but she left me 3 days later. All of our poly mutuals also unfollowed me when they discovered I wanted monogamy. Almost as if they just wanted sex. Also before this relationship I got raped by a poly tgirl. I think I'm allowed to feel bitter. Polyamory as it's practiced by trans women is toxic and destructive.

>>43406304
it’s crazy how common this story is too, polyamory is a fucking disease

>>43397071
this shit only works when there's bottoms. i was in a poly relationship for a while and it got so bad because all of the bottoms got jealus of each other. im a masculine top, right. but i only got one dick. i cant exactly dick down multiple people simultaneously, and i only got so much energy to bang.

it only works for bottoms who can sometimes top each other, it wont work with an actual masculine assertive top in the mix.

on that note, hello, im a muscular somewhat hairy top who's well endowed with a lot of endurance. if ur group is looking for something like that do let me know the deets.

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>>43400856
Actually, I did have an HIV scare after she hooked up with her close friend which is why I also wanted to do monogamy again. I wanted to settle down with her. But she did everything else she did to me and well yeah. Thankfully I didn't get HIV but it dawned on me that she wasn't getting tested after seeing people. As most of these girls don't.

>>43401137
I saw you on the thread I made. This sucks dude I'm sorry you went through that. I went through similar stuff.

>>43403631
Lots of frotting and oral actually. Cuddling happens with normal fucking people too. Mono people cuddle all the time.

>>43404913
I had that for a bit, man... I was her first too. I had a lot of experience but she was just UGH. Made sex feel insane. The way her eyes would roll to the back of her head. Then we'd fall asleep and cuddle naked after. It was magical. Then she topped me which was fun too. I had been topped a lot but with her... Man... It was magical. I remember we'd fuck in the car too and the shower. One time she wore a trenchcoat with nothing underneath and a collar around her neck while I walked her. Peak man... She also slept on a dog bed so the sex on that was awesome. I'm going to miss it.

>>43397071
i hate american trannies, they destroyed how people in the world perceive trans people

>>43406479
The perception of trannies was ruined completely on purpose by political agenda, it has nearly 0 to do with individual actions

>>43406545
yeah this, never forget that 80% of anti trans publications are published by companies that directly take fossil fuel lobby money

>>43406304
never in my life have I wanted to kiss anyone. much less blow up my relationship to kiss randos

>>43397071
The 'dating app' part is a significant part of the equation.

Same reason every hot conventionally attractive girl on one is either BPD or a gold digger or is a taxiderm vulture culturist

>>43397071
I want to be in that pile with my gf so fucking bad I would ravage all of them

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>>43397251
>leave the apps

Maybe the promotion of polyamory has been seeded by the dating-app companies?

>>43397071
Fuck I wish I could just jump into this pile
t. straight guy

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>>43407699
The crazy part is that after she'd kiss randos or her friends she'd come back to kiss me and gush about how no one kisses like me and that I'm the best kisser she's ever had. It felt weird.

>>43410124
Huh... That would make sense desu.

>>43406321
Yeah.

>>43410466
>The crazy part is that after she'd kiss randos or her friends she'd come back to kiss me and gush about how no one kisses like me and that I'm the best kisser she's ever had.

I do think that this "polyamory" trend is just a cover for "wanting to *have* the cake, *and* eat it". Is she relatively young? It could be that, a person getting into a monogamous relationship too young, unfortunately clashes with a time in their life where they want to play-the-field. As they're somewhat attached to the relationship though, they want to do *both*.

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I lust after a polycule/sexual friend group so fucking hard, but I am too old at twenty-eight. I was too repressed and too much of a coward when I was younger, and I am still very repressed. I still haven't figured my shit out. So stuff like OP's pic makes both horny, jealous, angry, confused and sad. I have nothing but regrets.

oregano

>>43397071
For trans women you can either do hookups or poly. Many choose the latter. I wish there were people interested in normal monogameous relationship with trans women, but alas. I gave up and prefer loneliness over shallow sex without emotional depth.

>>43397173
>the worth of a relationship is measured solely in it's longevity
Grim way of seeing things. Most polycules aren't really trying to last forever. It's about having friends you're close with and inevitably it'll pass because people grow out of it. It is obviously meant as a thing to do when young and having fun. And that is a perfectly valid experience to choose to engage in.

>>43410853
I don't think anyone is trying to have monthly falling outs with people they care about to the point they never speak again and they lose their company forever

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>>43410853
>the worth of a relationship is measured solely in it's longevity

Even more grimly, to follow that line of reasoning...
A potent measure of a relationship's worth, is how much it hurts when it ends.

Polycules are an interesting "hippie-free-love" type of scenario.
I agree, that they can be fun (to be honest, at any age), but mainly in youth at a time of emotional immaturity. Older people tend to want to settle down, unless they feel like they missed out on promiscuity during a misspent youth.

What I don't really like, is the kissing/semi romantic elements though; I feel that can lead to complications. If everyone involved is detached enough, then it can just about work.
But often, one or two people start getting emotionally involved, and this whole communistic slutparty gets sour.

>>43410853
>Most polycules aren't really trying to last forever. It's about having friends you're close with and inevitably it'll pass because people grow out of it
Cute but that's not what they said originally when they pushed polyamory down everybody's throats 10 years ago.

>>43411180
>they
Your /pol/ is showing nona

>>43410853
Seems cope to me. poly relationships are popular because they are easy, take no commitment, and are entirely about self satisfaction.

they produce people who are competely incapable of compromise and sacrifice for your life partner(s). Poly people practice and develop habits of going "that's toxic" and leaving whenever things get hard or just never caring at all. Real relationships take work, because people are complicated and have sharp edges and will hurt each other when they open up and become close. Being unable to deal with that in a mature fashion, and actually dedicate yourself to another, is something "I'm just experimenting with poly while I'm young" people never develop and genuinely every single one after 5-10 years is doing it is miserable. As an ace person on the outside of all consuming sexual desire, I genuinely just see awful health outcomes from the poly lifestyle over and over.

The only poly relationship I know personally that works is a 3 person rationship that do things COMPETELY differently from the stereotypical slut piles in the OP.