Anonymous
04/28/26(Tue)15:21:16 No.43403435

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Anonymous 04/28/26(Tue)15:21:16 No.43403435

I have a theymab/hon binary friend
they're my day 1 and I value their presence immensely
I get on really well with them and they help me tonnes whenever i wanna try some old jrpg
a year and a half ago I found friend group b full of cis women and normie passing trans girls
the problem is friend group b and a have started attending the same bar
this started out fine/fun but like recently its clear they don't understand the tgirl social contract
like I don't tell cis women I like autist jrpgs and visual novels and mask a lot in front of them
theymab friend has never heard of masking and tells them all about me at my most honest and vunerable.
like telling cis women about my self depreciating comments about my gender identity so they can be "one of the good ones" as well as complaining about me saying you shouldn't wear dresses outside if you're not on estrogen

I've tried letting cis women know this stuff is off limits but they refuse and call me sexist for not feeling completely at ease around cis women and using the time i told friend group a they fucked someone's ex as a reason why it's ok to tell cis women that I'm a male deep down

everyone in friend group b thinks theymab is weird and doesn't like being near them

does anyone know how to talk some sense into them without them going ape shit