>be me, 22 y.o tranny>have online friend >he's a cis moid>we talk all the time and play games and watch movies>this has been going on for a year>he lives in a neighboring country>he comes over to visit to hang out with some mutual friends>we're all hanging out at the house of a mutual friend>i can't stop looking at him. he looks like a beautiful statue>he sits next to me on the couch and talks to me>i blush uncontrollably and get so turned on and feel so embarrassed about it>he hugs me multiple times throughout his stay>everybody's having fun but all i can focus on is himwhy am i like this
>>43410905get him interested in you and write greentexts about it i need hetslop
>>43410916we have done some light flirting before but he didn't make a move when visiting and i'm too much of a coward to make a move myself :( mb if it had just been the 2 of us
>>43410905literally nothing about this is wrong? you just have a crush girlie
>>43410926i felt predatory i think it's because he probably doesn't like me back in that way
>>43410924play the long game. my bf and i were best friends for 1.5 years before we started dating, and most of that had no overt flirting. now we live together and plan to get married
>>43410967>now we live together and plan to get marriedgiwtwm. how tho? how do i play the long game?
>>43410952you never know if you don't ask
>>43410905happened to me tooidk how to fix ithe said i don't look that bad or whatever but i genuinely think it was in a "you're stunning and brave" way since he knows how much i hate my appearancehe's coming to my country this year with another friend of ours and all i can think about is how much i hate how i look and how embarrassing it is that my friends have to look at me
>>43410967God I hope this works out for me. Just started dating a really good friend and visiting him in a week.
>>43410982i saved him from a poly hell. his last ex wanted to open their relationship, and he got with me, we mutually expressed desire, and then he lost feelings for her entirely. their break had been a long time coming but i catalyzed it not a recommended method tbqh, it was just a leap of faith and i’m lucky.
>>43411028ideal outcome for me with my bf.he's been with his other gf for 7 years but let's just say they have a... very storied relationship history.I want the best for them both but deep down I desperately want it to be us and only us. it makes me feel terrible and selfish.
>>43410987but how do i put it?>>43411003:( idk what to do either>>43411022yay i hope it works out>>43411028grrrr so no advice huh
>>43411053also before y'all say anything we have a very loving relationship. I wouldn't have put myself in this position if I didn't trust him and myself. I just sometimes feel like I'm waiting for their relationship to wither and die.
>>43411053they dated 4 years on my end, we fooled around for 3 weeks and then our relationship started, and his last one ended. i’m not built for poly
>>43411053so are u trying to get them to break up? idgi>t. op
>>43411153no, I'm not evil enough for that.
>>43411160it's probably better to wait for them to break up
>>43410905suck his dick next time
>>43412109you seem to be missing the point
>>43411028>poly is he ftm?
>>43410905I would say just try and flirt with him and escalate if he seems responsive. It's fun and it builds mutual attraction. Make flirty or suggestive jokes with him and if that's going well find a reason to be a little touchy but keep it all plausibly deniable. Keep it to what feels natural though. And if he doesn't seem receptive back off and accept he's probably not interested.This can also be pretty hard if you're autistic which if you're posting here is pretty likely, but it's not impossible
>>43410905why does it always go from addams family to 'searched goth on pornhub'. can you try making your sexy outfits not 100.00% made to order for the male gaze for once
>>43413387i'm not even autistic>>43413706i thought it was a cute pic
>>43411053Make them break up you coward
>>43411066>but how do i put it?"Hey (name), do you like me?"
>>43413929i was making fun of the original
>>43413980That's a surefire way to kill his love for me.
>>43414122what if he says no?
>>43413980don't do this
Loudhouse art style lol
