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Is coming out as gay imposing upon others?
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>>43413797
coming out as any form of fag or tranny is imposing. it makes other people, even the biggest allies, uncomfortable regardless of what they may say.
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>>43413893
seems like being unaccepting is the actual imposition
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>>43413797
Yes but everything new is an imposition. Most people want to put you into a box because they can justify all actions according to this definition. It uses the least amount of energy possible basically. So when you go against that, you cause a big spike in energy use which then lessens over time. It's important to settle into exactly the new spot you want or you risk entering another box scenario.
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>>43415203
so homophobia is just laziness?
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>>43413797
No
That's retarded
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>>43413797

Nah I held it in for as long as I can. Like I’m not demanding a pride parade. Just don’t freak out at me when i tell you why I’m not married and having kids with a woman yet. If you don’t want to know then stop pressing a late 30s man on why he doesn’t want a wife and kids.
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>>43415225
Maybe, but laziness is not bad per se. It could be based on personal experience, or passed-down beliefs which served the individual or group. Up to you to figure how to navigate it.
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It’s ok to be gay as long as you do it away from everyone else in a different country and pretend you’re straight and also don’t talk to straight people or be near them at any point. Also maintain celibacy
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>>43415360
seems like a lot of restrictions
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>>43413797
>>43414822
you imposing this shit on the people who birthed you and grew you is the real sin.
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>>43413797
Religion is an imposition, yet that doesn't stop the christcucks or the mudslimes.
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>>43413797
Coming out isn't imposing.
It is the lack of truly understanding on the behalf of the other person that makes it feel like an imposition.
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>>43416484
I don't like religion.
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>>43413797
yes we shouldn’t make other people change their worldview just bc you want to be a degenerate
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>>43416820
what is degeneracy?
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>>43413797
existing is an imposition. quit being a cuck



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