how often do you get misgendered irl and does it piss you off?
an old man said "good shot lad" while i was shooting at the archery range. that was the only time it's happened this year iirc
>>43415758about 50% of the time, but half the people I interact with are autisticwhen I started transition I promised myself I would never get mad ehen someone gets it wrong, but it'd be a lie to say it doesn't bother me
A couple times a year, and no I don't get pissed, I doomspiral about being unlovable for the rest of the day
>>43415758probably like 20-30% of the time. its pretty depressing, because its enough to know that i dont pass and people are just placating me.
>>43415758I'm a boymoder but I get called ma'am pretty often, does that count? I usually do a really deep voice afterwards too so they know Im a man and that IWNBAW
>>43415758Very occasionally from behind or when people aren't paying attention since I'm a ftm with long hair
>>43415758Never
>>43415758last time i got misgendered was a year ago and it was a pretty obviously an accident. other than that? last time was two years ago. i don't really throw a fit if it happens though. i pass well enough atp where the average person would just assume im cisgender.
>>43415758last time was I think in August? but that was a they/them and not a he/him misgendering and it was by someone in a dressing room with me for a modeling thing who saw me pretty much naked. before that must've been pre-ffs so years at this point.
>>43415758literally all of the time but i’m boymoding so it’s fairly reasonable
>>43415758im a boymoder and maybe like 5% of the time ill malefail. then it will create this weird tension if other people heard it and they question what I am.
A lot cause Im a hon but honestly idgaf
>>43415758>I'M NOT A MAN>SUCK MY DICK
>>43415758>picIs that actually real?
>>43416835Yes.
>>43416835I volunteer as tribute
>how often every time, hit the 2 years hrt mark a week ago so I'm giving up on ever hoping I'll pass>does it piss you offno, can't be bothered wasting my energy on that
>>43415758IRL: not once in 1.5 years and I interact with people at my job 9 hours a dayOnline: one friend still says "he" when referring to me
>>43416560>>43416382>when people aren't paying attention>an accidentsoclocked, passively, without niceties or study to see, "oooooh, girl-presenting, right, she/her", or whichever
>>43415758>thread full of retarded faggots playing dress up getting mad when people call you out for what you really are
>>43415758100% of the time and idk prolly not I look cute anyways
>>43415758Never but that's because I'm a straight cis man
>>43415758Never. Maybe like once a year?
>>43415758Hasn't happened in years.However, my family messes it up on a daily basis. I suppose I have to take the good with the bad.
>>43415758>>43415758>This administration can suck my dickI'll handle this one sigmas
>>43418173>t. faggot delusionally screeching about every single tranny being delusional or something
>>43415758On T 7+ years and pass voice-wise, plus +3 for top surgery, but I'm rather androgynous in features so people usually use my clothes for context when I don't have any facial hair.(I pretty consistently passed before T, people just thought I was 3-4 years younger than I actually was)Lowkey have kept facial hair for the last couple years because I don't need someone in a men's bathroom mistaking me for a trans woman and that going south, especially since I have long hair don't always dress in a gender-conforming way.(not like, dresses or skirts, but I enjoy an elegant sweater with nice pants from time to time)
>>43418456Me
>>43415758idk
>>43415758I live in the most rightwinged part of germany and haven't been misgendered in person or on the phone in 4 years since my ffs. I work with children. They would pretty much rub it in my face if I would look like a man but wanted to be adressed as a woman. Also go to the womans lockerroom in the gym. No problems. My family messes up pretty much everytime I see them tho.>>43418431I feel this so hardt. mtf lateshit (hrt at 21) passoid
>>43420905lateshit passoids aren't real everyone is just being nice
>>43420909Cope and seetheIf I wouldn't pass where I live I would be threatened on a daly basis especially for looking visibly trans and working with little children
>>43415758by misgendered do you mean wrt my hormonal sex or wrt my chromosomal sex? since i don't pass, friends call it misgendering if i malefail in public even though i'm mtfeither way, it doesn't bother me. i never understood why people get so worked up about word choice. it isn't my job to police how other people see me, it's only my job to change my body so they will see what i wish they saw. And i'd prefer if people told me the truth even if it hurts
>>43415758It's rare I get misgendered in real life, but being recognized as a s/he is aight. It's giving cultured, old world transgender.
