or like female pronouns in general.i have a cis gf and she has constantly pressured me to use the women’s restroom and calls me her gf and stuff when we are in public. it finally came to a head today where i told her during an argument that i don’t like when she calls me stuff like that. for context like i do not pass at all. my face is unsalvageable, and my body is standard midshit. i’m really considering detransing these past few weeks and i really don’t like her telling people this stuff. like i’m just a man cosplaying what he can best approximate is feminine. it’s just plain wrong to say otherwise. i don’t know. does anyone have insight?
>>43429696she’s gonna dump you hon. grow up and stop hating yourself. it’s hard to love someone who hates herself. if you wanna detrans do that but don’t it because you’re nonpassing that’s just cowardly
I would never bottle nona
>>43429702what do you mean cowardly. it’s very selfless i think. and i don’t think dumping is in the cards for a lot of reasons
oooh my god kys nona take your fucking estrogen and shut the fuck up please im begging you>heres what youre gonna do, youre gonna apologize to your girlfriend, tell her that she was right, tell her that you were having an episode and that you're really sorry then thank her for everything shes done for you and thanking her for reaffirming your gender identity as a woman. youll tell her that you love her then you will keep doing so for the rest of your life, you are a woman, you were a woman, and as far as im concerned you were never even a man, you got it?
>>43429711no?
>>43429826>picrelmfw op strikes oil and treats it like mud
>>43430829fucking bbd passoids
op apologize to your gf and just be a fucking woman retard stop being such a fucking child about this
>>43429716No it isn't, half the time this evasive non-presenting shit just comes off as kinda weird or preverted to cis people. Its better to put your who effort into presenting and fagmoding, while taking a measured approach to sex segregated spaces, is better 90% of the time unless you are legit an aging gigahon, which almost no one here is.
Uhhh you should have told her you were nonbinary instead
>>43431373bbd? big big dick?
>>43429696You're being a whiny little bitch and your gf is gonna dump you if you keep this shit up. Leave the board and never come back. You clearly can't handle the brainworms. The board can help but some of y'all take it too far. You're probably just clocky but who cares? Your partner's opinion is the only one that matters and if you keep going down this path you're gonna end up losing her too. You wanna be lonely on top of the brainworms? Go away and live a happy normie life with your cute gf instead of rotting here like a retard
>>43433578This
>>43433578nah if she really loves you she will put up with the brainwormsive trained my bf to be brainworm affirming. He never uses any gendered language. every time he calls me cute I say no and just stops trying. he doesnt call me bf/gf, just says im "his [my name]. im terminally brainwormed and he is ok with it. The only thing is that I have to hide that im using the mens bathroom from him because if we met in the mens bathroom I would die of cringe.
>>43433820>i abuse my bfs good nature I feel sorry for him. Hopefully one day he gains some self respect
I had an ex that was like that. Notice how I said ex.
>>43429696yeah stop self hating. i didnt like when people started calling me maam or expecting things of me either because i was scared of everybody. if shes a good person from her perspective you probably seem like youre paranoid
>>43435280he is the one dating a boymoder hon. It's been 9 years. but yea I hope he breaks up with me too. im holding him back and there is no reason to love me.
>>43437189>im holding him back and there is no reason to love me.See that's the problem right there. You're withholding happiness from both of you by not keeping your brainworms in check. Your bf wouldn't be with you if there wasn't something about you worth loving. How about instead, you get your shit together, practice that cognitive behavior therapy and not be a piece of shit. Neither of you deserve this and it's clear this place isn't good for you either. You can't handle it, please leave, and don't come back. Your misery is your own doing and you can stop any day. Today would be preferable
>>43437440trukebut also im scared.
>>43437578>im scaredIt's okay to be scared but you still have to do the thing. Go apologize to your bf (or gf if you're OP) and reassure them that you're not wasting their time and you're gonna try your best to be better and thank them for putting up with your shit. Then actually do better. Dont ruin it for both of you
>uhh duhg this is YOUR FAULT OP cis women never wrongNah fuck all the dumb fuck hons hereIf you said you're not comfortable with it and don't pass and she keeps doing it then it's not affirming it's dangerousLeave her if she won't stop
>>43439553youre retarded
>>43439553This.
>>43439553retard
This is done to Mike by m
>>43433820You are rotting your relationship in real time by not being able to accept yourself and as a result not being able to fully accept his love for you
>>43443619sorry but I won't honmode
>>43439553KYS then. Lead by example hon
>>43444440Let's see who got the digits >>43444444
>>43429696>>43429696It's hard friend, I know it's hard. I can't give you a ready use solution, I wish I could. It's your travel, it's your fucking quest. You're worth it, but you're the one that got to see it. Be strong please.
>>43429696don't take your insecurity out on her, it seems like she really loves you.also>my face is unsalvageableproof? can u please post like a litterbox or something? i want to see if this is semi valid or just bdd retardation.
>>43429696Fuck you I would love having a girl like that I hope she fucking leave you
>>43447268lol
If I were her I would just dump your ass. Loving someone who hates themselves is a pain. Guess you found one of the ones whose heart is made out of unicorns and rainbows and puppies, prick.
>>43433820You also found someone whose heart is made of puppies and ice cream and sunshine and this is what you do. I hate it here. I feel bad knowing they waste their love on bullshit.
>>43448867look idk why they stick their dick in crazy either, but im not going to question it. IME it's because they are insecure so they find someone who knows that they are the best they will get. gender is only a small part of life. the other stuff in our relationship is good (apart from sex)
>>43449751>the sex isnt even goodthat poor, poor man
>>43452325ok im just a broken person. He really seems to like me though. Should I break up with him for his own good. I don't think he ever will
