> be me> stupid 20 yo mtf midshit tranny> live with my boyfriend that I love very dearly> I have a whole free day, but he doesn't> decide to accomplish my evil plan> wake up at the same time as him> prepare him a decent breakfast and give him his lunch> wish him a wonderful day and tell him that I love him> give him a tight hug and he hugs me back :D> get to work as he leaves> actually manage to clean most of our apartment> really hate cleaning, so it's a small success for me> after a small break, make the carrot soup that he really likes> takes forever> after it's done, go change myself> decide to wear the only cute knit sweater I own> already time to put the salmon pie in the oven> not anything crazy, but I thought it'd be nice along with the soup> soon enough everything's done> pretty proud of myself> hopefully I'm getting some cuddles tonight hihi> comes home ~45m late> ask him "Heyyy, how was work?">" 'twas alright."> he immediately goes to our bedroom without really looking at me> maybe he needs to cool down> after half an hour of scrolling twitter, get up and knock on the bedroom door> "Are you feeling okay?"> no answer > invite myself in and start talking about my day like a stupid foid> mention the cleaning and cooking, but I'm most excited about my sweater that I never wear> he finally speaks> "Can you shut up, I'm in the middle of something."> oh. he’s playing a game on the computer> go to the bathroom> turn the shower on, but it's just to drown out my sobs> I really tried hard this time> why am I such a bad girlfriend> I wish I could make him happy like a real girl would> next day, notice that he ate some of my food, but he hasn't mentioned what I've done.What am I doing wrong? He isn't like this usually. He takes me on dates, hugs me, and compliments me. He's a great boyfriend. Even if I tried, I couldn't make him happy. I really can't lose him. He's the only person who likes me. I really need advice.
>>43430859is this troonbian propaganda?
Talk to him not to us, like people have bad days, like I get told I’m bitchy and moodie but open dialogue is the only way to fix it>bad ending - let things go, order food, put some ipecac in his, he’ll be sick very quickly take the time to nurse him back to health, develop plans for him to be dependent on you NEVER LET HIM FIND THE BOTTLE
>>43430859If this story is true dont worry, you did good. He probably just had a bad day at work and he let out some steam. If it is not a normal occurrence there is nothing particularly wrong and your reltionship is completely fine. You did nothing wrong. You just had an unlucky day.
>>43430859Coolstory xis
>>43430859maybe he just had a really bad day and didn’t want to tell you
i hate moids
>>43430893No, this just happens sometimes depending on the guy, especially as a troon some inexperienced dudes will think dating a troon will be lower maintenance and less womanbrained stuff to deal with, when its often quite the opposite.
i have never had this problem while dating gay men
>>43430859nothing youre great he sucks and your probably both young+immature
>>43430859That just how moids Brains work
>>43430859Share the carrot soup recipe.
>>43430859your mistake was dating a moid. they're emotionless, destructive creatures and the only routes you have are leaving him and living for yourself, or staying with hm and living in absolute misery while he takes you for granted. your choice.
>>43430893the existence of men speaks for itself as lesbian propoganda
it is not that you are a tranner. he is just taking you for granted as moids often to and probably had a bad day and failed to communicate this. I pinky promise you he would treat a cisfoid the exact same way, moids gonna moid. ily nona drop the soup recipe>>43435210this unfortunately
thanks for the advices everyone>>43435308it's my moms custom recipe and I only have a picture of a paper written in french with no quantities. Usually I have to call her just to make the soup lol. sorry
>>43435745whatever you do, enjoy your soup and never let a man treat you like that again. take care of yourself. love yourself. start figuring out a plan to get away from that guy, because if it's like this now, it'll only ever get worse. please put yourself first. men are not worth shit.
>>43430859is this how you always treat him or did you above &beyond ?
First off, take a deep breath. It’s clear you’re feeling a lot of heartbreak. You put in massive effort to show love, and having it met with a "shut up" is a sharp sting, especially when you're already fighting your own insecurities.Here is a grounded perspective on what’s happening:1. You didn't do anything "wrong"You cleaned, cooked a complex meal, and dressed up. Those are objective "good girlfriend" behaviors.2. The "Bad Day" vs. "Taking for Granted"Since he’s usually great—takes you on dates, hugs you, compliments you—it’s highly likely he just had a terrible day.The "Cave" Response: Many people deal with stress by retreating into a "nothing" box (like gaming) to decompress. When you came in to share your excitement, he unfairly saw it as an interruption to his recovery, not as an act of love.The Gap: He was 45 minutes late. Something went sideways at work. He’s being immature by snapping, but it’s likely not about the soup—it’s about whatever happened before he walked in.3. Addressing the InsecurityThe most painful part is where you say, "He's the only person who likes me." That mindset creates a power imbalance where you feel you must "earn" love through perfect service.You are a partner, not a servant. Cooking and cleaning are gifts, not "rent" you pay to be loved.Identity: If he treats you well normally, he sees you as his girlfriend. A bad mood doesn't revoke your identity or his feelings.What to do now:Wait for the "Cool Down": Now that he’s eaten and slept, the stress has likely faded.Have a Gentle Talk: Say: "I worked hard on dinner because I love you. When you told me to shut up, it really hurt. Was everything okay yesterday?"Observe: If he apologizes, it was a bad day. If he stays dismissive, then you have a communication issue to work on.You’re doing a great job. Don't let one bad evening convince you otherwise.
>>43430859tons of cis women are stuck in relationships like this. it’s only rare for trannies because men usually leave them rather than stringing them along
>>43435935fuck off chatgpt
>>43435935saying literally anything wouldve been better then copy and pasting this slop
>>43435851I usually am the one who cooks because I like it and makes me feel valuable. Usually we split the cleaning evenly I'd say. And I almost never dress cute
>>43436030idc post the carrot soup recipe already
Tell your bf to make more videos, they made me LOL at how pathetic they were
>>43436052have fun decoding french lol
>>43430859meanwhile the man's perspective:>be me>wake up it's time for work>go to work>work sucks cant wait to go home n play vidya>go home>play vidyai guess life isn't so bad
>>43436099this is why men are incompatible with polite society
>>43436099is this really what its kike to be a man
>>43436118men consider women highly neurotic because women notice things in the environment. the vast majority of men will not notice if a house has been cleaned unless it was dirty enough to be a problem. they will not notice the subtexts of a girlfriend talking to them while they mancave because once the girl stops talking, the situation has ended. it makes no difference to him, probably, whether he has a meal prepared for him or if he just has a large cup of beer. If he does not feel like touching women at any particular moment, he is unlikely to engage with the woman
>>43436198why arent i like this? i think i thought men were always thinking about everything and just choosing to act nonchalant about it all to seem cool and unbothered
>>43436254like even my view of op is that he is pulling back because op was showing too much love so he's trying to sned the message for her to be less clingy
>>43436254If you are neurodivergent its a bit different
>>43436289rip
>>43436267>>43436254no. men are base creatures who operate on impulse
>>43436267you think that because you are not as simple as the average moid, whoever you are. a man who has this thought in his mind ("you are being too clingy") does not think of some clever trickety trick to send that message subtley. he would say "stop being clingy" a man who says "can you shut up, i'm in the middle of something" has nothing more to communicate other than "you talking is unpleasant stimulus right now" i understand why some women are straight, but you must understand that a man does not have any tricks up his sleeve. your implulses to read between the lines exist because your mind is designed to manipulate his simple mind. A man is closer to a dog than a human being
>>43430859you sound lovelyhe's probably just overwhelmed don't panicask him what happened tomorrow and go from there
>>43436805>cisbimandisregard this opinion
Sometimes men just want to be alone. He should be more considerate though. I'm sure you did nothing wrong.
>>43436310>>43436371im just sensitive i guess. i think its just another one of many ways normies clock me as queer. i dont use this ability to manipulate anyone because it feels bad, i guess i did do that during my badboy phases when i was younger though. maybe i should again ,>:)
>>43430859my cisf roommate was literally complaining to me about this same shit from her boyfriend earlier today. especially if he has autism he’s just like that sorry
