do cis lesbians want to have anything to do with trans lesbians? i hope so but my guts tells me no
why do you care what their sexuality is?
>>43437641>>43434799
>>43437641I love trans lesbians, my gf is one!
>>43437661but enbies are trans
>>43437661>theyfab admitting they're just a cis woman whoa
>>43437709>>43437718I don't really care about how people perceive me gender-wise, I prefer they/them but ultimately I don't really like going the full way and calling myself non binary or whatever because all I do is dressing kinda androgynously and going by they/them, not that people who do the same can't be non binary or something but I just don't feel comfortable going by non binary when there's people who identify and care about this stuff way more than I do, so for all intents and purposes I'm just a cis woman who goes by they/them yeah...
>>43437641Lesbians, real ones, few as that is, want women, not transwomen.Transbians, abundant as they are, desire other transbians.
>>43437884so trans lesbians dont exist? or you think theyre men? or theyre shit out of luck?
>>43438035I tend to think of things in a quad-gender scenario. Gender essentialism, whatever the fuck they call it.We all largely seem to... just at different levels in an Euler diagram.So, transwomen want to believe they are a subtype of woman instead of a separate intersex thing. Some actually prefer this since it feels far less intrusive.Sadly, real life seems to discriminate against your sex (which doesn't change) far more than your sex expression / gender."Transgender lesbian" is the same, "hey, I belong in a supercategory called, 'woman', so that just means I'm a type of lesbian!" insistence but transbian as a separate group is more realistic.The greatest irony is that the women that might call themselves "lez" are bi and go for transwomen that still have a lot of ostensible male features and behavior. (Non-threatening male appeal.)
>>43437780you can tell it's a woman because she uses 100 words where 20 would have sufficed
>>43437641I'm married to a cis lesbian
>>43437661>>43437780This is internalized enbyphobia. You are just as trans as your gf
>>43439214>internaized enbyphobia>telling the self proclaimed cis woman that shes heckin valid and transkek
>>43437884This is mostly out of trauma and fear, because we know that cis women hold power over us as much as men hold power over womenI would certainly be interested in a relationship with any type of woman, but I think I would feel more comfortable being with another trans woman because she would already understand the things I have to go through, and would be guaranteed to treat me like a girl rather than like a type of gay man who has made himself available to women which, nastily, some cis women seek
>>43437661>>43437780theyfabanon you might be the goat. every time i see one of your posts like this it reduces my suicideometer by like 2%
Am cis lesbian, like trans lesbians, don't care what anybody says
>>43440255based but i am curious how you can be attracted to them considering their bodies are so different from what you generally assume "sapphics" would find appealing
>>43440255we appreciate it
>>43440255What determines your attraction? What is a woman to you?Are these people both women? What are your feelings on the people in this image?
It depends. A lot of my best friends are lesbians and in my experience are by far the most supportive demographic other than other trans people, but I’m not a transbian so idk how they think about that. It’s just that transphobic lesbians tend to be EXTREMELY transphobic, but not all lesbians are like that at all and as someone with a lot of lesbians in my life that I really love it’s kind of upsetting when I see people talking like cis lesbians are just all or mostly terfs because they aren’t :(
>>43440594Would it be worth getting on a lesbian dating app as a transbian? I think I'm actually kinda cute and not chopped
>>43440406The left is fat and ugly, the right one is cuteAren't both trannies?
>>43440636I think if you want to yeah but most lesbians use hinge not like specific lesbian dating apps
>>43440715That's fine, I made a Hinge a while ago pre transitionI just, you know, didn't have much heart for hetero datingThings are different now, however
>>43440754I would say go for it! I hope you find someone :)
>>43440243Awh that makes me happy, I'm glad I can make your days a bit better!
Don't prey on cis women! You should never initiate with a cis lesbian. They have to come to you first. Then it's not predatory.
>>43437641sometimes yeahpersonally im okay with trans women but they have to pass physically and behaviorally in order for me to find them attractive
>>43437641Not that ones here desu. Y’all crazy crazy.
>>43440594I feel like the idea that most cis lesbians hate trans women mainly comes from transphobic men who make up scenarios in their own mind to confirm their own bias and divide the LGBT community
>>43443099it's predatory either way
as a transbian who's had flings with cissoids it's not that uncommon for lesbians to be into you, especially if you're a passoid + post-op. transbians are easier tho as they have more in common with you but that's ultimately what matters right, plenty of trans women out there that i have nothing in common with
>>43443454How is it predatory for cis lesbians to initiate with trans women?
>>43437641No.
