Is it bad my ideal self is a permaboymoder of very few words? I find the quietness of being on hrt for myself and not being overtalkative relieving. But I worry I'll be too boring or pathetic or creepy to have a girlfriend.
There is a critical shortage of silent types
just be hot. personally im ugly so adopting that personality hasnt worked great for me. But if youre hot it will likely work well because i find i somehow draw lots of attention despite literally being a ghost in public
If you do this you'll have to accept being treated like the bf, only commited girlmoders have a chance of being treated differently
>>43440975I'm not ugly but I don't know if I'd say I'm hot. I feel like a 6 out of 10, maybe a 7 on a good day.>>43440978I don't plan on socially transitioning, is the dream over? Will I look like a sociopath trying to live like this?
>>43441000masculine 7 or feminine 7?
>>43440960This post should have been what would you do if a boymoder was quiet, shy, and just generally kept to herself
>>43441012Androgynous/twinkish guy 7>>43441018True. Sorry about that.
>>43441000It's over nona sorry
>>43441018and then 1 million chasers would say boy remove or some other sloppa
>>43440960being a permaboymoder almost entirely removes any long term possibilities of having a partner that doesn’t treat you as a bf. the general thing with dating boymoders is you make an early investment and help her become more confident and eventually let her bloom into a girlmoder who is extraordinarily loyal on account of you being there for her. if she’s resigned to never changing then what’s the point unless you find a unicorn who prefers androgynous people
>>43444354>unicornyou mean every bi guy
>>43444354Truth be told I would be open to it, just not for the foreseeable future. You do realize how scary it is being out, right? People need time.
>>43444433my mistake, i’m not well versed in bi guys>>43444528believe me, i do know. i’ve been boymoding for 2 years so i’m largely projecting. i just haven’t resigned myself quite yet
