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I'm sexually attracted to women/female bodies, but I love men. What do I do?

If I date a woman, I won't be able to love her and if I date a man, I'll have to settle for being a PIV bottom because there's something vile and disturbing about male butts, man on man sodomy and so on.

My natural sexual preference would be "topping"/having straight sex with a woman. Dating another ftm would be an option, but I'm not really into trans people. Would rather be with someone who never had to live as a trans person and has no brainworms.

t. split attraction bisexual dood
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>>43441821
so, correct if i'm wrong, you're attracted by the feminine body but has preference for a masculine "personality"

if so, just date a tomboy or smth like that
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>>43441895
>you're attracted by the feminine body but has preference for a masculine "personality"
Almost. I like female bodies sexually, but I can only fall in love with men (who are male, ideally). Not sure why that is. I like the idea of physical intimacy with a man, like cuddling and kissing. But I'm repulsed by the thought of having sex with another man.
>just date a tomboy
That's a masculine woman.
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>>43441917
>I'm repulsed by the thought of having sex with another man.
why, tho?
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>>43441938
Idk. Male bodies are icky...
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>>43441917
Could it be a psychological thing? Perhaps you could either learn to love women, or learn to fuck men.
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>>43441961
>Perhaps you could either learn to love women
Impossible
>learn to fuck men
I would have to bottom and that would mean missing out on sexual fulfilment for the most part because all of my sexual fantasies are about being on top having sex with women. It's hot to imagine sodomizing a cute girl, but nauseating to imagine the same with a man.
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>>43441955
than just stick to women, i think you aren't likely to stop feeling this way
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What if you encountered a true genderfuck enby where you cant tell what they are
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>>43441976
Dating without love is worse than no sexual attraction
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>>43442007
I would not want to be with them, my sexuality isn't woke enough
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>>43441821
What if you were your man's bottom for the most part, but he sucks you off too?
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>>43442067
That would be a realistic option except I would likely try to turn him into a type of bottom too (to live out my straight topping fantasies in a way)
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>>43441821
What the fuck is this medieval-ass sexuality?
>I fuck my wife but my loyalties lie with my lord uwu
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>>43442102
This type of split attraction bisexuality is a lot more common than you think, for both men and women. It's rarely talked about at all.
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>>43441821
what if you found a girl who was born with a penis but got it snipped off and put a vagina there instead



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