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how do I tell if I actually like men and I'm not just meta attracted? like sexually I can never get hard for men like I do for women but I find sex with men to be more gratifying. when in public and I have to interact with an attractive man my heart flutters a bit and I get nervous just like with attractive women. I've had hookups were men are disappointed that I can't get hard and I would just tell them that when I'm with men my brain goes into "bottom mode" and doesn't get hard because there's no point in doing so and when I'm with women I can get hard because my brain goes into "top mode"
does this make any sense? am I just fake bi?
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>>43442298
You’re a unique experience anyways i think those who are meta attracted are very much aware of the fact so maybe you aren’t how do you feel about getting married to a man and loving him for the rest of time?
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>>43442706
the only way I see myself ever getting married is to a man, I have male socialization and male interests so I feel like I can communicate and form a stronger bond with a man
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>>43442785
So based im leaning 80% not meta attracted off this post tbqh
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>>43442876
well maybe i wasn't 100% truthful if a naturally dominant women(extremely rare) were to ask for my hand id probably would, I just can stand the thought of dating submissive women anymore I've had my fill and it just leaves me feeling empty inside
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>>43443045
Well that’s probably because you have bottom dysphoria and it’s like you said you’re bi so of course you still would marry the right women if given the chance honestly nona don’t beat yourself up over this you only have a short time on the planet
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>>43442298
is this guy still alive? he was already old when 4chan started wth?
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>>43443137
okay that makes me feel a little better thank you <3
>>43443149
he's only 80 iirc
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>>43443210
>only
bro was born during WWII
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>>43442298
Why does it matter, stop overpsychoanalysing yourself.



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