i'm past 30, 2 years hrt manmoder so it's over anyway but i'm considering just waiting until my parents, remaining grandparents, aunts and uncles are dead before doing any kind of social transition.coming out to parents as a manmoder didn't go well so i'm just trying to avoid more discomfort and awkwardness and arguments
>>43446390how old are they?
>>43446390>coming out as a manmoderlol
>>43446420parents are in their 60s
>>43446438yeah big regrets
>>43446441idk i think its kinda a little stupid cause like that really could mean finally socially transitioning at like anywhere between your 40s-60s. like its it really worth it? very fembrained tho lol. are your friends accepting? how often do you see your parents, could it be possible to socially transition but just manmode when you see them?
>>43446517not out to friends. i see them most weeks. i would need ffs to socially transition but i can't exactly hide that from family.
Bad idea unless you can prevent your own aging
>>43446692what else can i do?
i kinda wanted to wait for my grandfather to die since my family does inheritance that skips a generation and he’s pretty rich. unfortunately i’m kind of lying about a bunch of stuff so i might have to come out early, or end up semi-disowned even if i don’t come out
>>43446545come out to your friends like at least as a manmoder. like now. TEXT THEM NOW!
>>43446938don't feel like embarrassing myself
>>43446953maybe they’ll be like my friends and accept you but still gender you male 100% of the time. that’s not embarrassing, right?
>>43446991it sounds embarrassing, why would i want that
>>43446390You sound like me, except I'm not on hrt yet and I'm waiting for a different set of family members to leave/die.>>43446938Lol why would OP do that? What would anyone gain right now? What would they even text? Picrel?
>>43447062"hey guys, you've known me for years but i actually want to be a woman but look like a man and... yeah idk"
>>43446390Dumb bitch you will be waiting for like 40 years
>>43446953>>43447011do you think john50ing is going to be any less embarrassing?
>>43447198maybe i'll just kms then
>>43447213you're already essentially dead. you are a p-zombie. you are furniture. you're lost in endless mediation on your actions' imagined form instead of being compelled by their force. your life is the end result of centuries of a sick and dying culture.
>>43446390>coming out to parents as a manmoderwhat does it even mean kek
>>43447389i forgot to add the postive message at the end of this lol. you can fix this by being a person and living you life.I believe in you sweetie! You got this! <3
>>43447519it means saying you're trans and on hrt when there's nothing fem about you
>>43447862oh :/there must be something femm about you?
>>43448035i'm slimmer than most men my age
>>43448124that is good!
>>43448164still 6ft tall with broad shoulders though
>>43448211ifeel you
>>43446390out of curiosity how long have you been coming to this website
>>43448268a few months
reminds me of an Onion article I saw“man waiting until parents die before doing a single thing that makes him happy”
wow we are literally exactly the same person, like exactly the same all the details, i’m so sorry lol it fucking sucks. well only diff i didn’t tell my parents it wouldn’t go well
>>43448318sorry to hear that bro. i wouldn't recommend it
>>43448344where u frm
>>43448344me neither it’s very stressful
>>43448362uk
>>43448408too close for comfort we may have to fight to the death
>>43448436i am weak
>>43446390>coming out to my parents as a manmoderyou already came out what are u waiting for. There is no fucking way I could tell my parents I take estrogen or even have faggot tendencies. They’re in their 70s tho so I shouldn’t have to wait too long
>>43446390If you’re man modding what’s the point of telling your parents you are on HRT, you get 0 benefits and only downsides.You should have just said nothing.
>>43449075I thought if they understood I'd get the confidence to transition
>>43446390Light yagami ass thread name
>>43446438>>43446477You have to tell us more about how you came out as a manmoder
>>43451414I didn't say "i'm a manmoder" i said i was unhappy being a man, on hrt and hoped to pass as a woman in the future.
>>43446390Bro you aren’t trans.You can be fully transitioned and just put on male clothes twice a year for your family. They aren’t going to ask to see your license. You’re making excuses.>no I’m actually one of those people still around their family 24/7 in their 30sOh, then die.
>>43451755ok thanks
>>43451694so you came out as trans
>>43453279yeah but their reaction means i'm now committed to manmoding
>>43453806rip
>>43446836Transition now and stop caring about what other people think
>>43453868impossible
>>43447062Picrel made me emotional. Tear in my eye
>>43446390>>43448211so relatable, it feels ridiculous and unbearable to be "out" when my body is objectively ngmit. even taller manmoder/hrt repper
>>43453941sorry :/
>>43453968i've been having this ideation of my past being erased so that i could start entirely new and be myself since i was like 12 (which makes me hate everything that reminds me of the past), plus some more "feasible" (practically not really tho) ideas like escaping to a different country as well as holding out until all my close family dies, it's no good way to live
>>43453998i fantasise about being a completely different person
>>43446441i think that's incredibly stupid. are you sure you wanna risk trooning out in your 60s if one of them is particularly long lived? how much longer are you gonna be a slave to others' desires and sacrifice your own happiness?
>>43454039yeah, i hate that i have to exist as a person with a past that has been imprisoned in my own body for all my life
>>43454154until i die, i'm cowardly in all aspects of life
>>43454175also very relatable, i managed to get an education and an ok job, but every decision is made slowly and reluctantly in my life
>>43448480that is good then i will win
>>43446390latest point worth doing it is in early 20's and only if your base is good enoughyou're too old for this shit
>>43446390retard if they're that bad stop talking to them
