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>>43448272
this might be terrible advice but i got addicted to nicotine and then i quit and got super depressed and entirely lost my sex drive. i gave up and started using zyns again and my sex drive came back but that gap gave me enough clarity where i just didn't care about porn any more(i wouldn't have really called myself a porn addict anymore before this tho, it was already kinda phasing itself out for a while). anyway just find a way to give you're self a long enough break without making it a big deal and you probably wont care. i've heard that the best thing you can do is not beat yourself up if you fail. pleasure and disgust get linked when you are horny so if you are super disgusted with yourself for watching porn it can make yerking it feel even better and you can end up giving yourself a "porn festish"

t.repper(idk if that info changes anything)

>>43448423
thanks for the advice, i don't really get 'post nut clarity' anymore i just get tired so there's not as much disgust as there used to be, it used to carry through the whole next day but not anymore

i'll just try to resist the urge before it gets worse, it's a lot easier without testosterone

>>43448272
do you have religious upbringing or what?

>>43448272
>how do i quit it?
have sex with him. No, I'm serious. That is the best way.
ever since I moved in with my bf I only watched porn once - we watched together actually for inspiration :3
You're still gonna get horny. HRT disrupts that for a short while but that's about it. We are sexual beings nona.

>>43448272
just read smut

the big issue is that on an estrogenic system, visual stimuli is less arousing

>>43448272
i am going to give you a warning about this, i was in an extremely similar situation to you. loved bnwo porn, got into a relationship, had the same problems where nothing with my partner aroused me.

i thought i'd just get over it, but i didnt. it was impossible to get off w/ her, all i could think about was her with a black guy. it completely ruined our relationship and when i finally told her why she broke up with me.

there are 3 things i think are irreconcilable in a relationship: political views, finances, and sexual compatibility. you can try to ignore these things but they will 100% drive a wedge into all relationships and most wont survive. beating a "porn addiction" is a very long process, though from what you've posted here it doesnt sound like a porn addiction, it sounds like you have fetishes that your partner either isnt into, doesnt know about, or you dont want to accept.

i hate these captchas if u wanna talk more u can email me at davidheadley222@proton.me and we can exchange discords if you want. i wish you the best

>>43448459
yeah it really isn't big deal as long as you don't make it one. i was kinda shocked at how little it took to reset my brain. i've even watched porn once or twice since and had very little interest. it really is just a bad habit for most people they just think its worse than it is and then people treat it like an addiction and it makes it into one.

>>43448557
they got bots on /tttt/ now?

>>43448590
Porn addict don't have sex. Gooners don't have sex.
Literally the entire porn industry revolves around people not having sex (mostly men)

>>43448511
no
>>43448529
we can't meet up again for another month at least
>>43448530
sure
>>43448557
my bf is a guy, i don't know where this fetish comes from and i don't really care about finding out but it's not all consuming i still like other stuff too

>>43448607
im not a bot wtf how rude

>>43448650
>we can't meet up again for another month at least
Then do what the snoymoder suggested. Read smut and lean into your new method of stimuli.
Also, get a vibrator and stop jerking off.

>>43448272
Ok, no matter how much porn I've watched, I have never spent money on it.

>>43448788
yeah, i'll try that
just when i started hrt smut really did it for me but i've started moving back to visual porn and i don't know why
>>43448789
me neither

>>43448272
Is your bf black? You could have him wear blackface if not. You already fucked your brain with porn, why not go the full distance?

>>43448789
i honestly think banning free porn would solve or partially solve like 80% of the problems societal problems there are with porn right now.
>monetary barrier reduces overconsumption
>overconsumption reduces drive to find more extreme content
>encourages individual producers instead of large companies
>this leads to less exploitation of workers
>pay barrier prevents minors from being able to easily find it
>this built in age barrier removes "protect the children" as a justification for increased surveillance across other parts of the internet

>>43448931
he's Asian, it sort of fulfills the same part of my brain desu, i just don't know how to bring it up
>"hey babe can you tell me i'm a worthless piece of white trash and you're superior to me and i'm ending my bloodline when we fuck? thanks"
like i don't think that would come off well

>>43448950
nta but i've never considered this point before wow, i wholeheartedly agree

>>43448950
nta but this is delusional.
torrents exist. That geenie never goes back into the bottle. There's hundreds of trillions of pentabytes of porn saved on private hard drives. Free-of-charge porn is never going away, anon.
>this leads to less exploitation of workers
says that unironically on the tranny board (you do know a sizeable minority if not an outright majority of troons are sex workers, right?)
>this built in age barrier removes "protect the children" as a justification for increased surveillance across other parts of the internet
holy naivete... baka.

>>43448950
>just ban free porn!
how are you and i of the same species

>>43448958
Yeah I mean I would be pretty horrified if a partner wanted me to do that. I'm a softy in general though. Is he up for denigrating you sexually in other ways? Like could you compromise and just have him call you a stupid whore or whatever?

>>43448975
yeah and i honestly don't think getting a policy like this passed would be that hard cause it has points that appeal to both the left and the right, it would be super easy to get public support for. this paired with requiring ISPs to include free easy to use parental controls with every plan would fix so many problems with the internet in general.

>>43449034
he's very into it yeah, like he's a dacryphile and a sadist and shit so he's agreed on slapping me around and calling me useless already

if I didnt watch porn i would still be permanently horny and gooning.

The root cause isn’t porn. It’s better to accept that you’re broken and not fight your nature as it reduces overall suffering

>>43449050
i'm fine with getting off every few days it's just the porn that's the issue, i don't want to fuck my brain too much to enjoy sex

>>43448950
I mean ppl.would just repost shit. Movies and vidya get pirated. Porn would too.

I do think it should be restricted but hard bans might now work
Unironically it should.be an awkward talk that parents have with their kids where a dad sits his boy down and goes "Dont whack it to ladies online else you'll fry your shit"

>>43449038
you are cretin

time to leave this place forever

>>43448982
>torrents exist. (...) Free-of-charge porn is never going away, anon.
most normies are too retarded/don't care enough to torrent. also i don't really care about it if its peer to peer it more about getting it out of the hands of platforms that have a monetary incentive to show the most engaging content possible.
>says that unironically on the tranny board (you do know a sizeable minority if not an outright majority of troons are sex workers, right?)
i don't think i really understand what you're saying here. shouldn't that make make me want to find a solution that allows sex workers to work while protecting them from unfair and unsafe working conditions? i don't see your point?
>this built in age barrier removes "protect the children" as a justification for increased surveillance across other parts of the internet
perhaps, but way things are right now makes it very easy to use this rhetoric so i'd be down to at least try something.

the only major issue i see with my plan is it would require the government to come up with a definition for what is and isn't pornographic which historically hasn't gone well.

>>43449050
no you would just jerk off without porn or get a partner

>>43449110
ok literally how? unrestricted access to porn at a young age is not good, and i would honestly extrapolate that out to the internet as a whole. its not like the internet ruined me forever but if i had spent my teen years online i would be way more socially well adjusted. people who aren't terminally online weirdos realize that this is a problem and will look for authoritarian solutions if you don't give them libertarian ones. i fail to see how governments mandating id to post online is preferable to parents having a free tool to decided what content is and isn't ok for there kids.

>>43449184
>but way things are right now makes it very easy to use this rhetoric so i'd be down to at least try something.
Nigga your own replies basically explain how you're wrong while purporting to agree with you. Like >>43449038 for instance who basically describes a surveillance state.
>>43449247
>ok literally how?
You are doing the same justification for a surveillance state and abolition of privacy like every other cretin in politics. You just use slightly different language.
>people who aren't terminally online weirdos realize that this is a problem and will look for authoritarian solutions
Everyone is a terminally online weirdo these days, senpai. 80 year old grandmas in the third world vote for extremists because they saw it on TikTok.
>if you don't give them libertarian ones
The libertarian solution is to get the gov't out of this shit. But your "solution" does exactly the opposite.
>i fail to see how governments mandating id to post online is preferable to parents having a free tool to decided what content is and isn't ok for there kids
This has always existed. You know that, right? Parental controls were a thing in 2002 already. Normalfags just didn't use them because they didn't know how. And they still don't use them for the exact same reason or because they don't give a fuck.

>>43449093
parents did tell me this tho (however it was a moral argument not a you'll break your brain one) and i still watched it. they also told me drugs would fry my brain and that didn't stop me. there definitely needs to be some sort of regulation. my biggest thing is getting it out of the hand of companies that have the incentive to make it as captivating as possible, im open other possible ways to achieve that goal.

What if you didn't ban porn, but everyone was assigned a jerk off squad, and everytime one of you wanted to do it one or more of your squadmates had to watch you do it? I uh think this could really help with a lot of socio political ills

>>43449296
You do know BLACKED is an indian fetish doe
You jerk.off to captions made by indian SEA people

Just pick up a hobby, that's all your literally need to do. Hell learn how to draw or code or some shit.

>>43449338
I always wanted to learn how to draw but my brain is fried from vidya and shortform entertainment and i dont even want to do anything.

Mix in impregnation talk with the pics

>>43449287
a. all of the post you replied to in this post are me
b. you are you are retard
>who basically describes a surveillance state
nigga how is this a surveillance state your isp already sees everything you do this just forces ISPs to give people parental controls that are easy to use and because they are telling users about it parents will feel like they are failing their kid if don't set it up (cause they would be) instead of the government stepping in and saying you need to scan your asshole every time you want to use instagram.
that should answer this
>This has always existed. You know that, right? Parental controls. . . Normalfags just didn't use them because they didn't know how.
>Everyone is a terminally online weirdo these days
if you took a step outside your door for once in your life you would realize how normal everyone is.
>The libertarian solution is to get the gov't out of this shit. But your "solution" does exactly the opposite.
this might be hard to understand because you're 80iq but government regulating big business leads to more libertarian outcomes. when you let tech oligarchs run around with trillions of dollars they create platforms destined to create crisis, buy their way into government, and then impose orwellian policies to solve said crisis. if you've watched american politics at all in the past 5 years you should know this.

>>43448272
>now i'm in a relationship but my boyfriend's pics just do nothing for me at all
>most of them are just bland dickpic shots and no videos so they arouse me but not enough to actually cum to.
>i've asked if he can record something else and he agrees but then just never does.

Maybe you just need something more mentally stimulating. There are a lot of dynamics going on in your head with that type of content (taboo nature, degradation, domination/submission, racial tension, etc.) A bland dick pic with nothing much else going on is gonna be kinda boring after you've known the person for a while and the initial excitement of a new partner has worn off. Is there anything you'd want him to do to otherwise get you in the mood? Personally, I need a lot of dialogue. It can't just be straight fucking or I get bored and disassociate.

>>43448272
idk when the pain of your actions becomes great enough you will change

>>43449476
>government regulating big business leads to more libertarian outcomes
the most gigacommie take possible
>burger politics
amerimutt trying to discuss a topic without reducing said topic to the minutiae of amerimutt politics - challenge level: impossible
you guys really need to realize you're no longer the biggest or the most important game in town. Burgeristan is just another country, and not even in top 10 most important or relevant culturally speaking. This isn't 1996 anymore, unc. The World doesn't look at Burgeristan with admiration anymore because there's nothing left to admire.

>>43450817
>Is there anything you'd want him to do to otherwise get you in the mood?
well yeah
i actually don't think it'll be a problem when we have sex because the first time will be my first time and we also share a bunch of fetishes, it's just now
he's really opposed to recording stuff with audio though and idk why, i mean obviously listening to it back would be really awkward but audio is the main thing i use to get off

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