Cisgenders of the board, how did your family react to you dating a tranny (if they know at all)?.The thing I fear the most right now is my boyfriend's family not being okay at all with me and taking him away from me. I have no proof of that, I don't even know them, but we live in a conservative area and I can tell he was raised in a chuddy environment
>>43457437my mother broke down crying at screamed at me to stop making life so hard for myself
>>43457484:(
>>43457437my(T) bf said his family was surprised but that they support him being with whoever makes him happy. They also said I look cute and have only been nice to me in person
>>43457437My mom was nice about it and tried her best to be respectful, but when she would speak to me about my (admittedly clocky) gf, she would say he/him and then correct herself almost every time
>>43457437>Cisgenders of the board, how did your family react to you dating a tranny (if they know at all)?.They treated her, me and us as if she was cis. Might be they didn't clock her (she was stealth, I got asked if she might be pregnant when she felt ill at a govt thing), might be they were feeling sorry for me given what a failure I am. Don't know, don't care. Still would have been with her if things didn't go downhill, but they did.
>>43457437my cis ex's threatened to have him deported if he didn't break up with me
>>43457865ex's family
>>43457437My dad congratulated me. My mom didn't clock her at first. She asked me privately some other time if my (now) wife is a tranny, I said "yes" and she was like "gosh, she's really beautiful. It's all good if you two are happy".My other relatives legit don't know (she's even more passable now).It would've been her even if they didn't approve. In fact, one reason this went smoothly is precisely because it was an accomplished fact. I introduced them when we were having the wedding all set up.>I can tell he was raised in a chuddy environmentI am chuddy. And so is my wife. Thank god we don't live in angloidistan and diversity of thought is still real. Heck, lefty trannies are very rare here because the actual commies despise both troons and fags.We married in 2019, we've been together since 2017.
>>43457865Hispanic or african?
>>43457929Ok Anon I am not from an angloid country either but chuds here still do not like trannies and I am worried. Plus I am brown. Not sure about their opinions on browns either.
>>43457931asian
>>43457958>and I am worriedThen postpone the moment until you're no longer worried.Ultimately you can postpone the moment indefinitely. I have a friend who is about to marry his tranny gf. He introduced her to his family but her family doesn't know he exists and won't be informed of the wedding either.It's ultimately a choice: do you value the opinion of others above your happiness or not.I would've been perfectly fine if my parents disowned me, desu. I wanted what I wanted and that was that.
>>43457437My immediate family didn't really care they are really progressive
>>43457437Almost all of my family has disowned me so I don't even think they know, but if they did they'd disapprove I'm sure. My mother is a sweet woman though and she's been very nice and understanding about it. My dad didn't care.
>>43457437My father gave me the silent treatment for four months while my mother would just start arguing with me Matt Walsh style while I was in the middle of job in the home office. She kept saying things like "you're making things harder for yourself, why don't you date a biological woman?" I told her those were the same questions people asked my white father when he decided to date a black woman. She eventually had a panic attack when I made my relationship public to my extended family. What the fuck are they going to do, start crying? They have zero leverage over me so they end up coming off like sulking whiny children. I told them to stop making MY relationship about THEIR insecurities.
>>43458556Quite based ngl Anon
>>43457437insane how all three of these characters end up being irrelevant and useless. complete waste of space
>>43457437>picWasn't that character canonically confirmed to be not trans? Why do ledditors still obsess over him?
>>43458861Death of the author, no one gives a shit.
Its funny as a troon I thought that was peak faggot and nothing else would matter after that, but my family still acted a bit funny the first time I dated someone of the same sex.
>>43458883>Death of the author???
>>43458977The point is people will interpret a text anyway they want, the intent of the author is irrelevant
>>43458861no, the only people who got deboonked were the tomboy copers
>>43459953How could he be a tomboy when he's a cis male?
