so for context, im 21 year old lesbian. my girlfriend and i have been dating 6 months and I've just done something i really wanted to do for a long timeim really obsessively in love with my girlfriend, we live really far apart and will meet irl this year.i may or may not be extremely controlling and a bit paranoid, but to be really honest, i also embarrassingly get off from being abusive and manipulative and controlling.but she really enjoys it and not only enables it but encourages itso i took the jump and finally isolated her from all of her friends, and basically monitor everything she doesit feels amazing and makes me ecstatic, but also makes me feel guilty and like a horrible person, which, to be fair, i am.so yeah i just wanted to confess. sorry if its a bother or stuff, curious for thoughts
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>>43460155giwtwm
>>43460155its very sweet that you feel guilt for engaging in strange behavior that she also enjoys. I think you should urge her to be with her friends and to go out, just for mental well being and what not. It could be fun if you tracked her while she way out with sharing location or an apple air tag. maybe even make her take selfies or herself while she is out and about. That could be a fun excuse to just have a big photo album of all of her selfies, kind of cute.
>>43460183gay and retarded keep her for urself nona ur relationship sounds so wonderful
>>43460155i would die for someone like you
thanks everyone, this makes me feel quite a bit more confident about it!
>>43460262how to i find someone who will treat me and love/abuse me like you treat and love/abuse your gf
>>43460182i still let her meet with her band and dnd group irl for now (though once we move in together I won't let her go outside hehe). i just isolated her from online friends for now. so your idea is really good, thanks!!
okay sorry if im kinda fumbling replies, ive never tried posting, just went here because of the anonymity. for the anon asking about how to find someone like that.it kinda sucksss like, basically roll the rice and go through like a fuck ton of actually horrible abusive relationships with mentally ill girls till u find one that makes you happy (but you get like a million traumas from the process bleh)
>>43460155you are so true! do this more
roll the dice*
>>43460315ur so amazing i hope ur gf never betrays u in some wayI rly dont care how abusive they are so long as theya. love me forever b. are loyal to me foreverI hope i can find someone as obsessive and committed one day it sounds so amazing only thing id be scared about is that they could cheat on me and id feel miserable forever after being so vulnerable
>>43460382cheating is absolutely deplorable and anyone who sets on my girlfriend deserves death, im gonna graduate soon enough and move in with her, so no matter what we'll be together forever!!!!
>>43460423ur gf is so lucky to have u nona ur so amazing
This thread is full of deplorable psychopaths, op foremost among them
>>43460449mhn, thank u! im also really really lucky to have her
>>43460465i wouldn't disagree with you to be honest at least on the last part, though being self-aware doesn't make it less bad i suppose
>>43460465>ermm this relatinoship is so le heckin problematic! the masses warn of toxic relationships like yours!u r a retarded polycuck incapable of understanding actual love therapizing/categorizing relationships into strict moral rights and wrongs has ruined relationships more ppl would be happy if they had someone like op instead of having to be subject to the standard passionless friendship+ relationships that are so common
>>43460539Op and her gf don’t love each other. Op loves having someone they can abuse who’s too fucked up to leave, and her gf is so afraid of being alone she craves this kind of attention.
>>43460575you only think this because it is a relationship that you wouldnt personally want you cant understand how either of them feel because underdeveloped capacity for trve romancethere is nothing inherently unhealthy about this ppl just have npc brain when it comes to whats "acceptable" in a relationshipthe honest trvth is that genuine love can manifest itself in more extreme ways than whats normal
>>43460155If she understands and is capable of enforcing boundaries, then it's up to you to respect that. If she isn't capable of creating or enforcing her own boundaries, you absolutely have a responsibility to not prey on her.
>>43460691i dont appreciate this kind of sentiment because it limits the number of people like op and as such limits my chances to find someone like op
>>43460155you really need to stop out that guilt. Both of you like it this way, so the guilt is just going to ruin it. you both need this and nobody is getting hurt.
>>43460742nona is absolutely right op dont let what the moralfags say in this thread get to youyou have something special cherish it and nurture it or youll condemn yourself to a meaningless life
>>43460719Wrong. I am like OP and I am not going to condone my kind going around being monsters. That's how you get hunted to extinction.
>>43460900id let you prey on and act however badly u want to me nona :(
