Is your daughters or sisters wedding a good opportunity to come out?
>>43466344that's actually low key depressing, i used to know a trans woman in her late 50s who got disowned by her daughter for transitioning and the daughter basically never wanted anything to do with her ever again because she was embarassed
>>43466344yes. nothing more woman brained like upstaging a female relative
>>43466403Nothing more fembrained than making the most special day of your daughter's life about YOU
>>43466422Well, yes actually.
>>43466344Tfw I’m socially transitioning but my kid’s getting married so I have to go back to manmoding so the guests aren’t distracted by me being a freak
>>43466344>john 50 is a narcissistic piece of shit whose transness consists of playing a character sometimesNobody who is actually trans says shit like "I'm going to my daughter's wedding as Bella." Because their identity isn't an alter-ego that they can decide to turn on or off. "Bella" is just this faggot's drag persona but he's too narcissistic and/or retarded to just admit he's a gross old man who has a crossdressing fetish.
>>43466484i think its more a vestige from the pre-2010 days where being trans was generalized as man/woman stuck in woman/mans body, rhetoric was like>theres a woman up there in my head and i gotta set her freebecause that was the easiest rationalization for cissoids to understand (and still is) lol
>>43466470Know that feel too, I skipped the wedding of two of my closest friends because I didn't want to be a distracting awkward ugly tranny during their big dayI don't really regret skipping it, it would have been a mess I'm sure
>>43466455Exactly!! Nona should do it!! It'll be so HECKING HOLESVME
>>43466344I would kill my parent with my bare hands if they came out at my wedding.
>>43466524Well if that's not accurate then what is a better explanation?
>>43466635leaded paint
>>43466584If you can’t tell the difference between being descriptive and normative I don’t know what to tell you
>>43466344awful awful awful awful awful but 100% mother behavior
It doesn't sound like she's coming out at the wedding, just most people there have not met her post transition. Sorry not sorry but I can't stop being a woman because it makes your guests feel awkward
>>43467029That's what coming out is. If other people don't know and learn at the wedding, then she's coming out.
>transitioning after having children
>>43467138Coming out as trans and people seeing you in person for the first time since coming out are not the same
>>43466344Distasteful yet nuclear soulpass, but also I happened to come out to my extended family at my grandpa's funeral so lmao
>>43466620tenth post best post
>>43466367transphobia is depressing
>>43471031>but also I happened to come out to my extended family at my grandpa's funeral so lmaokek based
>>43466635body horror
>>43467138then coming out is no big deal since you do it every time you meet somebody
>>43466344I think I just wouldnt go to a party thrown by someone who is ashamed of me. Whats the point