i’m attracted to men now after hrt (wasn’t really before) but the way men treat trans women has made me functionally asexual. i don’t really have an interest in just hooking up with someone, and it doesn’t really seem like anyone would take me seriously the way they would a cis woman who wants a long term relationship. i want to be loved but i don’t really want to hook up with several men to see which of them will stick around either. im not that kind of girl idk i just want to be courted and treated seriously and it feels impossible. why did god make me like this why do i have to be an androphilic troon. i might just stay volcel forever at this rate
>>43468788I think your right most men treat trans women worse than they actual women. It ruins it for the guys who want a real relationship because everything we do gets questioned constantly due to trauma. My ex ran our relationship into the ground overthinking everything......well that AND some other major mental health issues. The way she treated me left me functionally asexual too, now here I am with a new girlfriend and im struggling with sex like a loser, shit sucks. Luckily for me and my current GF were both going through the same thing since her ex made her uncomfortable with sex too. There is some charm to healing together. Anyway you have to put yourself out there and love, and get hurt, and cry, and laugh to gain experience so you can pick the good ones out from the bad ones. Trial and error unfortunately.
>>43469516esl slop
>>43469683I dont know what that means sorry
>>43468788>wasn't really beforeso you were true ace before or?
>>43468788Don't give sex away to chasers. Chasers are losers. Try to meet a man away from online spaces and develop trust and a bond with him before having sex.
>>43471165AGP are heterosexuals generally.
>>43471183Yeah, chasers just gross me out. Like when I got adds for Taimi they were all exclusively guys hooking up with trans women and I just had that gut feeling this was some weird fetish stuff. It's to the point I don't even recognize skoliosexual as a real sexuality.
>>43471221Chasers are men that are hyper cocksexual but want a penis attached to a woman. They're experiencing a debilitating fetish in the same way trans women are when they have autogynephilia and aren't really trans, but their sexual fetish drives them further away from sanity.
>>43468788i feel exactly the same way. i have so much dysphoria and trauma that i really want a boyfriend but i would only want to kiss and not go any further, and he would have to be 100% monogamous and eventually marry me. but since this is an impossible standard i don't date at all. i just live alone.
>>43471271obviously cuddling too. maybe handjobs but ONLY occasionally and only when i want to, if he nags me about it i would leave
>>43471290You're never going to find a partner to put up with this diva act. Just be a transbian. Most of you are transbians that want a man as your trophy to prove that you've moved past looking like a man. No man is going to settle for you.
>>43471344well firstly fuck you second i don't like women third, obviously i know no man will ever want that? i literally said so? i've already given up on dating. i just play otome games when i feel lonely
>>43471369See this is why some of you would be better suited as men. Unless you were a gay boy prior to transition, there's no point in transitioning unless you plan on dating mtf or women. A tranny who was gay already will have no problem with enjoying sex with a male partner, and keeping her man satisfied. AGP aren't physically attracted to men to begin with, and it plays a significant role in why they decide to transition, because they didn't like seeing themselves masculinize.
>>43471418i'm not going to respond to this shitty bait
>>43471425It's not bait but your choice
