why is there so much transmisandry?
blue woman discourse is so last week
>>43471666what is blue woman discourse?
No offense, trans men are sort of just...weird? I don't know why, but they sort of just give you this feeling something is just, I dunno, off? I'm sorry! It's just maybe that's how people feel! And it leads to them feeling like you're a threat?
>>43471647see, the thing is a lot of trans women deny transmisandry exists because they themselves were subaltern to male privilege pre-transition. they were visibly queer or not traditionally masculine so they did not get to live “the good life”. so when a trans man shows up, there’s a lot of unresolved anger and resentment within themselves that’s directed towards trans men. a lot of people also ignore that intersectionality applies to men too. you can see this with how the blue trans woman acts towards trans men, and why trans men who pass often trail off from lgbt focused spaces. they do not feel welcome and their lived experiences are ignored because no one wants to acknowledge the challenges that are faced at the intersection of being a man and being trans. the tone policing went from “we shouldn’t use transmisandry because misandry doesn’t exist”, then went to “transandrophobia doesn’t exist, because that a dogwhistle for transmisandry”, then “anti-transmasculinity doesn’t exist because people can’t be against men”. another point is that autism is comorbid with gender dysphoria. this means that trans people will often default to having trouble relating to others, and when that’s combined with resentment you’re going to get a narcissism of small differences. it’s weird because there’s nastier energy directed towards trans men than republicans
>>43471743good one, glowie
>>43471743males have no privilege, only women are artificially privileged, men are brutally subjugated given their competency and skill
Transmisandry isnt real so that’s probably why people get upset when you bring it up. The reason a lot of trans women are critical of trans men is because they tend to be really creepy and abusive? Like they’re literally just men who were never taught not to harass or get physical with women so there’s a lot of crossed boundaries and relationships get physically abusive shockingly often. There is nuance to it tho, obvi not all trans guys are like that and the weird trans MRA shit a lot of them have going on is mostly just a fringe internet thing. I think trans guys who are just like normalish dudes tend to be much better than most cis men
>>43471839>transmen make the best men because they aren't men!Erryeahthey're female and raised with AFaB socialization
>>43471666context?
>>43471921I didn’t say they make the best men. Most are creepy and abusive. Did you even read what I wrote?
>>43471647what is even happening in this webm
>>43471647kek barely any posts in the thread and you’re already seeing transmisandry
>>43471647It’s so weird the way that libs simultaneously do and don’t believe in gender essentialism. I’m starting to think that most people are incapable of metacognition
>>43472021it's the green party's speech after starmer wins again
>>43471758>people who have problems because they’re trans are glowies
God some of us, yes, US are such fucking pissbabys. Transmisandry isn't fucking real, yall are addicted to being victims istg. Im so fucking sick of it and even when i try to extend an olive branch to other trans men to discuss this shit nicely yall jump down my throat telling me I'm a theyfab cunt for being reasonable Not you specifically, but damn
>>43471647nothing good has ever come from britain
>>43473042Garsh darn
>>43472021doctor who is a character who can die and be reborn in a new body. this allows the character to be played by a new actor since the show has been running for like 60 years or somethinghe was a white man for most of the character's run. then he was reborn as a woman and had a couple seasons. so the character is now genderfluidthen you have these two characters (mother and daughter), one of whom is trans, saying that because the character is currently male presenting it can't understand what it's like to give up power
Previously women mad that they cannot use the misogyny card so they try to push transmisandry.
>>43471647Because their sense of identity hinges on other people playing along with their fantasy, thus they are inherently assholes who demand that of everyone in the world.If you just like to pretend you're the other gender and don't care whether or not I play along, no problem. If you get butthurt when I don't pretend along with you, that's a problem.
>>43471743I believe that transmisandry exists, but trans women don't and can't partake in transmisandry, whereas trans men for a little part partake in transmisogyny
>>43473016we have a word for that already, actually! when people have problems because theyre trans, we say they are experiencing ‘transphobia’.
>>43473689Nevertheless trans men shouldn't be at all trans women's main concern
>>43473662delusional take. ive never pronoun policed or told anyone what to call me before and ive also never been misgendered or called male. if u walk and quack like a duck everyone automatically views you as one whether they can tell what you are or not.
>>43471647Irl a bunch of ftms don't have an "off switch" sure it's not specific to them but it's still prevelent.I will say this, when I went to an alternative highschool as a young shit I was the only out mtf and the ftms treated me like a toy desu, something to be fag hagged.Some ftms want to be treated like either a man or a woman depending on the social situation.Otherwise they're whining about how they're erased for being men (but it's different for cis men)Something something I have male socialization and I'm privileged I can't get pregnant or have periods I'm less of a woman etc.This shit adds up resentment wise real fast.I remember being in high school and seeing the shit about terj getting pregnant.I got stalked by a non passing ftm in high school, real short and round looking.I have no idea what happened with the blue lady but I support her, so what if she said pooner or some shit lol. From what I heard he was abusive to her.Had a ftm that clocked me cause we went to high school together and he said some annoying shit to the affect of me "not being a woman" when it came to passing.If you faggots could see how I look.I'm 5"8 with a soft face and large breasts, my voice is husky and androgynous sure but fuck did that annoy me."Not a man" if I said that type of shit to a ftm I would get cancelled from an LGBT space just like that.TDLR in public they're men in LGBT spaces they're AFAB AFAB AFAB
>>43471647it's fun
>>43471743Jesus christ. Tldr
>>43472010What’s even the point of your stupid little addendum at the end? Basically your post reads:>most trans men are creepy and bad>most cis men are creepy and bad>some transmen are better than most cis menIt’s such a braindead misandrist non statement. You just hate men
Tired of birthday boys having melites when they get called out on their bad behavior
>>43473689There's definitely weirdo trans women that are nasty about trans men but the cultural forces are different.
>>43473689>but trans women don't and can't partake in transmisandryIntersectionality reminder
>>43474050What do you mean?
>>43471839>Like they’re literally just men who were never taught not to harass or get physical with women so there’s a lot of crossed boundaries and relationships get physically abusive shockingly often.This is the thing I've noticed most from trans guys. They've never been told to shut up and listen, instead they think it's subversive for them to be an outspoken man interrupting/talking over women (esp. trans women because we "had to have" experienced male privilege) getting aggressive, and more. The guys that trooned out younger seem to be better than the ones that troon out in their 20's and 30's with a metric shit ton of emotional baggage.
Still mad about their dads raping them
>>43471686misandry against blue man group
>>43471743>fed>liberal that's completely oblivious to the fact that theyre just a center-right wingercall it
>>43474056intersectionality is a buzzword they use as a pretext to cry about trans women. they dont know what it means
>>43473940womp womp
>>43474206The misandrists ego makes her incapable of admitting fault
>>43471975former tripfag from forever ago (went by sean then) who successfully exploited coomers to build a pretty big twitter following, recently tweeted that she was done dating trans men after getting out of an abusive relationship with one. For some reason she also died herself vibrant blue around the same time, idk if that’s connected or not.I think what pissed people off most was that she specified that she’s still open to cis men, that she was exclusively avoiding pooners. Which like, I get having preferences but usually it’s poor taste to express them so openly.
>>43474339*dyed I’m a retard
>>43474339>she specified that she’s still open to cis menNo, she specified that she already was *not* open to cis men, but ever since her abusive ex partner, she hasn't been open to trans men since
>>43471647bait thread
>>43471647>>43471647transmisandry doesn't exist, anti-transmasculinity is the correct and better term.and transmascs are all annoying kids gatekeeping womanhood from trans woman(thinking that womanhood is backwards and evil), antagonize trans woman saying that we have male privilege(we don't), and especially they don't unlearn their own misogyny and transmisogyny so they use it against trans woman. when we push back and criticize them they start crying its misogyny or transmisandry. atp I'm led to think transmascs doesnt want to discuss their problems and just want to complain at trans woman and paint us as villains.
>>43473373>saying that because the character is currently male presenting it can't understand what it's like to give up powerwhat?that doesn't even make sense i'd wager the writers were just ragebaiting or something
>>43474339she’s blue for an amazing reason
>>43473918>zoomer can't read more than a tiktok caption
>>43473940I said most trans men are creepy and abusive but the few that ARENT are usually better than cis men>>43474119Yeah I def don’t enjoy the company of trans men most of the time. They’re pretty sexist and gross for the most part
>>43479753Sexist and gross how?
>>43479518>tard cant write concisely
>>43474598basedall men are trash
