Getting married sounds painful. like, imagine my families disappointment seeing me in a beautiful white wedding dress with full makeup. not only that, but if I marry a dude it's going to be MORE painful and cringe. I doubt some of my family would even show up to my wedding. being a tranny is so fucking embarrassing.
>>43471736you aren't supposed to wear full makeup at a weddingwhat do you think full makeup means
>>43471736Yeah im scared to walk down the isle too if it ever happens would rather just get married down at city hall make it all official and move on with life
>>43471755there's no fucking way I'm going to my own wedding WITHOUT makeup, like....>>43471759I want to get married somewhere really pretty, but at the same time I kinda want what you want just so I can lower my chances of embarrassment.
>>43471736same if I ever get married I think id rather it just be a courthouse thing. I really don't wanna have to put myself out there in front of a bunch of people like that...
>>43471793gently, there is a broad spectrum of makeup looks between 'full makeup' (this reads as 'full glam' to most) and 'without makeup'>>43471759i get it, but you deserve to wear a nice white dress nona
hear ye hear ye, these two males just signed an exclusive contract to fuck each other in the ass!*cheering*
>>43471793Well to be honest the big reason why I don’t want a big wedding is because none of my family would be there and that shit really just cuts you deep more than anything lol
>>43471860My girlfriend doesn't want to invite anyone from her family to our eventual wedding so I'm thinking it'll be better if we just elope and then throw a reception party afterwards so hopefully my family won't notice or care as much that her family is mysteriously absent
>>43471736Youre telling me as a gay I have to get up in front of my whole family to kiss a guy???? And Im supposed to be fighting for the right to do this?
>>43471860I imagine a few diaper transbians and some poondoods could populate a few rows
>>43471970I don’t want that dude you’re gonna make me cry I don’t even like women that’s so mean >>43471917That’s sounds sweet I hope everything goes good for yall
I wouldn't do it unless I'm a passoid, then I don't think there would be anything to be embarrassed about really?
>>43471736I felt this way too until I passed and got SRS. Now I'm excited to get married and if some of my family don't like it then I don't want them at my wedding anyways.The embarrassment is mine alone to conceptualize and feel, and frankly it's nobody else's business to even consider let alone feel themselves (well except for my future hubby, if he wants to tease me about it.)
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>but if I marry a dude it's going to be MORE painful and cringeHow would the heteronormitive option that aligns with the cis expectations of trannies be the more painful/cringe option for marriage?
>>43471736your family doesn’t have to know. personally i don’t intend on inviting the people who have known me as a man for most of my life and largely still consider me to be one
>>43471736We just got married at the courthouse and will do ceremony of some sort later. Definitely won't be the traditional church wedding with her in a poofy white dress
Is wanting the whole white dress thing agp? ITT everyone seems to be opting for the courthouse, but I always dreamed of having the whole traditional wedding since I was little ...
>>43477076>Is wanting the whole white dress thing agp?Not at all. You are allowed to have the kind of wedding that you want, Nona.
>>43477076Nope, if that’s what you want, go for it. I don’t particularly want my family there and it’s getting to the point that I don’t have any friends who I would want to ask to be in my wedding, so it’s looking like courthouse for me too.
>>43477076yes. wanting anything any woman has wanted at any point in time is agp
>>43477808Correct.
>>43471736That is why yer supposed to have a bunch of tranny friends in yer new life
>>43471736A wedding dress is objectively beautiful. The subtext is that we are a prize to be won. It'd be cringe if you thought that you were still a man.>families disappointmentThey're cissoids, you dumb woman. Beautiful white wedding dress with full-makeup is only embarrassing if you were cis. Then, yeah, the man is marrying a fucking subby lil fem twink. Shame. But no.Frankly, by the self-deprecating and decentered way you talk, you need a cis man who can properly boyremove you. Most trans women just need a strong man to tell them to shut the fuck up and stop overthinking,
>>43471736Guess what? No one from my family is getting invited. My girlfriend's family is much more of a family to me than what mine is, so this is more than enough for me.
>>43471836that’s why u get SRS
>>43477076can u imagine how funny it’ll be when the “is everything i do agp” brainworms inevitably transmit to cis women
