my transition failed despite the fact i tried my best
>>43473855Clitty leakage
>>43473855define "tried your best" please. im curious.
>>43474497zero exercisemorbillion tttt posts
>>43474497good lvls, exercise, new haircut, hygiene, CONSISTENCY
>>43474527that certainly is a good start. have you voice trained?for me personally, before i even started hrt, i knew i was gonna need ffs. i live in uk so can't get it on insurance. i worked multiple jobs i hated and sacrificed everything for a decade, but finally, i managed to get myself ffs, although i was 30 by then, and it felt a little bittersweet to miss out on my 20s, but i'm happier now, i think.
>>43474550i voice train every day but it isnt working
>>43474577yeah, voicetraining is, umm, idk it's a tough beast to tame and all the advice out there sucks. my voice isn't perfect, it used to be better but i got lazy. nevermind the science behind it, nevermind all the vocal exercises, for me i'd say the single most important thing is just raising your larynx. don't need to make a sound, just raise it up and hold it there. what helped me was placing my tongue flat against the roof of my mouth, and pushing up, it brings up the larynx. it's a muscle and needs to be strengthened. at first it barely moved, and it hurt. you can feel it with your thumb when it moves. i did 30 secs, then 1min, then 2. eventually just holding it longer and longer, until it became natural and i'd do it withot thinking, while i watch anime or cook food or whatever. many hours every day raising it up. getting your frequency higher is what matters, at least to my ears. idk i hope this maybe helps.
>>43474639raising my larynx is super easy its controlling the other muscles for resonance thats just not possible
