are you a whore or a bad person if you've been in four relationships and cheated fairly heavily in all of them
>>43475221Depends on your gender and partners
>>43475231Fthey were all good sweet boys
>>43475231No it doesn't, its bad all the way around
>>43475221YES
>>43475221>>43475273CHEATER
>>43475221its only cheating if they love you (never)
>>43475221lol yeah
>>43475221Its not good for the soul thats for sure. If your hurting people that care about you thats generally bad.
>>43475221You will be remembered fondly by your homo exes as, "that loose butthole faggot bottom"
Both.
Why don't you just date a cuck OP?
>>43475221cheating is one of the most cruel things you can do to your partnerI mean if you're young and inexperienced you may do some mistakesbut repeatedly cheating isn't just oh I was young and dumb and it won't ever happen againyou are a very bad person and should never be in a relationship again
>>43475986it's ok, this is normal for a homo males with other homo malesthe community awaits him with open arms <3
well, yes
>>43475221My ex cheated on me a lot, and had some pretty bad crash outs on top of that. I left her early this year. I heard she's doing really bad, alone and desperately trying to pick up eboys on twitter. Seeing her get ignored while screaming into the void online makes me sad for her even if she hurt me and so many others before me.
>>43476736do not pity the femme fatale
>>43475221Why bother getting in a relationship than
>>43475221All of them deserved it except the last two
>>43475221yup
>>43477251Its more complex than that. She knows what she's doing is wrong and it tears her up, but zero impulse control. She's in a self destructive cycle and I'm sure I'll se her in the news one day. She's doing worse than I am by far. I'm in a good relationship now and she's out there losing what's left of her mind trying to recreate what we had, just to be torn apart by chasers that don't care about her as a person. Its a bleak fate. Deserved.....but bleak.
>>43475273and you are bragging about it lol dark triad moded
It doesn’t make you a bad person Nona but you should get help if you can’t stop doing it. Just remember it doesn’t define you or make you a bad person no matter what anyone tells you. I hope things get better for you soon <3
>>43475221Yes. you should unironically die. You're less than human.
>>43478151Men try not to tell women they should die over 1 mistake challenge: impossible
>>43475221Yes and yes. You should feel bad
>>43478175What is wrong with the guys on this board that you jus keep calling women whores
>>43478162post better bait retard
>>43478191Being a cheater and a whore is not gender specific. Anyone doing that is bad. It spreads disease, and ignores the emotional component of sex
>>43478330It’s not bait you people do this constantly >>43478355You don’t understand or have sympathy for the situation of someone who gets forced to do that stuff so idgaf about your opinion
>>43475221it's a non-issue as long as you were a good partner otherwise desu
>>43479269>forced to cheat 4 timesnigga u cant be serious
>>43479537My point is just you don’t know her circumstances and even if you did you would still say she had a choice and judge her so why would she tell you
>>43475221"bad person" is not typically a useful frame for thinking about thingsdid you care about them? if you did, why did you do things you knew would hurt them? if you didn't, why did you stay in a relationship with them?if you are having trouble staying monogamous, perhaps you should try getting into a relationship where that isn't expected.
>>43479269>you're making me feel bad so I'm just gonna pretend you're wrong There is no valid reason to cheat. If you don't love them, break up. If you wanna sleep around, just say that. Betraying anyone's trust is unfair, wrong, and has a lasting effect on their psyche.Cope however you want about it but it's wrong. As someone that's broken many hearts being a whore and has seen the aftermath, I'm telling you it's wrong no matter how you wanna pretend it's not and very hurtful. No excuses. Leave if you want something else
>>43479669Literally not even op I don’t cheat so idk why you think im rationalizing for myself. Also you people call everyone whores for everything so it literally means nothing
>>43480846You know exactly what I mean, don't feign ignorance. Also, don't make excuses for OP. She needs to hear this so she can improve in the long run.
>>43481538No, I don’t. You people call every girl a whore when she says stuff about her trauma and live to victim blame
>>43482222>trauma>victim blaming Why are traumatic events an excuse to be a bad person and hurt someone else? Keep in mind that I specified earlier that being a whore/cheater is bad regardless agab. Being promiscuous in general is bad for lots of reasons and that's ignoring religious and moral considerations. We have treatment resistant strains of every STD. Every year they get worse. Tens of thousands of HIV cases in every major city. Condoms and PrEP don't protect against everything and they're becoming less effective. You're damn right I'm gonna shame them.On top of it all, they're harming someone else for their own personal hang ups then blaming their trauma for their own shortcomings of willpower. They should feel bad. Being a whore has historically been a bad thing for a good reasonPractice that cognitive behavioral therapy instead of being a piece of shit
You should probably think about why you do that routinely, there’s probably a trigger.No one “deserves” to he cheated on, you’re lieing to yourself out of your own cowardice. People loved and trusted you, and you hurt them. I’ve cheated myself, but fuck, it is not worth the pain and suffering caused. It is an awful act.You can redeem yourself, but you probably shouldn’t be in a relationship until these things are figured out, or at least just do an open relationship.
>>43475221you';re just like me fr
>>43475221>are you a whore or a bad person if you've been in four relationships and cheated fairly heavily in all of themDefinitely, yes. Extremely bad even.
>>43477292It's just giga homo bottom attention-seeking behavior. It's a gay little boy whose butthole goes cold quickly and mind runs out of butterflies within moments.
It's absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious.
>>434781624 mistakes
>>43478191I'm a man and I've been a whore. We're just calling it as we see it
>>43479278You can't be a good partner if you constantly betray someone's trust.
>>43484484>if you constantly betray someone's trustI'd only word it like that for something that's actually serious (stealing money, physically assaulting your partner, heavy drug addiction, murdering someone, pedo shit, etc.)but having sex with other people? couldn't care less lol it's a non-issue with zero actual impact in your life
>>43485099>Stealing is as bad as cheatinglol, I'm a massive piece of shit and even I think cheating is pure evil, I'm not sure if it's cause my morals are messed up but murder is genuinely more acceptable to me than cheating, if you love someone then you're not going to betray their trust for fuck sakes
>>43485180sure igI'm not gonna tell you how to live your life. personally I'd rather date someone who sleeps around than a murderer
So many anons were mean to me in this thread.
>>43475221idk. im a virgin
>>43485099If someone is in a relationship where there's an understanding of exclusivity, it is a betrayal of trust.
>>43486407Most people don't do either
>>43487227>it is a betrayal of trustwith zero practical consequencesin other words, a non-issue
