>be tranny>come out to parents>"we love you no matter what son">"we are proud of you son">"we just want you to be happy son"why are they like this?
>>43485074most likely they just dont understandunless they dothen theyre assholes
>>43485090Or they're just not gotten used to it yet
>>43485101that as well
>>43485074>why are they like this?lack of familiarity with trans stuffthat's not a bad reaction. hope you have a good transition, anon
Your parents haven't marinaded in the stew of gay shit you have so they won't immediately get it
You should go NC with people like that. Don't try to change them. There's no point. Save yourself the trouble.
Am i missing something this seems like cliche elderly support ? Maybe murder them?
>>43485130shut the fuck up nigger
>>43485074>>43485153I feel like if I loved someone and I knew calling them a certain thing made them feel bad I wouldn't be calling them that but what do I know about parenting, I'm just a murderous pyschotic troon after all
>>43485169Eh, can't blame a guy for trying
>>43485130>>43485153>wreck your family because of their cultural unfamiliarity when they’re trying ti be supportiveRadioactive hons detected
>>43485176Tranny support should be immediate, unconditional and come in the exact form they have in their heads or you're a chud
>be tranny>come out to parents>mother starts crying and screaming unintelligibly>father rushes to bathroom, doesn’t make it and throws up on the floor
>>43485172Pronouns are hard. My mom supports me and never dead names me but cant get the pronouns right for shit. She tries but i get it it's hard. I also had problems when i started making nonbinary freinds a very clocky trans women. For me its like im anxious of fucking up and saying the wrong thing which causes it to happen. But my gf never called me the wrong ones once and i knew her pre-transition. It makes me feel kinda shit but i have adhd as does my entire family
>>43485198kek that's gotta be good for self-esteem
>>43485184Tranny support should be constant intentional misgendering and willful ignorance otherwise its too radical
>>43485214Actually yes
>>43485205I'm sure if you keep hacking at it together your family will eventually figure out how pronouns work. Dont give up hon
>>43485074>be tranny>therapist outs me to mom>mom is slightly disgusted and tells everyone>stepfather beats me up w/ a frying pan for it
>>43485130STFU insect. The reason no one likes you is because you're insufferable not because you're trans. You make the rest of us look bad
>>43485820Only you can make yourself look bad
>>43485074>be trannyThis is where you went wrong.Being trans is like being furry... it's a costume you decide to put on, not who you are.
>>43485829Okay Smokey the hon
>>43485890me being a hon only reflects poorly on myself and not on you and if you are also a hon that's your problem not mine
>>43485074why are you like this? you are their son and always will be because you’re male
>>43485169>>43485176>>43485820Based
>>43485074Pro Tip: Never come out. Either boy mode away parents or let your HRT results speak for themselves.
>>43487152I wish I had done this
>>43485198sorry i laughed
>>43485074Well do they actually accept you, that they don't whine about you being on hrt etc?
>people are unironically saying that this is a bad reaction from the parents ITTYou retarded faggots are so privileged and retarded that it actually hurts
>>43487152that's what i dot. 10 years HRT manmoder
My mom said literally "you'll never be beautiful" and gaslit me into repping.My irl friends have been nothing but accepting and positive. Fuck your birth family make a new one.
>>43485074>be tranny>come out to parents>mom cries like I just died, dad laughs like he just heard the funniest joke of his life>they learn what Blanchard is like a week later (this was early 2010s when it wasn't super common knowledge)It can be a lot worse, OP.
>>43489244>Nona you're going out int *that?* way too agp. Why can't you be more hsts. Don't tell me you going on a date with a woman.
>>43489295It'd be fun if it were like that. It wasn't.
>>43485074Just look at yer pa and say “thanks mom” then look at ma and say “thanks dad” they should get it
My gf grew boobs and her dad noticed and punched her and called her selfish for sabotaging him. (he was a conservative local politician that was running)
my parents know i'm on hrt but i never bothered telling them outright that i'm trans or that i go by a different name bc i kind of knew they'd mess it up anyway. my mother ended up finding out the latter from talking to my sister's friends bc they don't know my birth name or that it's what i use around my parents and as i expected she doesn't use it bc she thinks it's too hard to adjusttbhon i don't think it really matters whether they "get it" or not, they don't interfere or object and that's as much as i could expect of them
>>43485074sometimes you have to give them the benefit of the doubt and hope they start gendering you correctly. just gently nudge them in the right direction.in my case ive come out to my mom at least 10 times over the course of 8 years. she still deadnames me and says im a boy. i only visit on my sisters birthday. if that happens and you have no obligations just leave and never go back. trust me its worth it
