How do you achieve an orgasm from anal sex? Is it even likely? I'm soooo needy and my bf and I are going to do it soon, but I am not sure if I have ever had an orgasm from anal. Or maybe does it just feel really weak? Because sometimes I'll check myself after sex and it's all wet from leaking and really small and soft, which it usually does after orgasms. Idk help? ;_;
My boyfriend busts fat gushy loads from anal
>>43485255well I'm a tranny on a hormone stack, I don't 'bust loads'
If you're late to the anal game its probably just a weak orgasm
>>43485282Gross.
>>43485241If it makes you feel any better a lot of cis women cum almost entirely from clitoral stimulation rather than penetrative sex. Cumming from penetration isn’t mandatory for satisfying sex.
>>43485241I've came from anal like 3 or 4 times out of like 40 times having sex two times my legs were shaking and I knew I was having an orgasm given it wasn't like super strong and the other two times I remember I guess I kinda leaked a bit and didn't even realize until after
>>43485298'late to the anal game'? Wdym?If you mean starting early in life, I've been playing with my butt since I was like 13 lolthough it never replaced penile stimulation for me, like I'd still touch that thing to get orgasms>>43485347It just sucks because I don’t wanna have to touch my stupid ugly penis! I just wanna enjoy the moment and get penetrated and enjoy that fully, yknow?
>>43485241practice and kegels
>>43485369Hmmm interesting! Because like I said, my things is sometimes super small and soft after sex and really leaky, that shrinking usually happens after orgasms. But like, it doesn’t feel like I am having orgasms? It just feels like I have a shiver running down my back and through my body sometimes during sex>>43485387practice what? how?
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>>43485241It's high effort, low reward.Him busting into you and the anus only aching a few days after the sex should be reward enough.Pretend you are really into it, like it's the best thing you have ever felt to get him really going and ignore the discomfort when he really starts to rail you.
>>43485796ummm, excuse me, but do you even have anal sex? My butt never aches after sex and neither should yours, especially for days. I don't need to pretend because I love anal sex. Neither should it be uncomfortable if he really goes at it? Like, it hurts at the start, but just go slow for a minute or two to adjust and then you're fine. I love it most when my boyfriend takes me really hard and rough <3
>>43486135you can get pounded for an hour and not hurt...?
>>43486180Who the hell goes for a whole hour? Men don't last that long
>>43486308with short breaks in between the cums ofc
>>43486308My boyfriend does and can go 2-3 times in a row if Im in hot enough lingerie, and has a big dick
>>43486355Mine can‘t go multiple times but I don’t judge him for that.Out of curiosity, what kind of lingerie do you wear? I'm curious what others have
>>43486386You arent going to like this, but my boyfriend is a big chaser and likes lingerie that emphasizes my small penis and/or bulge while giving him access to me without having to take it off. This is mostly like lacey patterned stuff. I only have mild bottom dysphoria so I'm in to making him happy
>>43486608Oh, I see. Yeah, I don't like focus on my penis but I love lace too! It's my favorite actually, especially with little bows. I'll let you know what my boyfriend likes most too: that's fishnets. He loves how they accentuate curves and how they feel to the touch. A pair of fishnets with a hole at the crotch area is what I wear most of the time
>>43486386>Mine can‘t go multiple times but I don’t judge him for thatYeah honestly Ive never met another guy that can go back to back like my boyfriend can, really impressive and unexpected surprise once we finally met up in person
>>43485377you should have it snipped so you'll never have to touch it again
>>43487150Working on it! Seeing a psychiatrist to get all the paperwork for health insurance
>>43487159okay good girls should not have pps even if they are really tiny
>>43487212Trust me if it weren’t tiny I wouldn’t have waited this long and would have rushed SRS. The only reason I still have it, is that it’s a minor inconvenience, my dysphoria would be so much worse if it were bigger
>>43487212Nooo, mine allows me access to a higher quality dating pool as a passoid so I keep it
>>43485241i swear we get these threads back to back but ok ill answer for real this time. its practice. just practice a lot. wait for like a week or two and then edge while swapping back and forth from from to back stimulation. keep doing this for a couple months until you can stop front a couple seconds early and push yourself over the edge with just back. then keep doing this until you can separate it by a whole minute. you gotta like exercise the muscles. do kegels and clench and grip on it. after you build up the muscles you can do it pretty fast. oh also it takes like 30 minutes to an hour. also it takes a lot of mental focus and mood and stuff and that gets even more difficult on e. eventually you wont even have to touch the front at all and after a while it wont work or will take fucking forever if you arent being penetrated. and it will be different too like electric from your toes up to your spine and shaking legs like a more smoothed out of post nut hypersensitivity where you cant touch anything except you do and that just builds up and floods over you for a whole minute or two getting stronger and you can do it a couple times in a row with just leaking and then when you finally finish you basically feel nothing and nothing comes out cause it all already happened its just like a release. and also if you stop in the middle its still kinda satisfying anyway. posting unedited before regret hopethathelps
>>43487234Very interesting, I might try this! I've screenshotted it for now, maybe I'll try to push myself over the edge with backdoor stuff when my bf isn’t in the same room and I am masturbating. Or is skipping the first step too hasty?
>>43487318idk what you mean i guess you can its just thats what i did and it made it easyits also p much the advice i was given irrc (commit, practice, focus, wait months). i kinda thought it was fake news until a few weeks in when i just went at it
>>43485309you can take the whole cum stack multivitamin thing. It can help with giving more prostate sensation.>>43487234this is very accurate. You should do nipple play too, theres a guide on /d/in the chastity thread that's very good. When you get really good at using toys and doing anal, you can just go into the headspace and enjoy the experience. I like to not fully orgasm and instead just enjoy the feeling from a vibrator or plug. I also stay pretty leaky and soft, do you get erect at all while doing lewd stuff? Sometimes people get the urge to just yknow, do stuff with the pp and that keeps them from learning how to use toys or cum from anal.
>>43489264Whats your stack? This week I just started zinc, onions lethicin, and l-argine. Am I missing anything?
>>43485241how the fuck do you not know if you came or not? i swear some people are actually just npcs no joke
>>43489308Here i added the text on the side. theres supplements with all this crap but you should research everything. Personally I like taking everything but sometimes ill just do the vitamins and zinc. Sometimes i get nauseous from zinc. I did steal some of the written stuff from reddit but im pretty sure I read about pygeum years ago.Imo you should learn nipple play and learn how to tease yourself all day with anal play and prostate milking. Easiest way to help you lock in.
>>43489487Tell me about pygeum, grok told me to add it, but I cant find it at local supplement stores so I would have to go on amazon. My preliminary research tells me its safe. Also I dont mind the zinc upset stomach because im overweight and it makes me less hungry
>>43489513seems to be rather split on its effectiveness for prostate and anal play. But some people report that it makes them leak all day. So id say try it imo. I notice I leak a lot more when taking it but according to what I just looked up, if I increased my dosage id leak constantly, which most likely increase prostate sensitivity. Imo you can try it and drop it if it doesnt work.
>>43487234You’re such a pathetic little failed male bitch nona
>>43489264yes, I get erect. Usually it will come and go as I read, but I still get hard erections four years into HRT
