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I told my long-term gay male friend I used to be a fujoshi and he told me I was disgusting? He then proceeded to ban me from the nsfw channel on his discord server

Was he mean/petty or do gay men just don't like fujoshis in general? And if the latter is true, why?

Picrel is the type of picture I sent in the channel
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When I was a little gay kid a gross adult fujo used to msn me and call me cute and wanted me to talk about gay shit. Fujos are nasty
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>>43485273
They are fine
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>>43485273
I'm not gay but I'm into women who like to "hump" things and I find penis envy hot.
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>>43485287
Oh wow, I would never do such a thing ew
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>>43485273
some people just look for any excuse to hate others.
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>>43485320
Just know if you've ever used the word shota you're definitely going to hell
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>>43485273
What a fucking faggot tool

You told him you’re into his sexuality as a fan and he blocked you?

He’s a catty bitch and a bridge burner. Probably for the best you don’t have contact with someone like that anymore.
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>>43485327
>I'm a drooling creep
>Ok gross, ban
Perfectly reasonable
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>>43485326
Shut up faggot.
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>>43485335
Shut up faggot
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>>43485326
I only used this word when I was like 13-14-15, am i good?
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>>43485320
You don’t need to defend yourself from this fucking weirdo. You are perfectly entitled to be a fan of any kind of romance you want to and he can go be a victim in his corner.
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>>43485361
Thank you so much anon !
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>>43485353
Straight to hell, sorry
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>>43485273
these days a lot of the porn fujos make is pretty decent. i dont personally know any fujos, so that's good enough for me. i can see why someone would dislike oldschool fujos though, because the old porn is pretty mid
on an unrelated note, my bf has a female friend who is a fujo and she'd probably watch us fuck if she could. he seems slightly uncomfortable about that. it doesnt bother me, but i dont have to see her at work every day.
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>>43485361
He's perfectly within his rights to restrict anyone's access to any part of his discord server. He's not playing victim, op is
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>>43485380
Spoken like a true autistic discord mod undeserved of friends.
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I used to work with a 40 year old woman who lives with her parents and was desperate to know about how I fuck my boyfriend. Very off-putting.
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>>43485397
Seethe, fujo
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>>43485273
I don’t have a problem with fujoshis, although I don’t entirely understand their deal. I get watching two cute guys falling in love/humping like animals is great and all… but do you like wish you were one of them or something? Is it a purely voyeuristic fetish? I have kind of a hard time relating to that idea. I’m a bi male, and the few times I’ve watched lesbian porn I’ve just felt like a creepy intruder.
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>>43485367
Seriously OP, the people responding to you are toxic gay dudes who are empowered by homophobia.

You say you’re into yaoi and their reaction is to exile you or traumadump and shame you? These are the types of gay dudes who don’t want allies. Fuck them.

Catty powerbottoms. Probably old fags who aged out of their twink primes and are just bitter now.

You do you.
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>>43485424
>I’m a bi male, and the few times I’ve watched lesbian porn I’ve just felt like a creepy intruder.
it's made for male gaze though
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>>43485424
>an orgasm is an orgasm
>an attractive person is an attractive person
>an attractive person having an orgasm is an attractive person having an orgasm
Not sure how you managed to fuck this up in your head. You pretty much just said you think something is weird about female on female sex.

The irony is that 95% of lesbian porn is made for straight dudes and doesn’t do anything for most lesbians.
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>>43485424
Not op but I’ll give you my 2¢

>do you like wish you were one of them or something?
Yes and no. I don’t have gender dysphoria and I love my femininity, but I wish I could relate to men like men relate to each other. I crave the merging of souls. I look for that in hetero relationships too, but it doesn’t feel real. I’m probably projecting something onto m/m relationships that doesn’t exist.

>Is it a voyeuristic fetish?
Also yes. I would love to watch two hot guys make love in person. I would also enjoy watching hot hetero love making in person, but only if I’m watching with a partner. Otherwise it feels like cuck and I’m not into that.
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>>43485273
People don't like being fetishized, shocker.
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>>43485489
the reality is that gay sex is even more materialistic than het
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>>43485437
Yeah...... I probably shouldn't have posted my question on 4chan after all :(
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>>43485505
Shut up faggot.

God damn nothing is worse than these wannabe puritanical SODOMITES.
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>>43485517
Sad but not surprising
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>>43485463
Yeah I know, which also makes me feel gross watching it

>>43485479
Huh? I’m all for women having sex and fulfilling romances with one another, I just don’t think it’s any of my business to be watch.

>>43485489
Thank you for your explanation. m/m relationships definitely feel a little different because of all of the socially constructed power dynamics that color hetero ones. I can see putting same sex relationships on a pedestal versus straight relationships because they can kind of sidestep a lot of those issues. They often fail to do this in reality though lol
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>>43485517
Random grinder hookups sure but things are more tender with my bf then they were with any of my female exes
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>>43485560
ah, so it's like g4p vibes
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>>43485560
>I’m all for women having sex and fulfilling romances with one another
That’s an oddly sterilized way of saying scissoring vaginas. We’re talking about porn here dude. Porn often made for you that you don’t feel privy to for some reason.
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With the right guy, gay sex is the absolute peak of romantic eroticism and this is an indisputable fact
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>>43485424
I like yaoi because I see it as pure and honest, where two cute men flirt with each other. In het romances you might unconsciously have the feeling that the male character has ulterior motives and isn't as pure as he would have been in yaoi
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>>43485273
this is more proof that fujoshis are an oppressed minority and need to be recognized in the LGBTQF+ community
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>>43485630
They can team up with the pedos
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>>43485424
I do wish I were one of them because I'm mentally ill.
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>>43485273
i am one kinda, but i'm also a manmoder, so i can actually live it
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>>43485727
Don't taint an honest man with your troon claws
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>>43485727
autofujophilia
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>>43485727
Trans fujoshis are such queens !
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>>43485759
Literally just a gay man
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>>43485273
I'm a gayden and I don't really care about fujoshis because they make the only good gay porn art available. Everything else is either ugly or furries.
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>>43485785
>pooner opinion
Men are talking
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>>43485785
Yeah I really don't understand how can anyone like furry things
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>>43485867
groomed
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>>43485273
I think its kinda cute if a little odd. I am one too but as a gay so idk.
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>>43485892
What do you mean by a little odd? And fujoshis are strictly female, i don't know if there is a counterpart for male yaoi readers
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>>43485790
Exactly why you responded
>>43485867
I don't mind furry porn, but it feels like an unusually high amount of (english) illustrated gay sex is just blue anthro dogs and horses... It's alright, but usually I want to get off to people.
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>>43485273
no, your gay friend is just a sissy faggot, i am a bisexual man and id love the idea of a girl touching herself while watching me top someone or getting topped
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>>43485569
Yeah that’s definitely part of the issue. I probably wouldn’t watch lesbian porn intended for women either, but the g4p aspect makes it worse.

>>43485591
I don’t know what to tell you, I’m sorry I don’t watch lesbian porn intended for the male gaze? Is that what you want?

>>43485619
Yeah that’s what I was thinking vis-a-vis same sex relationships sidestepping the power dynamics of heterosexual ones.

>>43485685
Fair enough. Are you transitioning, or do you just wish you were a dude?
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>>43486185
>watching me top someone or getting topped
You would??
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You still have power imbalances in gay relationships. Like I could literally pick my boyfriend up and throw him
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>>43486216
yeah nigga, but only if you are a cis woman. not that i dislike trans woman, i just feel like it would be too gay to be topped while a trans woman masturbates
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>>43485338
>>43485349
Go to men's prison and get prisonplapped for all eternity, PDFile
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>>43486222
That’s not a bad thing but when the imbalances are based on pregnancy, gender roles, and patriarchy it’s lame.
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>>43486391
>when the imbalance is functional and not just for faggot play, that's... cringe!
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>>43486401
Yes, I’m glad you understand.
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>>43486401
Yes unironically
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>>43486401
downplaying power imbalance in het relationships is gross
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>>43486107
There is a counterpart, it's called fudanshi.
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>>43486500
"Downplay"?
You mean the thing that women actively seek? bro
I know you're scared of fat loads going through your cervix but DAMN that is too bad that you think power imbalance exists and is evil
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>>43486518
>fudanshi
Thank you ! I forgot about this term, I haven't read yaoi in a while, time to get back at it maybe...
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>>43486539
Yawn
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>>43486213
>Fair enough. Are you transitioning, or do you just wish you were a dude?
There is no point in transitioning as it won't make me into a real man. I know I'm a latent troon. I've had these urges since before puberty, so I've learned to live as a depressed foid who's going to die alone because she can't just spread her legs.
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Fujos are the best people.
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>>43485338
Shut up faggot
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>>43485349
Shut up faggot
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>>43487813
>There is no point in transitioning as it won't make me into a real man
Nta but just transition dog you wasting time being cis is so trash you're better off being ftm anyway
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>>43490270
>>43490282
Shut up faggot.
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>>43487813
that's just sad. this is literally what my (g)f was saying. i have no idea what to do with this kind of stuff, i can only hope that you'll either find somebody who will help you cope or transition or i don't know
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>>43485273
no fujos are based, I like seeing them make straight dudes freak out by posting yaoi of shonen characters on xitter
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all fujos are aap
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>>43485273
I'm not gay, but looking at yaoi makes me horny because I think of the girl that drew it, and how big her penis envy must be. I'm into women who want to have a penis it's so hot <3
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>>43486367
I think I'm enough of a prison bottom that any woman would do
>>43486216
what's your favorite scenario?
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>>43498024
>favorite scenario
Kneeling and holding between my hands the face of a man at the border of a bed while we stare at each other and a manlier and more muscular man ravages him on top
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>>43498536
I think you'll have a lot of guys that would love to indulge that



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