does /tttt/ believe that there is a person out there for everyone?
I used to. I sincerely thought I had found that person, but it turned out to be a farce.I believe everyone will eventually "settle" with something they deem okay enough to live with long term.
>>43494191yes 100%but finding that special someone who is ur soulmate takes a lot of luck
>>43494191i dont know what the point of life is otherwise
>>43494191no
>>43494191Statistically there are probably thousands but it depends on the person. I don't believe in predestined soul mates, I think randomly finding and coming to love someone unconditionally is the real divine
>>43494354cosmic soulmates are real tho
>>43494191Not like a special someone, but I think everyone is a type, and there is a population of people that would be good matches.It's possible this isn't the case for certain severe and visible genetic disorders, but I lack the lived experience to speak on that.
Everyone probably has an ideal match that they'll never met, but everyone can probably met someone that's 70% there with enough effort and not falling for sunk-cost in existing relationships
>>43494191NOT everyone. Some people are pure evil and too fucked up to ever find love or friendship. That being said it's a fairly small slice of the population.
>>43494897This is kinda dangerous thinking. You will end up going person to person constantly searching for the "perfect" partner and justify your own lonliness to yourself like oh my 1 singular real soul mate is still out there somewhere that's why I'm single. A soul mate is an imagined person you project onto others and that's okay because the world is a shared, imagined experience of human beings.
>>43495097ur sooo boring
>>43494191Yes. No matter how depraved you are, no matter how much of a failure you are, no matter how straight up evil you are you will find somebody if you look hard enough. A wise man once told me "there's a lid for every trash can"
>>43495382How? I'm filled with unconditional love, creativity and the indomitable human spirit
>>43494354>the real divineWhat do you mean by this? It's a prettt phrase.
>>43495462I'm referring to the Monad (the source). By filling yourself with unconditional love for other human beings you connect to the Monad and it's just the best. If you believe in a soul mate it becomes real because human imagination shapes your subjective reality, the phenomena.
>>43495394not me, im built different
>>43495394easy to say when youre probably none of that, no some of us are so low its actually like over over
>>43495512>>43495546Yes even you miserable curs will find love. It won't be pretty, it won't be ideal, but you'll have it
>>43495075>too fucked up to ever find love*holds up spork*I'm ending it with this trans girl I'm talking to because I realized I'm too broken for relationshipsWe've held hands, we've kissed, we've fucked but nothing helps
>>4349554622 year olds say this kind of shit to you and you're sposed to take them seriously. It's actually kind of a nostalgic romantic feeling, being lonely and pining for someone.
>>43495559do you have bpd or something? why do you think you're unfit for a relationship?
>>43495598I probably have something undiagnosedIdk man/girl, I grew up fucked up so my brain doesn't work
>>43495555to ugly both inside and outside>>4349556118
>>43495620>18AWWW cute you think it's over. There are many games in life yet to be played
>>43495616You probably need therapy. Just saying "ohh i'm fucked up! I need to give up" is silly. You gotta learn what's holding you back and then try to work on that. Chances are you're not fully fucked if you can recognize that something is not right.
Be cautious with therapy. Let the world be your therapy don't solely rely on someone being paid to do it.
>>43495642i wont get to any of them, maybe its hard to imagine but it can be
>>43495907Those who do not know, do not know. Those who know, enjoy :)
>>43495926what
love isnt real
>>43496121i hope you get to experience it one day so you can know how wonderful it is :]
>>43496121Love is everything
>>43494191nope
>>43496211this is an incel chart which much dramatizes it, unless youre in the bottom 5% you can find someone to bad im there
There isnt anyone out there for me. If i got a moided job i could betabuxx for some fat single mother at some point but eeh
>>43496211Lol this is for straight cis people
>>43496211Can you post the edit where its both 80% of women and men going for chad and then a few women fucking one another
>>43496259it's not it's observable and scientifically shown toowomen 'deserve' everything now while men 'aren't entitled to anything' which is clearly evident when you see most men getting a lot of options and the others barely anyeven if a guy below the top whatever% gets a girlfriend she'll likely be settling
>>43496290yes, and most people are straight and cispassing trannies act like cis women, just look at MWAHnon, passing trans men get treated like sub5 men because they're short on average and dickless how common do you really think st4t is?
>>43496331Uh this is the lgbt board
>>43496340i know, most trans men here are straight and most trans women bi, this shit still applies also lesbian relationships are a shit show
>>43496358trans people are not cis news at 11
>>43496326blah blah incel talk, no
>>43496366yes, and?doesn't effect how people think
>>43494191I think so. Love is amazing, even if sometimes it's so painful you break down crying.Keep meeting new people, having experiences, be willing to walk outside your comfort zone. :)
>>43494191>3" below male average>not young>living in student house>health issues>het male>has standardsmake enough wrong choices and it's the "better luck next life" for you
>>43496542You showed a graph about straight cis people??
>>43496725>het maleso why are u on lgbt
>>43496780maladaptive coping with near-complete social isolation
>>43496577I am so lonely.
>>43496259It's like 95% female users going for top 5% male users on dating apps>inb4 not all dating is appsNo, but apps are taking up the majority and their share keeps increasing
>>43497024you too can probably find someone, it cant be that bad
>>43497039I can't even find a jobNothing in my life ever works out, logically speaking the least likely thing to work will fail as well
>>43497056same im like you maybe youre also with me so low but like no its not 95%-5%
>>43496843aw i'm sorry :(
>>43497056everyone is having trouble finding work right now due to layoffs anon
