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Is there a way to stop believing that I'm a woman, please?
It all is just a delusion which only causes me pain and anguish
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>>43496251
nope. there is no cure
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i stopped my tranny thoughts for about 2 months, i forgot how I did it. sorry
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>>43496467
Did they come back after those 2 months?
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>>43496445
Not even antipsychotics?
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>>43497118
nuh uh
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>>43497118
This reminds me of that one study which proposed that anti-psychotics could cure dysphoria while having a sample size of one
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>>43496566
>”did they come back?”
>nona still posting on /tttt/
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>>43496251
Im sorry op but i dont even believe im a woman yet im still trans. Turns out its not related to gender at all
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>>43496251
You have to let the ideal person you wish you were die.

I've never had gender delusions, but I did have this ideal in my head who I believed I needed to embody before I could be happy. But eventually I realized what you have... that I am not that person, and cannot magically transform into that person.


Letting the ideal person go really is like a death. You have to grieve the loss and heal from it, which takes time. And then you have to take a good look at who you really are, get to know yourself, learn to accept and love yourself, and start progressing towards being the best *you* can be, whatever that may look like. Not chasing an impossible ideal.
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>>43497118
>antipsychotics
There are fates worse than trooning out. If you're at the point where you're considering these you should just take HRT instead
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>>43499612
But I don’t want to be a guy :(((
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>>43499612
yeah its this

everyone gets this idea of some perosn they need to become, like bodybuilders always feeling too small compared to their idol or whatever so they never stop roiding and bulking forever. trannies do the same thing.

its a form of self hatred and self rejection. thinking im not enough as i am, and im probably right about that. but stil theres nothing you can do about it. you cant actually become your ideal, only do approximate things to go towards it, and that might not be enough, so its better to grieve the fantasy and become a real human sooner rather than later.
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>>43499803
But hrt is real?
Surgeries are real?
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>>43499820
yeah but if your mindset is wrong it will never be enough, you have to find a way to love yourself and become who you are or life will be very miserable.
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>>43499763
I get what you mean, and taking antipsychotics would definitely be worse than taking hrt, but I still don't think my case is actually gender dysphoria. I kinda just suddenly wondered what it would've been like if I had been a woman, which flipped a switch inside of me, and now I can't think of myself as a man anymore, despite looking and living like one
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>>43499801
You can do both. You can let your imagined ideal self die, and still transition
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>>43499763
stop grooming people please
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>>43496251
istg this is driving me mad
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>>43504668
*insane
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>>43504853
no such thing as a sane tranny
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>>43499557
How do you know that you really are trans?
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>>43496251
>>43499801
Nobody inmediately likes being a man, especially at puberty. It's something you have to get used to.
You'll grow out of it, trust me. Just don't ruin your life by trooning out
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>>43507145
I never liked being a guy, no matter how much I succeeded at it
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>>43507145
ITS BEEN 16 YEARS THE THOUGHTS WONT LEAVE
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>>43507501
sry, it's over for you



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