passing is a myth

>>43501844
What does making money have to do with friends? Do you wish you were likable enough to mooch off people instead of working or something?

>>43501844
real and same
>>43501849
cope

>>43501844
I've had no issues making friends and even relationships despite having little to no money to my name in the past. I dont think friendship has muc hto do with money; its gotta do with the type of person u are. and unfortunately it also has to do with how good u look. i made friends far more easily once i started working out and looked better.

if ur struggling to make friends and u claim (CLAIM) to be good looking, then something aint adding up. ive seen the prettiest girls who are dumb as a bag of rocks have orbiters.

unless ur personaltiy really is that offputting then who knows

>>43501872
I think she's saying it's more like, money is a proxy for having your life together.
also if you want a real relationship (not some transbian polycule BS but a real relationship) money helps to provide a comfortable life. I wouldn't want to settle down with someone who earns minimum wage at starbucks.

>friends
same thing would you want all your friends to be broke losers?

>>43501881
orbiters ≠ friends. can't speak for op but for me:
>autistic and ADHD
>narcissist
>don't go outside
>resting bitch face
>don't know how to socialize (show interest without being too clingy, ask someone to hang out without it seeming like a date, etc..)
>RSD makes me think people hate me so I pre-emptively distance myself. only recently learned this

>>43501942
what are ur interests? why do you say ur a narcissist, and in what way? would u compare yourself against literallly anyone? what if someone likes u and playfully teases you, will u take offense to that?

Resting bitch face is one thing, I have a natural frown but I still make friends.

>>43501844
>i want to be a lazy smelly neet and have the same results as those with ambition
you didn't need to tell us you were autistic and unlovable. every trans woman i know that whines about shit like this burdens people with their constant negativity and indolence. the rest of us have responsibility and lives. if i stop working, i get evicted and starve.

>>43501980
>interests
d&d, combat sports, programming, rotating hyperfixations (current one is growing mushrooms)
>narcissist
identity diabetic - I can't produce an internal sense of self esteem so I need other people to tell me how to feel about myself
>teasing
I try to play it off but it does fuck with me more than it should. I'm extremely sensitive. if it's like now and again I can tolerate it but I'd it's constant I can't.

>>43502051
what if its teasing in a loving, kind gentle way? the kind that's followed up with praise and adoration and kindness.

Also combat sports? thats interesting. are u built like a tank or something? I also had an interest in mushrooms, specifically lions mane and chicken of the woods. both of those seemed interesting to me.

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>>43502066
>teasing
idk it's really fuckin hard to tell. if it's followed by praise then it's fine but if not then I take it super personally. like I try to act cool and play it off but it does bug me
>combat sports
no I'm not I'm built like picrel
>nice I've thought about growing those I'm currently doing actives but like I don't see myself needing that much so I might try pink oysters next if my hyperfixation doesn't switch. I wanna grow shiitake but thing is you generally want lower end of fruiting temp and for those that's 55° and I don't want my apartment that cold. also really wish I could grow wine caps but unfortunately I live in an apartment. maybe lions mane will be interesting but it takes a while so it'll be future. might be worth for making my own capsules tho.

do u grow mushrooms or just like learning about them?

>>43501844
>attractive white passoid
>im autistic and unlovable
Unless you're a bitch or an srsoid, you aren't unloveable

>>43502098
i learned about them a while back because they seemed very interesting to me. people tend to group them with plants but that's so wrong, fungi are really odd and interesting things.

do u actually look like picrel? that would be cute. im also a fit guy, i take care of myself quite a bit. I'd love to have a partner who also takes care of themselves, we could go on runs together and train together, etc.

>if it's followed by praise then it's fine but if not then I take it super personally.
that's kind of endearing

i like how you yapped your thoughts out. that was also cute.

>>43502117
oh yea no they're insanely cool. the way mycelium works blows my mind
>ur cute
aww that's very sweet of you thanks <3
>I'm a guy
ah dang yea guys are nice to me but I'm a trans lesbian (I don't like the word transbian cuz that's got a negative connotation) and like I can be chill with men but I'm low-key terrified of then thinking I'm hitting on them when I try to be nice. and they do ask me out occasionally but they usually fade into the distance when I unfortunately have to reject them. I wish I was straight bc I'd be pulling if I was but it's just not fair to someone to date them for validation rather than because you actually like them

anyway thanks for the chat I'm goin to bed now

>>43502176
I see. What’s the reason you dislike guys? Bad experiences with them or just not attracted to the kind of physiques guys have?