>match with mtf>I always send complete sentences>she always sends 1 monosyllabic replies 20 hours later--->match with mtf>I send 1 complete sentence>she replies in 30 seconds and says I'm the nicest guy she has ever met and she is in love with me and why am I being so nice to her and basically sounds like she's insane and/or is hoping I'm insaneWhy can't it be in between? Why do mtfs always either make you feel like picrel guy or like you just rescued them out of a tentacle rape dungeon and you're the first human they've met in their life?
>>43505207Both are immature in different ways
>>43505207I mean it’s kind of obvious why, right? Potentially years of dysphoria + the long awkward process of transitioning and facing social stigma would make most people a little loopy. If you’re dating trans women in their early to mid 20s they’re likely still transitioning, or have only recently gotten their bodies to a point they’re okay with. They’ve been through a lot and are still figuring out how to be comfortable in their own skin. I imagine trans women in their late 20’s and early 30’s are a lot more chilled out since they’ve had time to work through all of this stuff and get comfortable with themselves.
>>43505207>why are mentally ill people mentally ill?I try to keep the convo going but I don't have much life experience or intelligence to be interesting (﹏)also 99.99% of the guy that match with me are that pic
>>43505408>I imagine trans women in their late 20’s and early 30’s are a lot more chilled outThey're not, they're just better at hiding it
>>43505207Im kind of the second type, i just get attached super easy especially when someone shows a shred of kindness its hard not to :(
>>43505207Don’t waste time on the ones who clearly aren’t interested in you, try to be patient with the ones who are. Either that or stop trying to date trannies
>>43505207my wife is the second kind of trans woman, i’m living the good life. feels good when you’re with a woman who doesn’t play mind games
>>43505207pulling this out of my ass but from reading r/straighttransgirls it feels like the first one will become the second one once they become desperate enough from fuckboi/chaser/egg duds
>>43505207>Why can't it be in between? i send 1 word replies when im sad and 1200 word essays when im manic>t. bpdemon
>>43506826So I shouldn't unmatch? I generally stop responding after the 2nd monosyllabic reply and if there's no proactive attempt to restart the convo I unmatch after about 2 days. BPD I can work with, not my first rodeo in that area.
