Does it have to do with like, changing your body? Is it a simple comorbidity with autism? There's gotta be some connection, theres so many of them, and like, big names too.
>>43511334selection bias, I've only met girls into feederism here and once in a blue moon on social media. ig my algorithms know its not my thing
I really unironically personally think it's a psyop. I can't imagine how anyone could be ok with obese people or being one of them. Vile.
>>43511359Idk ive met like, plenty in person. Granted I live in a smaller metropolitan area but, its pretty common here. And like. Attractive women too.
>>43511334my theory is a before i transitioned i was a flaming faggot who loved bears. i still love fat men but my brain took more psychic damage and now i like feeding them too. who caresssssz anymoreeeee let a twinkhon grab her man's soft round gut while she chokes on that dick
>>43511509I'M SAYING! BELLIES ARE HOT! I was always into feedism, like, day one, but as a feeder. It wasnt until post transition that it dawned on me how fun the other side was
>>43511334because its hot ( •̯́ 3 •̯̀)but no i think ur right its about just changing my body, pretty much as long as ive been conscious ive had to be moving my body in one changing direction, right now its just gaining weight but before it was losing, staying the same feels awfuli dont think its necessarily comorbid with autism, but what i have seen is autistic people be more open about it, maybe due to less care about societal norms.maybe for me it is more mental illness mixed with fetish because i for one could never see myself as a feeder, only a feedee.but its really comforting and im much happier now in my life. so i see myself going down the right path for the first time in a while>>43511531the other side really is so much fun (っ- ‸ - ς) i love gaining
Being a fat woman is the highest aspiration a male can aspire to.
>>43514179no literally theyre so beautiful im so happy ive become/ am becoming one
>>43514732Well, that's beautiful, its so wonderful to change your body. So, you found that like, you always needed a direction for your eating?? Like, it was hard to just *eat what your body wanted*? Did you ever have to deal with like, your body growing in a way that made u dysphoric?
They like being reminded that they're failures. Being male and fat in your teens is the go-to example of a loser in any and all pieces of media. To then transition and develop some kind of fetish for being clocked, being fat only goes further back to that
>>43514870I think a lot of people are just born with a fetish. Or it happens so early in development that they can't remember. That's how it happened for me. Its a thing thats been there since day one.
>>43511334because it is a fembrained fetish: rebelling against traditional female gender norms by sexualizing being a fat woman, who can't stop stuffing her big fat jiggling belly, who burps and farts loudly
>>43514870I know plenty who were thin their entire lives until they decided to indulge
>>43514814ur so sweet and yes! <3>Like, it was hard to just *eat what your body wanted*? i mean for a long time i got away with it because i had a small appetite, but around the same time i trooned out socially (12/13ish) i just stopped eating, for the goal of getting skinnier, i wasnt fat or anything i just needed that direction> Did you ever have to deal with like, your body growing in a way that made u dysphoric?, then throughout those years i had a month or so where i would binge eat an extreme amount of food and just go back when i felt grossit was only when i started estrogen, after being like anorexic and thin, that i started gaining and loved how it looked on me, i enjoyed it so much it actually completely changed my relationship with food and my body probably forever, this is like 5x more weight than ive ever gained in my life from past binges and idek if i desire to stop at all, or if i do lose weight id probably just want to gain it back for weight cycling.>>43514904me desu, maybe it was because i had severe emotional trauma at a very young age but it made me a freak like this so young, ive just tried to keep it down until now>>43514920literally! ugh hawt <3>>43514931ya this was me, only now have i made that switch
>>43514984Ok, well that's beautiful and thank you for sharing <3 sounds like its been a great discovery for you and wish u the best in it.Personally, I got up to 200 lbs and then I just felt gross about how my face was looking, but ive always had a pretty horrible relationship with my face to begin with. Im losing weight rn but my current partner likes that im physically bigger than her (taller *and* larger frame) so, I guess ill try not to lose too much lol. Sometimes I wish I had a weight slider I could just go crazy with day to day but, alas, ive found the beauty in the slow process of changing my body back and forth and it rocks that I can just do that, yknow?Sometimes this whole thing can feel alienating because its really the only thing that can consistently get me excited, and its not like latex where its easy for a partner who isnt into it to just wear the mask/suit or whatever and try it out without it changing them in a more longterm way, and even if they didnt care about it, it wouldn't seriously affect their enjoyment of whatever intimacy yall were enjoying
