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been free of the transgender thoughts ever since i got a girlfriend about six months ago, i wonder if the confidence i get from being able to express my masculinity healthily has cured me, but i'm equally worried that they'll come back
is it really possible to be cured in this way?
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>>43512448
better have picked a bisexual girl just in case
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>>43512478
They already are.
But some of them want their male to keep acting like "the man" in the relationship. And avoid being seen with a tranny.
So, transition is usually OK as long as OP doesn't act like a giga bottom whiny faggot who wants the "girl" role
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>>43512448
I was a repper for years. Then I found a girlfriend who made me not just feel sexy as a man, but made me actually like my height, my voice, my hairy chest.
And then we broke up.
And now I post here.
I'm not saying what you have isn't real. I'm saying in my case both things were true.
I still miss her, desu, even while I rep. It's a funny world.
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>>43512574
>then I found a girlfriend who made me not just feel sexy as a man…
It sounds like you were just insecure and need external validation to feel good about your body then. Can’t relate.
I genuinely don’t care if people think I look worse now than I did when I presented more conventionally masculine, because it was never about external validation or the approval of an “other”. Things like body hair or facial hair are an affront to my senses, I feel a deep sense of revulsion and disgust just perceiving them, so I decided to do something about it and fix the problem. The idea that a potential partner could actually like those traits would only make me dislike them for having such shit taste and I would lose any attraction I might have had to them.
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>>43513004
>just needed validation
Incorrect. I've had tranny thoughts since childhood. I was trying to be normal by dating, but I never felt comfortable being a boyfriend. There were people who validated my masculine traits, and I hated it.
In one case it clicked, and I lost it because I still couldn't commit. I tried dating for a little while after, it never felt comfortable again, and I'm practically asexual now.
You're not OP though, right?
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>>43512448
>is it really possible to be cured in this way?
if you were mef agp etc cuckbrained due to an incel loser perception, sure
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>>43512448
>is it really possible to be cured in this way?
Short answer: No.
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>>43512574
>hephaestos
synchronicity, was just on a wiki walk at 5-something AM (woke up at 4) about that dude or girl
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>>43512448
> he doesn’t know
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>>43512448
Lol this was me 5/6 years ago OP
Started dating a girl from work and repped even though she (out of nowhere without even knowing i was repping) offered to be my beard
>told her no because i was repping

then we broke up after about 6 months of dating during covid and I stopped repping and started socially transitioning and then medically

if you love this girl then do you but at some point you will have to face the skellies in the closet, fren, whether that means trying to quell the urge for good, or to just go for it <3 do take care of yourself
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Men without women... It's just nit a good idea.
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>>43513277
Neither was your conception but here we are
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>>43513190
i don't masturbate
>>43513272
thank you, i'll try
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>>43512448
>>43513272
"I feel straight and adonis-like by pounding pussy on the daily"
>"its a lie youre trans come back to us, chan"

I thought the grooming thing was a meme but jesus christ



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