Why do I hear not a single post about dilating on /TTTT/ or hear irl trans women talk about (I'm mid-twenties T-woman with no bottom SRS), yet when I was in my repper arc (2020 - 2022), most of the trans memes featured dilation and the typical "cope and dilate" thing. desu, during that time, I feared transition because of how miserable dilation sounds. Frankly though I really want bottom surgery since I've realized I'm a binary trans woman. Is dilation really as miserable as it sounds or do I just hate myself desu?
>>43517364I got srs 6 months ago, dilation is something that I have to do twice a day and at night.The biggest issue is just doing it, it takes an hour, you put a harness on and you play games or watch a movie or read. Do something. I sometimes nap. Its just a part of the healing process and after a year you barely have to do it.Sex counts as dilation too. As far as im concerned its a really small price to pay for the privilege of being born at a time in human history where such procedures are possible.
>>43517364>binary trans womanWhat does that mean?
>>43517364honestly SRS recovery and maintenance sounds so miserable that I've just decided not to go for it, my bottom dysphoria isn't that bad after an orchi.several days I'm out of the house for 12+ hours, how the fuck am I supposed to dilate then?
Cope and dilate.But yeah idk seems like SRS is a very imperfect procedure. If you rly need it go for it but it just seems fucked.
>>43517364idk it was kind of annoying at the time but now years later i don't even bother and my vagina is just fine and it's quite nice having one>>43517666you just skip it that day it's not a big deal
>>43517364you do it really frequently for like 6 months - a year and then its just sorta not a thing anymore. its not really a big deal
>>43517666have sex often like a normal cisfem? you have a pussy now, it is easy