It's been 8 fucking months since my ex broke up with me and I still think about him almost every day I just want it to stop I fucked up a lot he wasn't perfect either but I loved him and I know if I still talked to him he would tell me to "just move on" as if it's that easy maybe it was to him but not me
>>43530375>I fucked up a lotHow many times did you cheat?
>>43530375sounds like my ex gf, i broke up with her because of her adhd that ruined everything and she still shows up wherever she knows i am and just looks at me like a punished dog. grow up
>>43530375it's been almost 3 years since i saw a girl i wasn't even officially dating and this morning i spent an hour scrolling through our dms looking for her telling me i deserve to be loved
>>43530393Never cheated never would but I would have meltdowns every couple of months which someone that I loved really shouldn't have had to deal with. I would also say dumb shit a lot and honestly needed help with simple things because no one really ever taught me besides him. The meltdowns are what ruined it though getting upset the thanksgiving my father died and drinking myself into a coma or getting drunk after we have a fight just to threaten to kill myself after he refused to give me a hug when I got home. I did really really dumb shit every 5 or 6 months that he shouldn't have had to deal with. I wish maybe he was my 2nd or 3rd boyfriend instead of my first maybe I would've learned to not do a few things I did and maybe it would've worked out. I doubt it though.>>43530429Grow up is something he would tell me to do. If I knew he was going to be somewhere at this point I would probably go there just to get closure, but he moved over 100 miles away so it's just not going to happen.
>>43531170>I would probably go there just to get closureYou don't get closure chasing people down to tell them how bad you feel.
>>435303752-3 years is how long it takes me to get over somebody>>43530545if you actually want to get over them you need to stop doing this, rereading the past trying to fix it is maladaptive daydreaming, burn the bridge by deleting all media of them and you'll eventually move on, but if you keep reminiscing you won't and just be stuck in a past-loop
>>43531170It’s okay nona, just date someone else with your issues and they will cancel out!
>>43531235Maybe, but I feel awful the way it ended I wish I was better to him and that day I got drunk after we had an argument and threatened to kms was the end and I only saw him when he was getting his stuff after that he was nice enough to give me a hug before I never saw him again though. We still texted for like a month very rarely after that until I told him I was going to get ffs because my insurance covers it and he called me retarded told me I didn't have the type of support I would need to do that let alone take time off of work and he never talked to me again.>>43531257Nice so it will take me over another year to get over this. It's not so easy for me to not reminisce. Even if I never looked at messages again which to be fair I haven't since maybe January. My ex literally fixed my cars and getting into the cars literally makes me think about him. My ex helped me get the job I have now and would call me when I was heading to work, when I was on break and when I was driving home so I kinda just think about him all the time when I work which is fucking awful.>>43531316I dated another troon once and she cheated on me. Shes not a terrible person though and I hold no ill will towards her.
>>43531170>I wish maybe he was my 2nd or 3rd boyfriend instead of my first maybe I would've learned to not do a few things I did and maybe it would've worked out.lol same for me and my ex, it definitely would have helped if we weren't each other's firsts
I got over my wife faster than you got over your dysfunctional bullshit op
>>43531528Congratulations I wish I was a normal cis human being, given I think if you got over your wife in less than 8 months that's worrying
>>43531528Are you proud of getting over your wife in 6 months? I feel like that's a major red flag
>>43530375DamnLet me guessBecause his dick was big and he was tallElliot Rodger was right about you foids
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>>43534372he was 5'8 maybe 5'9 and he had between a 5 and 6 inch dick I liked him for him as much as he would always say I just "liked the idea of him"
