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Is finding a trad trans wife an achievable goal? I have a trans gf right now, but she's too much of a NEET and a lefty to be "trad."
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>>43533543
Im into trad wife stuff but in an Orthodox jewish way. Are you a lawyer?
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>>43533543
yes but they are brown
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>>43533543
Ask her straight up if she wants to transform into being your tradwife. She may be into it after some convincing.
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>>43533543
yes it is possible but you need to be a really good husband
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>>43533543
can brown Trannies be "tradwives"?
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I want a wife who's a weeb
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I even study for it. I have dozens of books like picrel in my library
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Yes. But you have to basically make her.
Find a closeted one who wants to serve a man and be forcefemmed. And then YOU do it. You can't chase for a trad tranny wife without being real man yourself.
Con: it actually is a lot of work even if she really wants it and is into it.
Pro: it's very rewarding both for her and for you. And you get to mold her for your own desires and preferences, for the most part.

t. tranny wife haver
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>>43533543
being a neet is trad. working is for goyim atp
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>>43533550
>>43533587
No thanks, I'm a Christian
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>>43533588
Honestly I think the big part is you have to find someone who is early/pre-transition to do it.

Wait too long and trannies often end up pretty broken :(
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>>43533616
>>43533588
Yeah im so thankful my boyfriend claimed me almost immediately once he learned I was on estrogen because I had already known him for years and had a big crush on him and I can only imagine how much more my life would have been in flux without him there so early
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>>43533616
my wife wasn't really early (almost 3 years on E when we met). she was just a shy brainwormed almost 23yo boymoder tho.
And it really is hard work. I enjoyed most of it but I understand why guys don't stick around and I understand why some trannies get frustrated too. There are "user manuals" on how to troon but it's not like there's a user manual on how to forcefem. Took almost a year to make my girl feel safe enough to at least say if I'm not moving fast enough. Eventually I took over the whole process after reading disparate information allover the net and just trial and error.
But seriously, at some point there should be a minimal guide.
I also more or less unironically forced her to socialize. I wanted a functional wife not a fuck doll. She didn't quite like my attitude at first but now she laughs at how stubborn she used to be, heh.
>>43533646
How long together? Make sure you bring peace in his heart. Seriously, you have no idea how much this makes a man stay in love.
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>>43533552
i’m a brown tranny and i want a husband and kids…
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>>43533846
this is so cute wtf i want a boy to domesticate me
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>>43533868
im also a brown tranny and i want a husband and kids
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>>43533885
<3 i wish u the best. there’s too few of us to compete intrasexually
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>>43533846
I think it's also an age thing. I definitely waited too long and developed too much of a sense of self as a moid.
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>>43533896
we could share...
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>>43533846
>How long together?
Almost 2 years, hopefully I can move to his country soon too
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>>43533959
i’m a jealous girl sorry i couldn’t do that
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>>43533939
Neah, that can be solved. Patience, warm love and your consent can go a long way.
Mrs. Anon wouldn't even refer to herself in the feminine even in private just the two of us in the first few months. I didn't push too hard on her to stop boymoding in public but at home I insisted pretty early on: You're Mrs. Nona, I'm the man of the house. Now put on a comfy dress and let's cook.
We bonded over cooking. We still cook together.
Then after a while, I no longer allowed being a fag in public. Mrs. Nona has to be a lady around me. Fine, you get to "man" mode at work but not around me in our free time.
The timelines didn't align perfectly but good enough. The point was for her to have as little male ego as possible by the time of srs. This is another stage where guys fail. They either prefer no-op or just leave it entirely to her while having no opinion. But this is unfair both to me and to her. It's our little secret that she used to larp as a boy, but otherwise my wife has to look, feel, smell and behave like a woman. She was a bit skeptical but now she regrets not having had srs earlier.
I honestly don't understand guys who prefer no-op. It's better for her and for me now. Seeing how happy she is makes me happy too.
>>43533873
Unrealistic expectation. First of all, I'm not a boy, I'm a man. Boys can't feminize you. And even if they could, they don't want to. Only men may want that.
Secondly, "domesticated" isn't what men want. I wanted a wife, so a life partner (and that's very common for men), not a domestic animal.
>>43534008
or him in your country. Either way, you should soon live together. It's not good for either of you to stay separated, especially so early in the relationship.
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>>43534164
Yeah just sucks that the easiest way for one of to move is to get married we want to do this the right way, ill probably have to go to college to move to his country
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>>43534164
I mean something that happened with me is a lot of the stuff I enjoyed before transitioning (like cooking for others) is no longer good? Like I'm just horrified to be doing it. I also went from kind of girlmoding/fagmoding back to boymoding and it's odd.

Sometimes I think I am just a moid and transition is this weird act of self harm.
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>>43533939
nta but I was unironically str8 moid considering marriage with my cis gf and started transition at 24.
yeah, it's harder, though not by much. once I accepted that I'm not a man, it got easier. i didn't have the luck to be "force" femmed so I channeled the "moided" energy into feminizing myself. Found love only at 30 when I was almost done.
if you wait for things to happen to you, they won't.
>>43534164
>She was a bit skeptical but now she regrets not having had srs earlier.
I felt that, lol.
>[man] leave[s] [srs] entirely to her while having no opinion
And that too, lol. your Mrs. Nona is very lucky to have found you.
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>>43534238
I basically considered it to be forcefeminizing myself. I have a bf now but I don't know how things will go. I like him but it's like the closer I get to someone the less comfortable I am being intimate with them? It's weird. I don't like it.
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>>43533873
not a plant?
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>>43534283
>I have a bf now
Bring it up to him. See how he views this.
>the closer I get to someone the less comfortable I am being intimate with them
well, that's your first "force" task. Force yourself to get comfortable. Maybe you get lucky and you fall in love more deeply. But even if you don't, it's still good practice on your journey.
I certainly wasn't comfortable the first few times with my first bf. And at 25 I was "behind" you: deeply str8 moided mind and no idea of how to be with men as a woman or as a man, desu.
In the end it didn't work out but we were both good experience for each other. He eventually got with another tranny and they're still together now many years later. But those ~18 months together were very useful for both of us. He learned how to tranny and I got introduced on how men actually function.
>I also went from kind of girlmoding/fagmoding back to boymoding and it's odd
This is where a bf helps the most, honestly. I regressed twice like that when single because, quite frankly, I needed and need a man to keep me straight.
>Sometimes I think I am just a moid and transition is this weird act of self harm
Idk about you but I still see myself as fundamentally a failed male. Except existence as a post-op tranny just fits me much better.
The weird act of self harm was forcing large portions of my male ego out.
Still, you have to go at your own pace. There's nothing wrong with fagcoping and fagmoding for a while. Transition is just as much a mental process as it is a physical one.
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>>43534634
Thank you wise woman.
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>>43534300
neuron activation
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>>43533543
Being a NEET is trad.
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>>43533587
I'm not Jewish but I'm reading the old testament, just got to psalms. Drop disc to discuss?



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