I'm a straight tranny in her early 30s (5+yrs hrt and honmoding). When I was anorexic and younger I'd get a lot of male attention, but then I got hyper focused on my career and became single and chopped. I love my job but it doesn't make enough for FFS or SRS.Now I'm scared of dying alone as an ugly non passing trans woman. Not sure how to meet guys that wanna settle down for a eunuch with tits.I don't wanna come on to guys IRL and look like a sex pest. Conversely, if I come on to them and they think I'm cis it can get me hurt (almost got hate crimed a few weeks ago when i told the man about to fuck me I have a c*ck).I spend a lot of my time in lefty activist spaces (blue state/city) but most libs implicitly see trans women as ultra gay male freaks that must be protected from the Intolerant Right, not as three dimensional people or potential partners. I get treated best by normies that don't clock me, which has gotten harder given the media's hyperfixation on transsexuals.The apps also feel impossible; if I put 'Trans' on Tinder I get swamped with male coomers wanting me to top them (I have no interest in guys touching my pp). Grindr is uh grindr lol.do I accept being a femcel?? if not how do I find potential partners?? very open to advice.
>>43538508fuckass tattoo...sorry
>>43538508>(almost got hate crimed a few weeks ago when i told the man about to fuck me I have a c*ck)this is the worst bait in the catalog, by far. i thought pol would be too occupied with that trans british councillor who kept tweeting about dick but this takes the bait cake.
That's your tat? Nasty bomboratclat druggie
>>43538529idk what to tell you the b8s real m8>>43538517reasonable, it's usually hidden but I have plenty of other ugly tats visible
>>43538508>honmoding>trooned about 25ishYeah for sure>dudes think Im cisUh, no. Stop baiting us and stupid desperate drunk dudes. Maybe then you won't get strangled and dumped in a alley.>sex pestOh no you already are>blue stateOh ic. Yeah hon, you don't pass. Your community hugboxes you. Again stop taking advantage of drunk dudes.Only advice I have is lower your standards. Stop lying to yourself. Quit hooking up with drunk/desperate dudes. This is aex pest behavior. Save for surgeries. There isnt any magic to solve this situation. It kinda sounds like you know the problem and solution but just want an easy/ cheap out cause your community coddled you.
>>43538608dont get me wrong i love tats, and i wanna be covered in them, but each to their ownnn
>>43538702Haven't had sex in a long time (which is fine I'm not approaching guys) and only occasionally pass lol. Not a lot of hugboxing going on, and when it happens I wish it didn't.I told this guy I was trans repeatedly and he thought I was doing a bit because his only exposure to trannys was right wing caricatures on tv. If there's no solution besides "wait 5 years and save for FFS" c'est la vie.
>>43538508i thought picrel was gonna be this for a second>most libs implicitly see trans women as ultra gay male freaks that must be protected from the Intolerant Right, not as three dimensional people or potential partners>I get treated best by normies that don't clock meyeah this idkim coming up 30, 8 years hrt, post ffs and thought ok, maybe i could meet people organically outside apps, but yeah - as you said it's like nobody takes us seriously if they know we're trans, which inevitably comes up when seeking a relationship, especially if you're pre-srswe kinda get to live the life of the auxillary ugly/disabled person in group settings
>>43538780>completely avoids the drunk desperate dude part.Again stop going to normie bars. You setting yourself up to get killed. Use whatever faggy lil French term you want but it won't change the facts.Im a hon too and I work customer service. My city is a mix. But I do not lie to myself about what my options are. I dont let that pity from people go to my head. (I guedd the rude rigjtwing folks keep that in check) You know what I did? I dated chasers and vehemently explained to everyone what I wanted in a relationship. I lowered my standards and found a man who was a chopped as me and compromised with them in what we were each wanting from the relationship. I found the standards I had, (mind you I wanted a tall jacked military dude with kids who were willing to have a tranny step Mom) were stupid, unrealistic and not even what I really wanted. What I got was a decently hung gamer dude trying to climb out of the gamer gate pipeline. And we made it work. We talk and learned that we were willing to work with each other. I realized I really dont want kids I am responsible for. He realized that tranny cock tastes a smell alot more like a vagina. (He hates the taste of pussy because he is gayer than he'd like to admit.) Ive been with him now 3+ years. I love him. And he does on me. Maybe this give you an idea on how to move forward. Maybe you just turn up your nose me. But that isbthe advice I have.Also DTOP BEING A FUCKING SEX PEST! A bigger optics nvke than just being a slightly outspoken hon.
>>43538508fr thought that was a tattoo of a guy sucking another dude's dick for a second, also you injected in the wrong part of the thigh.
>>43538508you should make an account on a queer app and date a trans guy
I am 21, been on HRT for 5 years now. I am stealth (moved to a new city) but I am still ugly.Only guy who has ever liked me has been an obese brown midget. No other man has ever showed real interest in me. For the last year and a half I have been trying to cope with the fact that I will be alone all my life but it's been too hard. I have to give up on what almost everybody else gets solely for existing. I feel sick and disabled. Only people who are sick and disabled go all their youth without any romantic experience.
>>43538529>almost got hate crimedThis almost happened to me as well. Went home with some guy at the bar. I genuinely thought he knew and didn't mind. When my panties were coming off he got fucking mad and berated me as I was getting dressed about disclosing. For a few moments I was really fucking scared that I was about to get choked out or beat up. Not everything is bait
>>43538928>i thought picrel was gonna be this for a secondlol same
>>43539101Did you like the obese brown midget back?
holy shit, prison gays are FUCKED in the head.glad i only date women as a manmoder.
>>43539101try showing interest in awkward nerds that continue to talk to you (without showing indicators of active disinterest) after you flirting with them, online and long-form works pretty well. it's how my ex got me
>>4353850827, lets not fuck ig. I wont use pronouns other than he/him. I have dysphoria but no means of transitioning beyond making sure my hairline is fixed and my testicles are gone, and any gyno is removed.We wont ever have sex because it makes me feel dirty and used like garbage.
>>43538508I like your tattoo Nona, gl finding someone. Having a career and not being a hyper online weirdo makes you sound a lot more appealing than a lot of the people who post on this board regularly.
