I am a 34 year old tranny and my boyfriend keeps trying to dress me up in hot topic skirts and dresses. How do I get him to stop? It is not age appropriate
wear more modest alternative clothing
how are skirts not age appropriate?
>>43543057girl I see 50 year olds up here walking around in golfing miniskirts, some of my favorite youtubers are scenecore emos in their 30's
>>43543476the skirts at hot topic are super fucking short
>>43543573so you can't wear short skirts for your boyfriend?
>>43543057He’s based & you should dress cuter
>>43543596im not op but she sounds uncomfortable for skimpy slutty 14 year old hot topic skirts
>>43543645why would slutty clothing be more appropriate for a 14 year old than a 34 year old?
>>43543676because only teenagers and early 20 somethings buy and wear that shit
>>43543057What kind of clothes do you like OP?
>>43543057emo for life
>>43543805
>>43543894:3 (wish i was teen during 2009 :( )
My gf won't go to the mall with me anymore because I kept making her try shit on at hot topic lol
are guys really into the hot topic look that much?
>>43543936I was 14 in 2009It wasn't very special
>>43544031yes and no. they've been putting some lame stuff out recently like disney merch. so you kinda have to sift through the landfill stuff
>>43544053oh well, i can dream though :)
Send him this post and tell him it makes you uncomfortable. If he doesn't respect your feelings, start escalating.
>>43544070I'd rather be a teenager now than back then. Being LGBT is much more accepting now.
>>43544070>>43544112Also its easier to get hormones as a teenager and parents understand the concept of being "transgender" better now.
>>43544031Men go nuts for alt trannies
>>43544180I'm too tasteful to go alt IT'S OVER
<3 Transwomen dressed tastefully and like working professionals.
>>43544214A man of culture. Give me a OL tranny any day of the week
>>43544013based
>>43544214I wish I could do this but I'm a downwardly mobile college dropout with no true career prospects. Sad!
>>43545538time to get on that grindset nona
>>43544295red nose
>>43544214How do you feel about dolls in suits?
>>43547141I don’t think I’ve ever encountered any irl, but I’m sure they’re lovely. There’s a transwoman who comes into the cafe I work at, and she’s always dressed “office chic”. She clearly knows about fashion, and her clothing is all age appropriate. It’s a good look and she comes off as very self possessed.
I have zero idea how to dress myself and still have clothing from when I was a teenager
>>43548619i dress like this too everyone seems to think i dress well but i'm self conscious
>>43544112Same. Hasn't been that long since it's been outright illegal to just be gay over here. Only recently (mid 30s), I started to accept and somewhat openly show my bi femboy/twink side; including starting diy a month ago.Before, it was very difficult to impossible to stray from my established outside persona due to anxiety (I did get beat up randomly once, because some strangers assumed I was gay, based purely on looks, when I was a teen), especially with anything that could be seen as not 100% manly and straight. Added on top are issues from DV in my childhood, so I always tried to (subconsciously) protect myself from non-existent threats.Oh to be young in this day and age...
>>43549033I’m sorry you still feel conscious; I imagine it’s tough to ever fully get away from that as a trans person.Really though, I think people should dress in whatever they feel comfortable or happy in. I’d just recommend trying out a fashionable and age appropriate style for anyone who hasn’t before.
