Why are transbian relationships so toxic?
Well those two are dangerously mentally illMe and my t4t gf are literally the most boring trannies in America. We just work and hang out at home like fucking normal people. We don't live in a piss van telling each other to kill yourself while filming it for the entire internet to laugh at the both of us. We do our fun gay little road trips every other month or so and chill with our 2 cats at homeWhy the fuck do some of you have to be so fucking mental and make the rest of us look like suicidal serial abusers, at least fucking stop documenting it all on the internet...
not to be assumptive but most of these people probably dont want to date other tladies. its probably that. theyre coping
>>43549054Male socialization. Too much horny and not enough care and considerstion about how your actions or words affect others
>>43549054They mimich lesbian relationships
>>43549098Yeah that too desu. Too many tgirls force themselves into bad t4t relationships that they don't want to be in and aren't in the right head space to even be in. My gf is pan and I'm a bi top-verse anyway so we haven't had any issues in 2.5 years, we've had an argument once and it lasted maybe 10 minutes lol with both of us repeatedly apologizing for being stupid, and that "fight" was just us slightly yelling our feelings about a situation we were in together lmao. I had way worse arguments (probably about 200 of them lol) when I was 20 dating a cis girl.
Why do you care?
>>43549054This isn't a “transbian problem” but textbook intimate partner violence: beatings, death threats, gaslighting. And the survivor's years of radical devotion (driving, housing, funding surgeries, cleaning) reveal exactly the kind of fierce, ride-or-die love that makes trans women such compelling, desirable partners for anyone lucky enough to earn it back.The bravest, most loving act now she could do is to redirect that devotion toward her own safety, leave immediately, and let a future healthy romance prove that a transbian's passion doesn't have to be martyrdom.
There is toxicity in all human relationships. Transbians are not especially bad. You have sampling bias due to hanging out in places with very few cis people in them.
>>43549054Two men with bdp in a relationship? Any outcome that doesn't end in murder-suicide is positive.